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[–]Therocksays2020 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Banter with the whole group. Women are usually more engaging and flirty with their friends then they are alone and often have their defenses up.
Occasionally there is a bitch mother hen who can ruin things but you should be fine.
[–]Electric_kundalini 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What I've noticed with groups of Women is - if all of them are getting attention (in general) they will be happy and approachable, if one of the girls isn't getting enough attention then she'll be a moody mare and she'll make it difficult to anyone who approaches (also she'll cockblock her friends).
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That sounds like a friend I wouldn’t want. “You guys are having fun, but I’m not - so nobody gets fun and sex anymore”. Just cockblocks the whole group, men and women. Fuck mother hens. They’re cunty bitches who almost literally see themselves as their friends mothers. It’s pathetic, we get it becky you hate being ugly, let the rest of us have some fun.
[–]throwaway4587655 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The mother hen is almost always there for me
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There are techniques to work on a mother hen. Are you new to game?
[–]throwaway4587655 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A bit yeah
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do share.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are gonna have to get used to talking to girls when they are with their friends, like everybody else does. Life isn’t easy, so you better learn to deal with it or lose opportunities.
You just talk to everyone by introducing yourself, and involve them in your conversation with the girl you are targeting. Take an interest in how they all know each other, how they met, who is the craziest, who is the more chilled, who is the most adventurous, what their plans for today or the weekend are, flirt with the one you like shamelessly in front of the tiger girl’s. Tease the girls playfully… etc
[–]grahamg1983 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be like a lion hunting buffalo, focus on the small weak ones then attack when they’re separated from the herd.
this is just a joke, do not take it seriously
Got me laughing
Engage them all then eventually talk to your girl, and then redirect attention back to the others.
[–]neverbeenbetter4me 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I guess I'm from the old school, I wouldn't approach her in the group setting and here's why
There are far too many people in that scenario that can completely fuck it up for you and you have no control over what they may say or do. It's one thing approach a girl and then just get shot down or rejected you're in control of that
But not if you approach her or approach the group stone cold on who they are and who they are to you. The percentage of you going down in flames are pretty high. You must have noticed her, talked to her...seen her, something outside of her friends group
That's where you need to focus is on the moments or time she's away from the group and you can figure it out and be patient or you can just approach a group of girls you don't know thinking that your Mr confident and probably get a whole bunch of "who the fuck are you?"
[–]bhutams 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Approaching the friend group is better than no approach at all
[–]Mr-Kabuki 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is pua 101. You must address the group and win over the friends. When possible you have to try to isolate her from her friends.
[–]PaulyChance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look man. I am no pick up artist. But I do have game with the girls I actually like. Like, I don't go out every weekend to get laid. But, I'm going to give you some golden advice here.
Your problem is that you are "targeting women". Does that make sense? Like, how do I put this. If you were genuinely an extraverted person, you would talk to everyone. Then it wouldn't be weird because you would talk to girls all the time naturally.
My secret is that talking to dudes is usually better also. No. I'm not gay. But, if you make friends with guys, they invite you into their groups which usually have girls in them, and that's your easy way in, and then you fuck their girls. I mean, not their girls. Like, if the girls are single. Don't fuck their girlfriends lol. Unless that's your thing lol.
People here focus on this weird sort of hunting thing. Just be more sociable with everyone, then all these different people start cross pollinating and then it all just happens so much easier. This also sets up the slow approach, which in my opinion works about a million times better over the fast approach. Girls like it better too. Girls generally put up a pretty thick wall for the fast approach. Good luck.
[–]throwaway4587655 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no problem talking to guys but I want to talk to some girls at some point
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