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[–]Black_Box0110 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are good looking enough all girls are open to cold approaching by a handsome guy. That being said, party, night clubbin girls are the most receptive to cold approaches.
[–]Velociraptor2018 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You want a girl who doesn’t go out. I’d suggest hitting up an indie code shop on a Saturday morning or a bookstore. Maybe hobby lobby, craft store, farmers market. Also church is a great option.
As for if they’re open to being approached it’s kind of a crap shoot. I’ve never been told off initially if that helps. Most like it actually, it’s an ego boost
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you seriously want a wife, look outside the U.S.
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can’t know ahead of time. There are women who I assumed my approach would be a waste of time and others who ate it up.
The more bites at the Apple. The better
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This rly depends.
If guy is conventionally attractive his results from cold approaching will differ considerably compared to ugly guy.
[–]Skill-Additional 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to a club or bar or other social or networking event because people go to these places to be sociable, relax and have fun. You will naturally increase your odds and it won’t be creepy. Put yourself in their shoes, how would you want to be approached?
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You have to have situational awareness. I would recommend that you spend a significant amount of time in places where people go to meet others. Singles bars, clubs but some big coffee house can also work. Spend time people watching and observing couples on dates, etc. notice which girls give off approaching signals.
Now you can approach women the way 9/10 guys do it on here and be totally random and you will maybe get a number 1/10 times. Or you can do it like me and only need to approach 2-3 girls a week to keep your dating card full.
First you need to decide what type of girl you want and what you want her for. Some things are mutually exclusive. If you like smart nerdy girls, you may want to go to your local library or book store. The chances of meeting a girl at a bookstore and getting her in bed for wild no holds barred sex and hour later are slim to none.
But if fast sex is what you want, then you need a bar or a club slut, girl who is out looking to get laid not meet Prince Charming. You will find her in the club not at your bookstore. Get it? What do you want and what do you want women for?
Once you have figured that out, you need to look for a woman's body language. How open or closed it is. Is she receptive or does she look upset, too shy, distressed, unhappy? Typically girls who want to meet someone try to get a lot of attention on themselves. Women live for the attention of an alpha male who will come in and choose them.
The hardest girls to pick up are the girls that everyone thinks are the easiest. The average looking, dressed down wall flowers. Guys feel the least intimidated by them but they are also the women who are most neurotic and will make it hard to pick them up because they have too many hang ups.
So look for radiant, happy women who stand in well lit areas (to show off their beauty). Avoid the ones who are huddled up in large groups or wjth a friend and are not facing the scene. Women who are "looking" will have their body and face towards the crowd constantly scanning for Prince Charming.
[–]flagstaffvwguy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks!
[–]YouNWA 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So when you say spend time observing and people watching, do you recommend doing it with binoculars?
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