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[–]Contango6969 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I became friends with a "natural" in high school because we happened to be in all the same classes. He basically taught me a lot of game concepts before game was even a well known thing at all. It wasnt mystery method or anything basically cocky/funny, dont be a pussy, and the power of the numbers game. I didnt slay pussy in high school but I went from a world of warcraft player to like having a phone full of a lot of girls numbers and I did get laid a few times with girls I would have thought way out of my league a year before.
[–]srd4 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
He was a natural and, as mentioned in Strauss' book, had the combo of animal instinct, curiosity, accessibility to women, and looks from a young age that enabled him so.
Girls on his block would play kiss games with him from a young age. They would touch him and explore his body, and as teenagers would use him as sexual experiments, letting him explore theirs.
But at around 17-18 years of age, he started to go bald. He'd have spots where his hair would fall off and not grow back anymore, and spots where it grew so fast he'd have to shave daily to keep his head even-looking. In those places, it grows so fast we joke about you being able to hear it.
He actually had the condition since he was 7, but it came in episodes where his hair would start falling off again.
Kids are fucked up, so it fucked his self-esteem and confidence big time too, particularly with women. One of whom he was having a relationship at the time of the last episode of baldness from which he remains shaving to this day.
At the end of that relationship, he was destroyed. And he saw himself without the skills all his life felt naturally had.
Probably after some googling, the road he took was to learn game.
He had always been physically active. Started boxing and working out to confront the bullying at school with his fists. Worked a lot on exploring and improving his appearance. Read classic and new PUA and seduction-related material, from which he started developing his style.
He'd go out night game with no money, by himself, and start having interactions with the goal of feeling awesome without using any alcohol.
He has stories of chicks making their male friends pay for his drinks. Setting himself goals of making out with a determined number of women in one night and delivering. Taking home taller, hotter, and overall out of his league women home. Of opening mothers and getting them on his side to make the daughters go out with him.
One time he was crying at the table of one bar, picking the curiosity of two girls nearby. He was crying due to the recent breakup with mentioned girl. He ended up taking home and having a threesome with those two girls that night (vulnerability is the shit, read Manson's model book if you want to know more).
He'd also pair stranger (to each other) women together and take them home to do threesomes.
He slowed down mid and after the pandemic, and because of one of the many girls he had sex with he impregnated with his now 2-year-old daughter. He also banged that woman's sister. The thing got out of control a bit at some point, he knows.
We meet and became friends through high school and sharing a dark sense of humor. Strangely enough never discussed pua, seduction, or game directly with him. The only thing I knew is that he fucked and I didn't.
I spontaneously became interested in game after the pandemic and once he noticed started giving me advice. Through which I was shocked to discover how much he knew from actively learning theory and going out to practice all by himself.
As I'm learning game myself we are starting to go back together and have interactions, discussions on theory, and field reports again.
Find this so valuable for other friends that started participating and sharing our experiences in places like this one.
edit: a couple misspells
[–]Informal_Fishing5729 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
My Chad story is super stereotypical so I don’t believe it could be if any help.
One of my best friends, 6 feet 3”, 243 lbs muscular guy from a town in southern Italy. He is the exact copy of a Giga chad with Sylvester Stallone facial features. Very gentle and respectful with his friends but when we’re playing football or when you argue with him he is the worst competitive and arrogant dickhead you could ever met.
I’ve seen him approached by 9/10 and 10/10 girls tons of time at parties and even at supermarkets. After the first 5 minutes he basically get them to talk about sex. He fucks them the day after most of the time, and after having finished with them he goes to meet other women.
He comes quite strong when talking to girls and when hitting the sex topic he starts flexing about how long he lasts and how good he is, making women crazy. He showed me few videos and I can tell he keep what he says.
Nb: at least a half of the women he met are “happily married”, many with kids. So he’s also a super narcissistic douche.
[–]Liberaler 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Comparing oneself to guys, who were total outliers from the start, is not motivating to most more or less average guys. Rather look at someone average, who turned his life around by hard work.
[–]Thin_Protection5616 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Hardly a chad, but I once hooked up with a girl who had a bf who she was cheating on with my friend.
My friend was in my living room listening the whole time and her bf showed up at my apartment as well. I basically yelled at him to go away after he had already heard me banging his chick (my friend was kinda loser and cool with the situation).
About an hour into the smash session, her best friend shows up and is like, 'wtf is going on, your boyfriend is freaking out.'
She was also pregnant at the time so I hit it raw.
She told me thank you afterwards.
I was like 17, had no idea what game was, but had fairly high status because I was the only kid in my highschool who had their own apartment.
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[–]vardarac 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chad has a couple meanings. In some places on the net it means a guy who does things above and beyond, in the places it originated (incel forums etc.) it means guys who are naturally better looking or more physically attractive such that they have to put little effort into dating.
It's the latter that incels believe prevent them from ever having a chance in the dating arena. This is obviously untrue to anyone with any real-world experience, but Chad is nevertheless a focus of incel hate.
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[–]Thin_Protection5616 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with this.
The designation of 'chad' is usually a cope by losers to explain away their loserdom
'muh (sniffle sniffle) I was born with the wrong genetics (blows nose into tissue).
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