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[–]NineteenAD9 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What do you gain by doing that? She's not your girlfriend.
It's a terrible move.
[–]Thin_Protection5616 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No other comment necessary. This is the right answer, OP.
Don't ask why. Just accept it and follow it.
[–]mischavand 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I realize how bad it is now to be honest. I thought maybe she would get jealous and want me more but that just is really toxic. I totally understand now. Kinda doubting why I even thought of it now haha
[–]NineteenAD9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's better to see it than to hear it.
If a girl sees you out at a bar with another girl, then good. If you tell her you're going to the bar with another girl, then bad.
[–]mischavand 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea I was comparing it with this but that is a whole different kind of thing I realised. I really realize why now.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmfao, no.
I know you are thinking “oh i will inspire jealousy in her and she will like me more”.
But the reality is all she is thinking is: “Why is he telling me that? is he trying to manipulate me?”
You will activate her defences by doing that.
If you want the girl to feel that you have options you don’t do it like that. You sub communicate it by not being needy, and being selective. Not by literally staying “hey other girls want to fuck with me just so you know”.
It’s like if a girl said “you know i have many other guys wanting to have sex with me that i could call right now” (which by the way it’s true)
That would just be weird and any smart guy would know the girl is trying to manipulate him and trying to get a reaction from him.
Yea know I really realize now, stupid thought of me.
[–]atomant88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hells no
[–]nopenotmedude 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
telling your date you have high value is like having to tell someone a joke you just said was funny.
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