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Therocksays2020 · 2022-05-16T02:00:12+00:00

Haha nah I am in my 30s and plenty of women still love and chase “bad guys”

daring_innovator · 2022-05-16T14:03:41+00:00

Bad boys are always going to intrigue women all the time because a bad boy presents a challenge that women need. Women need a constant challenge & somebody thats kind of a mystery. When women get married they settle down with the best providers they can get. The problem is they become too familiar with their husbands so things get too predictable & he’s too figured out by then and the game is over. But if a bad boy comes around it makes the wife feel “hmmm who is this guy?” again because the bad boy doesn’t a give a fuck about her and so it makes her feel like she can be a slut again because she knows he won’t take her serious anyway & won’t commit to her. But she likes it & it’s turning on parts of her brain that’s commonly dormant in marriages/LTRs.

She can start to play the game again but this time with a bad boy & she knows she shouldn’t do this but he just does everything so well & he puts her in a trance. Also, his pull is too powerful for her to resist him that she just gives in to him because he’s hitting all the “right places” very fast: her repressed sexuality, the chase & taming him/fixing him, the thrill of cheating with him, her emotions going up & down, his boldness, his indifference to her, memories of her slutty youth, horniness, his physical attributes, kinks, imagination etc.

Another thing is bad boys are hard to “tame” so it stimulates her emotions knowing that he’s gonna be a wild ride & bad boys exhibit spontaneous behaviors making him unpredictable, usually cold & has multiple sexual partners so it drives her imagination wild knowing all this about him. She can finally let her guard down because the bad boys know how to ‘hit all the right buttons.’ He’s always keeping her on her toes which is why girls are attracted to bad boys because they love an emotional roller coaster ride of a man, hot dirty sex & the way he doesn’t give a fuck about her and will just use her, girls find this so hot. She knows he won’t judge her for cheating or anything because he doesn’t give a fuck so he’s seen as “trustworthy.” Lastly, her age doesn’t matter nor relationship status applies here, the girl is still a girl & attraction is universal. She can be 18 or 55 if the bad boy is near her it’s over. Done. His allure is too good.

It’s not that women cheat it’s just that the Bad boy was just “too good” so it kinda happened.. But how to know all this? I have friends who are them bringing new girls every week of all statuses, all ages, it really doesn’t apply.

20ftScarf · 2022-05-16T02:42:14+00:00

A little of both. Most prevalent in youth. Some grow out of it, some don’t. Similar to chronic immaturity or fear of commitment in men (and non-men).

VeliVoy · 2022-05-16T03:36:42+00:00

They are just attractive/good looking.

If they were ugly and short and had that personality then they will be met with hostility.

2022-05-16T02:07:08+00:00

Yes and no. Women between 25-30 start to “settle down” and try finding husband material.

spiderSlayerr · 2022-05-16T06:26:29+00:00

It’s called nature. How women have always been since the dawn of time. Every women is secretly attracted to bad boys because they show dominance and bad boys aren’t afraid to do what they want when they need to. This shows they can be assertive and protective in the future. So if your a guy in early 20s you drive a nice car(manual even), smoke cigs, dress nice, have nice long hair, show dominance in general, act like your at the top and girls notice.

Emmy-bby · 2022-05-16T09:07:19+00:00

I don’t like bad boys bc the type I assume ur referring too would most likely be abusive, cheaters, or immature. No woman enjoys a mean guy.

Zealousideal-Gur-570 · 2022-05-16T01:55:36+00:00

would you consider yourself a nice guy

social_mastery · 2022-05-16T09:23:08+00:00

Both. Typically girls that are considered to be more "toxic" are the ones that will go for the bad boys to compensate for a lack of strong father figure in their life.

As for age, after the age of 25, women start shifting their preferences to guys which aren't "Bad boys" anymore. Because as thrilling as it was, they know they get treated like shit every time.

So hopefully, they learn their lesson. That's the reason why they like mature guys the older they get. In most cases though.

VeliVoy · 2022-05-17T08:45:00+00:00

Women want both kinds of men: Bad boys and nice guys Alpha males and beta males Leaders and followers Jerks and sweethearts

They want different guys for different needs. Women want the bad boys for sex (because their unpredictable and dominant nature makes them better in bed).

They want the nice guys for everything but sex (nice guys tend to be predictable and boring and even passive BUT they can also be funny and empathic and kind etc). Sometimes women will give the nice guys a bit of sex to keep them around but it's not enthusiastic sex.

How do women meet all their needs? They either cheat on the side with a bad boy while pretending to be faithful to the nice guy to keep him around OR they find a guy who is a mix of the best parts of a bad boy and nice guy, that is he is unpredictable and funnin bed and dominant but also kind and funny and empathic at times too.

When women are older their urgency for marriage and kids comes so they PRETEND not to be into bad boys so they can snatch up a nice guy for marriage. It's not that they don't like bad boys, it's just they want marriage and don't want to give off any impression they are sluts or that they are into bad boys so they can attract a nice guy partner for marriage.

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