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Edwardmoon123 · 2022-03-22T09:18:58+00:00

Wardrobe and body language is basically a language of its own in flirting.

tophattgame · 2022-03-22T10:10:39+00:00

You say you attract average guys? But you do not find them attractive right?

So you should be able to sympathize with the guys you are attracted to. They attract you but do not find you attractive.

Everyone is allowed to have preferences.

Woman can like tall handsome jacked handsome millionaires

Men can want beautiful young attractive women.

And you cannot shame people for wanting what they want. That's just life. It's not gonna change.

If you REALLY want to be attractive for someone. Look at who they are trying to talk to and be with. And become that. But just be aware you don't lose who you are.

vardarac · 2022-03-22T09:18:52+00:00

Post pics in the brutally honest subreddits, if you really want to know if the issue is your appearance.

Nullroute127 · 2022-03-22T09:41:22+00:00

There's a strange curve of attractiveness vs approachability. If you're not physically attractive and overweight, we don't approach. If you're an absolute smoke show, less men will approach. You're most approachable when you seem in league.

Hard to say what the case is for you specifically. Personally, I avoid girls with unnaturally colored hair (blues, pinks) anything more than highlights, caked on makeup, oversized fake boobs, etc. The makeup thing for me is like guys that are 'too nice' to women; it seems like you're trying to hide something.

Also have to remember that if you're in a large social setting, you need to be more attractive and/or inviting than the others. Perhaps there's something about your lack of self confidence that guys are picking up on, so you seems cold/uninviting/'bitchy.'

When you're "actually going for" guys, what are you doing?

NotANerdReally · 2022-03-22T09:29:16+00:00

Like the other comment said, post pics in brutally honest subreddits if you really want to know if your appearance is the issue. Or use Photofeeler. Everybody is bad at judging their own looks.

Enterpreneur20 · 2022-03-22T09:59:46+00:00

Seems like your friends are too hot or maybe you just have an inferiority complex and it reflects in your behaviour, so you just make people desire them more than you

QueasyEducator5205 · 2022-03-22T10:07:59+00:00

post a piccccc

Snoo-62854 · 2022-03-22T10:38:55+00:00

Very few guys feel confident about approaching, so don't worry someone will. Talk to people and smile.

2022-03-22T10:40:54+00:00

oh poor pitiful you who has to do some approaching herself.

spare me with the sob story when you look at the fact that guys already do 98% of it.

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