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[–]MO_drps_knwldg 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t read into that behavior. She obviously enjoys the attention and getting an emotional high from the flirting.
[–]willgo-waggins 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Validation attention.
[–]Lucazzz14 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bottom line is that she has a boyfriend. Doesn't matter what stage it is. Don't go there.
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]jugeknotevaj 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
It college! A boyfriend from high school? Take it from an older person. Both of you may be curious of each other and now’s the time to go through some adventures in life. You’re young. Nothing should be so serious when it comes to dating. Either choice is gonna bring consequences so pick the one that makes you feel the best and deal with the consequences. Your choices are going for it and finally knowing if she wanted to or not or forever guessing if it cudda been something . Choose and deal. Welcome to adulthood.
[–]Any-Contribution2180 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
In other words hes telling u to cheat because....yea
[–]jugeknotevaj 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Not really fam. It’s the 21st century. If this is something that can be more OR, if even if’s she wishes to experiment a little, there are tons of ways for her to communicate that to her current partner (FaceTime , Zoom etc). I mean, if you’re keeping your feeling bottled up in order to spare someone else’s feelings that who exactly are you being loyal to…
[–]Any-Contribution2180 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
So again...she should cheat
[–]jugeknotevaj 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think you can read.
[–]Any-Contribution2180 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
No i can read, i just skipped your bullshit and got what ur actually saying, "its the 21st century (like that has anything to do with anything) tell her to communicate to her bf that another guy wants to fuck her"
[–]jugeknotevaj 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Maybe your just too shallow to understand. This guy never said he wanted to fuck her. She never said she wanted to fuck him. He’s saying they’ve known each other for a while and they may have deeper feeling for each other and I’m saying that if they both feel this way then she should communicate this to her boyfriend , if she feels it’s worth it, then try out with this guy. He sound like he really likes her. Not just wanna “fuck” her. But these are conversations adults have. It can be tuff but don’t worry, you’ll get there. Nice talk
[–]Any-Contribution2180 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
You know im impressed, you have succesfully said the same shit 3 times 3 different ways.
again weaving through all your bullshit, your litterally saying this guy should tell this girl to leave her current bf for him, because they have a "deep understanding" and they have "known eachother for a while", you know with all your "adult conversations" i figured you would know that ADULTS KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, and if it aint happened by now, and shes already fucking another guy, then maybe that "deep understanding" is only one sided.
He should move the fuck on and comeback when shes been single for a while, because if he takes your dumbass advice, there going to be allot of hurt hearts and ex boyfriend fights happening.
[–]eddieunknown 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I guess your way is the only way then. sure, You're right
[–]Any-Contribution2180 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The guy shouldnt just burn his life on a girl thats already in a relationship and by her word "always talks abt her bf" sounds like hes just there for emotional support.
[–]jugeknotevaj1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That’s because she’s trying to stay loyal to the fantasy land part of what loyal should be. She’s just trying to remind herself that she’s in a relationship. She’s in collage now. Different people. Finding herself etc. He’s miles away! Girls like to be cuddled. Face to face talk. Someone there! Trust me, she is going to have adventures. They both will with or without each other. It’s just growing up. Reality….Mind you this is one sided. His version. So we don’t even know what she thinks but looking at it from the side that they are two kids in collage, brah…..come on….
[–]Any-Contribution21801 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
God Just say it and stop putting sprinkles on shit, you want this guy to tell this girl to leave her distant bf for him, because college. No other real reasons for ruining a relationship other than "shes in college now"
How abt this, OP here is the best advice ur going to receive on this post, connect with other girls that dont have a boyfriend, Its college right? Date other girls, show them the attention that ur wasting on this on girl who obviously only uses u for moral support.
dont make this girl the reason u get up in the morning. while shes taking her time with a failing distant relationship, you should be reminding her that her close relationships are moving on.
Your girls getting fucked in collage 😂😂😂😂😂😂you just made up a whole story and shit😂😂😂😂😂
Dont go to college, never dated anyone from college nice try tho?
Also what story is being made up now? Did i break you?
Yes. You did.
Yea i broke you... da fuq i gotta lie about going to college, or dating sm1 there? If anything it would add more credibility to what im saying 🙄 if i did attend.
Lastly its like you cant see how terrible the advice youre giving him is, how did society brainwash you into thinking its completley fine and ok to tell a girl to breakup and ruin her relationship with her now boyfriend because......well college and "hes miles away!"
Now how did I know that.
[–]eddieunknown 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i mean, if you're gonna try and hate me in to taking your side than sure. I aagree.
You feel a long distance relationship with your high school sweetheart is gonna last while you're away in college then blessing for your simple mind....
[–]incognito3107 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She most likely doesn't want to cheat or break up for now, nevertheless there is probably something interesting going on between two of you. It's just it's pretty confusing for her, so she wants you to react in some way to that, clear things out and take responsibility :)
[–]Billyjeanisntmylover 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let your nuts hang.
[–]Live-Ad-6309 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's college so she probably wants to cheat. Most likely will break up with him within a few months anyway but that won't stop her.
What you do depends entirely upon whether or not you see a moral issue sleeping with someone who's taken.
Its also possible she's just flirting because she likes your attention. My recommendation is the same.
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So the first question I ask you is have you slept together in the past? You say you are “friends” but you didn’t specify what type.
Honestly if you are just friends she probably simply feels comfortable with you. While she may be feeling the freedom and options of college, she needs to make that decision and actually let her BF go clean before she goes to the next guy. Because that’s simply monkey-branching and you really don’t want to just be the guy she used for that if you want some thing real with her. It won’t last.
[–]james609 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve fucked a few girls with boyfriends more of them cheat then you’d think but they’re just really good at hiding it I’d say get a smash it’s the girls problem if your single
[–]Fishrage105 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Smash dat brother
[–]ValteriButtAss 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Fook her dood. Doood if dat was me dood, I'd fok her right between classes in the cafeteria bathroom dood. Give her the ol mozzarella cheese squeeze doooood"
Fuck that. Don't fuel her attention OP, she's an attention hoe and is beneath you.
This is why women are out of control; because of how us men constantly objectify women and are trying to stick our dicks in them 247. This isn't some feministic shit either
[–]GotThaAcid5tab 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell her bf
Nah there’s nothing happening here.
Don’t project your own problems on to other people”s situations. That’s not advice just sour grapes and bitterness.
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