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[–]MudFlaky 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly you should really lower your expectations and set the bar a bit lower. How about instead of your goal being to have sex with a girl while you're on vacation, you just approach and befriend 3 girls. Baby steps. Don't overwhelm yourself because if you fail to have sex you will just be really hard on yourself for no reason. You (and myself) are beginners after all
[–]ehvv 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro hardest part for me is literally talking to girls in front of the homies. I just feel like they always watchin what I’m doin and gonna tell me some stupid shit, So I feel yah trust me. But only thing I can say Is drink it up brotha! And I mean that
[–]hoothoot6996 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how would you learn if you don't fuck up. you can't be perfect without fucking up. my boys made fun of me for over a year when I tried to flirt with this new chick in my workplace. Who cares man, just laugh with them. and when it's your turn, laugh at the guys too when they fuck up
[–]bytheninedivines 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to worry about that, then I realized I'm the only one of my friends with the balls to cold approach
[–]putcoolusernamehere 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For real. I’ll sarge cold approaches all day long, but the moment I see a girl when I’m out with my friends I freeze up.
[–]Fulk0 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro go out and have fun. If your main goal is meeting a pretty girl and having sex with her when your experience is limited, you probably wont get it. The best approach is not to have any expectations. Meet girls, have fun with them and be genuine.
[–]putcoolusernamehere 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t build a whole trip around talking to girls. Go have fun and relax, and if you see a girl you want to talk to, shoot your shot.
[–]Admirable-Bus5693 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont worry about that stuff man. Focus on yourself and your well being. Try getting on workout regimen and keep at it for at least a year - it will change your life. Also - dont place sex on this pedestal like you’re doing, sex is pretty unremarkable when you think about. You should instead be focusing on lasting memories instead of one night stands.
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[–]SmellyHippo69420 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A little aggressive but much needed. I know what you’re saying amigo. My confidence actually has been a lot higher since I started working out a couple months ago. I’m going to the bar tonight with a friend for some practice. I appreciate the input :)
[–]jogo1300 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"I'm 5'7 kinda chunky" hmm I wonder why you're depressed?
[–]putcoolusernamehere 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is really uncalled for
[–]jogo1300 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean somebody had to say it. Get in shape and take control of your life and you'll feel x100 better. It's not rocket science
[–]Admirable-Bus5693 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% true. I used to be twig, but after i started hitting the gym a few years ago, i feel great
[–]Snoo-62854 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't go with that expectation you will screw up your trip. Either share your spirit with friends and let them know, they might be supportive and would help you. Or just forget about it for a week and just enjoy time with your friends. Or if you still want to try in spring break go Solo and approach girls, even if you fail no one knows.
[–]rickmackdaddy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lift weights and exercise every day. Unless you got one leg, a heart condition, diabetes or something, your chunky is a choice.
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