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[–]Coaeval 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It probably means what it obviously means, but that shouldn’t matter man, you got a girlfriend, direct your focus onto her dude
[–]Kadabrium 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
introduce her to your gf m, this sub needs more memes
[–]SelectionNearby6836 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It will be done my lord.
[–]TheNextBigCrash 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The fact that you’re even dwelling on this tells me your GF deserves better.
Anyone with half a brain would leave that situation 1) realising gym girl is attracted to you, and 2) instantly recognising that that doesn’t matter at all because you’re in a relationship.
Sort your shit out man.
[–]SnooShortcuts8381 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great stuff here. But don't fuck things up for your girl. If you can't stay with her, leave her bro
[–]Erbium-Oxide 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re taken. It’s not that complicated.
[–]Skill-Additional 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you need to work on your existing relationship and find some other way of dealing with your sex drive.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The only reason to ever cheat is if you gf isn’t putting out enough, at all, or the sex is really bad. Otherwise, you shouldn’t be flirting with this woman.
[–]SelectionNearby6836 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I guess I’ll explain in this comment more. My libido is very high compared to my gf. To the point where I don’t enjoy sex because she wants it over and done with after a few minutes and I know I can and want to go longer. The second thing is that while I over our relationship period have tried to get all the junk food, fast food, and unhealthy habits out of our lives and start exercising more. She does the opposite and it feels like she’s fighting me so hard. In 3 years I went from 207 to 300 back to 235 currently. I’m very muscular as I workout a lot and try to look very good for my gf. She told me I worry about my body too much and it’s obsessive. Meanwhile while I eat healthy, shred weight and lift heavy. She buys Cheetos, snack foods and eats out all the time. Then proceeds to wonder why she hasn’t lost any weight. Literally 0 lbs lost maybe transferred to muscle a little but still no change whatsoever. If I bring this up she gets annoyed that I’m on her about food. I feel like the only thing keeping me is that I do love her in my heart and her family is amazing.
And out of all the comments saying don’t give eye contact. It just happened out of nowhere like a trance, felt like she forced the smile out of me with her eyes. I would never just go bang someone right then and there I’m not a whore. I would however consider ending my relationship with my current girlfriend for this new woman who I already know shares a love for the gym and physical fitness as a career path. I have seen Scott Pilgrim enough times to not mess this up.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Let me bottom line it for you: You’re not happy. Now, that you know the problem, what are you going to do about it ?
[–]SelectionNearby6836 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m having that exact convo with a friend rn. I guess it just took putting it in front of me to see.
[–]wj2smooth 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was in a similar situation. Bottom line: you can’t change people into who YOU want them to be. You can change who THEY want to be though. It’s tricky, but you have to get her to like eating healthy or going to the gym. (This is it’s own form of manipulation tbh) comment how good she looks after working out or in gym clothes, or cook her healthy foods. If you want her to like what you like you have to put the work in. You also have to realize that the grass is only greener where you water it. Perhaps you’re looking deeply into this situation with gym girl because things aren’t going well with your actual girl. Strongly consider what you’re giving up for what you may gain. (Could be a great move could be a shit move). Weigh your pros and cons, good luck!
[–]ModeratorElbynerual 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means you didn't read rule #1.
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