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Jbrock14 · 2022-04-29T13:59:29+00:00

Well how do you rationalize yourself dating multiple people at once? It’s the same thing.

Just assume she’s dating around to find someone who fills her “attractive physically and personality wise” requirement the same way you are.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-04-29T14:09:15+00:00

It's none of your business until she wants to be exclusive with you

This is not to "tell you what to do" rather but a mindset to have

It's just none of your business. Any time spent thinking about it will only hurt you (you realize this as it may change your behaviors to needy) The freedom to come and go willingly is what a valuable man offers women he dates. That is what sets you apart. We love seeing women flutter about and their feminine energy flourish in our presence. Anything to stifle that is rope for other guys to hang themselves. Losers can go and try to lock down women.

So just treat her like the rest till she starts to fall for you and she asks "so where is this going?"

Not to peach to you, just sharing thoughts

2022-04-29T18:31:24+00:00

Lol! Stop being a jealous tool when you’re doing the same thing.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-29T14:03:03+00:00

If I start to feel that way, I take it as a sign that it's time to ask her to be exclusive

hulk_hogans_nutsweat · 2022-04-29T15:43:08+00:00

If you don’t want her fucking other guys, then you need to talk to her about being exclusive. Until then, there’s nothing you can do about it. Always assume that any woman you’re seeing is also fucking someone else.

PAULL-BLART · 2022-04-29T19:21:06+00:00

Damn bro 2-3 at a time😂 you must be one hella 6 pack chad then

Global-Bridge-6787 · 2022-04-29T15:45:16+00:00

You don’t. You keep having fun and see where the chips fall.

RideTheRim · 2022-04-29T14:38:53+00:00

You can’t have your cake and eat it too and not expect other people to want to do the same

yourlittleman01 · 2022-04-29T15:06:28+00:00

What a hypocrite dude

2022-04-29T14:03:51+00:00

What goes around comes around.

Amer1kop · 2022-04-29T19:45:09+00:00

"can't lose what you never had in the first place" is my philosophy. Try rationalizing with the caveman inside you that your value to her isn't based solely on sex/physical attraction -- as you can find that anywhere.

as you said, you're picky... but if you're developing feelings for her, make sure it isn't built on carnal desire / jealousy / false-machismo with some sense of entitlement towards her body. If you're looking for a mate, be honest with yourself about it and articulate your feelings about what you prefer about her as opposed to other women.

Making her feel special and letting her know you're potentially interested in something more go hand-in-hand. No need to be upset if casual sex/ no strings attached is the preface of being together. Just be honest with yourself when you start catching feelings, say it out loud and don't be afraid of "loss" when all is yours to gain.

Informal_Fishing5729 · 2022-04-29T21:12:44+00:00

Drop her in the toilet

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