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Thin_Koala_606 · 2022-03-18T04:47:09+00:00

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Easy-Arachnid-8658 · 2022-03-18T02:42:46+00:00

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TheWhiteWalkerSpeaks · 2022-03-18T04:21:19+00:00

It's because you get too anxious about having to satisfy her and perform. You need to relax and completely be okay if you don't get hard. Just be in the moment and enjoy oral sex, kissing her etc. When you are making out and your mind is constantly worried about if you will get hard when it's time for penetration, you will mess it up.

Easy-Arachnid-8658 · 2022-03-18T02:37:13+00:00

Performance anxiety likely I’m not doctor but talk to yours about getting a prescription for something like Cialis if your doctor determines it could benefit you. Had the same thing when I was starting in the game don’t trip.

jessiepc145 · 2022-03-18T05:02:11+00:00

Stop watching porn and masturbating

Yesu777 · 2022-03-18T03:47:46+00:00

Stop watching porn

ChoppedBelAir · 2022-03-18T06:12:04+00:00

It's performance anxiety. Let it go hard and enjoy the cuddle and making out until you relax and it comes back. Maybe use it as time to do some foreplay. If she bails then she wasnt a keeper anyway

caledonguy · 2022-03-18T04:10:15+00:00

Go get a Viagra prescription for now and cut out the porn.

Csoles520 · 2022-03-18T04:38:27+00:00

Pop a rhino pill and go see a doctor

fuckaliscious · 2022-03-18T14:46:45+00:00

You've got a problem, focus your attention on solving it.

Go see a doctor for your junk and another doc/counselor for your anxiety. Stop jacking off and stop watching porn. Focus on your health with at least 45 minutes of some kind of exercise a day.

Make the solution a priority, otherwise you're just whining.

Your issue is readily solvable.

MeTarzanAaaaahhh · 2022-03-18T16:17:31+00:00

Get Cialis. Warn her that it’s going to be hard AF all night if she wants it lol

i_like_octopus · 2022-03-18T19:08:24+00:00

I've had the same problem and it's just now starting to get better. Don't listen to the pill people its all in your head. Just remember that she wants this just as much as you do. Take your time and really think about what youre doing and live in the moment.

atwiz · 2022-03-19T05:40:52+00:00

Performance anxiety. Happens to the best of us. I suggest getting good at oral. Watch some guides , practice when you get the opportunity, communicate with your partner. You may not be able to perform down there, but your hands and mouth will always be there

TwoTomatoMe · 2022-03-18T05:03:32+00:00

You want an actual immediate solution: find generic viagra on the web. You can probably get like 120 pills for like $60 and you could probably get away with a half a pill if you break each one in two. Don’t use it for masturbation, only use it for any night you go out. Takes about 45mins to kick in, so some night you might just have to take it for the just-in-case. Nobody needs to know about it and when you’re giving the girl the rock hard performance who gives a fuck about anyone’s judgement if you got a little help from a pill. Next steps: Buy a flesh light and cut down on your porn. You’re dick got too used to fucking your hand and that’s most likely why it goes soft when it’s in an actual time to fuck environment. So when you masturbate you now have an actual purpose instead of mindlessly jerkin your dick into dick-ignorant performance. Good luck.

Woujo · 2022-03-18T06:43:28+00:00

It sounds like you have performance anxiety. You need to relax and focus on enjoying the moment. You may need therapy.

I rarely recommend guys get hookers, but you may want to get one to do the act without caring what she thinks.

WickedThumb · 2022-03-18T07:44:27+00:00

Performance anxiety is a thing. If you can plan for it, viagra (sildenafil) can be taken approx an hour before sex, if you can't plan for it, Cialis (taladafil) lasts longer.

A decent doctor should give you a prescription without much faff.

Skizznitt · 2022-03-18T06:43:54+00:00

Might have low testosterone too. Maybe get a hormone blood panel.

TheChestHairComeback · 2022-03-18T07:35:32+00:00

If it’s all natural I’m good, but the second She asks if I have a condom instant flaccid

ricky0408 · 2022-03-18T12:35:53+00:00

Been there . Forget everything for 50 dats, no porn, no masturbation, no orgasm. Keep no making out with girls. It will happen for sure.

Rumpleforeskin404 · 2022-03-18T06:28:29+00:00

This post makes me hard.

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