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[–]rofnacla 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You lack game.
[–]not_shajal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100%. It's not what you have it's that your game that sells. Game is so important. Working on your game improves your chance of having more women or finding that one.
[–]Snakehead004 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is true but the term "game" bothers me.. I see way too many posts from dudes who probably can get low self esteem woman to sleep with them through weird behaviors and tricks but they'll never be happy long term because they're not genuinely connecting with people. They wake up at 30 and realize they've learned game but have no idea how to be a decent genuine person..
[–]atomant88 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
work on your social skills and make approaches
[–]incognito3107 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to make approaches and take your chances somehow. Help your luck and throw yourself into social situations where you can meet woman. It's not like women will come to you out of nowhere.
If you have some height complex, then just hit on girls that are much shorter than you (for now). Still, you should keep learning about pickup game and work on upgrading your physical and mental attributes.
[–]norwegiandoggo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What is your question?
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never go to parties, I don’t drink.
Problem #1
I heard that females want to have fun, okay me too but their idea of fun is a nightmare to me.
Problem #2
I developed a lot of negative emotions and anger to women because of my experiences with them.
Problem #3
[–]heretolearnsth 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Another blackpill loser
[–]Several-Albatross741 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can’t blame men and boys growing up that come to these conclusions when the left leaning West pushes for women’s “equality” at the detriment of psychologically sound boys (and girls).
Working on the career is highly pushed for women as the sole important part of their lives, over having a family. Men may do the same, but it doesn’t work for either gender. A well rounded life in all aspects (social, financial, sexual, etc.) is the best solution.
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am aware of tactic “don’t chase, attract”
Does that mean you expect the women to all come to you? That's not how it works.
"To chase" means to follow after someone who is running away. Don't do that.
But you do have to "approach" the ones that are milling around you if you ever want to date anyone. There are very, very few women who will initiate anything.
[–]Ok-Professional2756 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound whiny. Women feel that instantly. Start by working on that.
I don’t put women on pedestal I never simp I am aware of tactic “don’t chase, attract”
Get all this pua nonsense out of your mind. That's what's hurting you, you're way too in your head about it and I feel you're putting pressure on picking up women. If you don't like clubs don't go, you'll never attract someone in a situation that you're not happy and having fun. Do things that you enjoy and meet woman through that. Make a stronger friend circle that doesn't enjoy drinking like you. Meet people anywhere just practice talking to everyone wherever you..
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