A girl clearly wants to fuck me but I am scared. What to do? [recovered]

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-08T21:26:47+00:00

You're afraid of fucking it up. Just tell her "this is my first time so I'm most definitely going to fuck this up. Are your expectations really low? Great. Put them even lower!"

Joke around with it. Sex is supposed to be fun. First few times you do it it's going to be bad and that's how it is for everyone.

Also, stop watching porn for a while if that's where your performance anxiety stems from. Sex is real life is usually not like in porn. And you also don't have to share the sex story with anyone else. Most women actually prefer it if you keep it private. Many women are also worried about fucking it up by the way. She's probably just as nervous and awkward as you are.

HD221997 · 2022-03-08T21:29:44+00:00

Thing is, if you are scared to do something the only thing you can do about it is just the thing you are scared of. That's it.

Its always uncomfortable as fuck at first trust me, the first time is always strange you might as well don't get one up. But you need to try and continue even if it's uncomfortable. That's the only way to grow.

Try it with every girl, if you trust her, tell her how you feel so she knows to. But try it as often as possible That's the only way you gonna beat the fear.

CloystR · 2022-03-09T00:15:37+00:00

Just came from Europe today. Absolutely loved that place.

You remind me of me a few years ago. Change your focus. Instead of focusing on how you’ll screw up at the point where it leads to sex, focus on her and your time with her. The rest will follow. Get out of your head and focus on how she makes you feel and it’ll be mindless and fun for the both of you.

As men we feel that it takes much more effort on our side and that sex is a battle of who can perform the best. Women just live in the moment and so should you. Just forget about what you’ve seen and be in the moment.

GeeseCTM · 2022-03-08T21:57:28+00:00

https://youtu.be/feeIOZH7wr4

THIS

Available_Owl5210 · 2022-03-08T20:30:55+00:00

It's either your morally against premarital sex or your living in a scarcity mindset my monies on the latter

Delicious-Emphasis50 · 2022-03-08T20:42:22+00:00

ig you have a tiny dick...

temerity18 · 2022-03-08T21:33:22+00:00

when it comes to sex my brain just freezes

That would actually be great. If you would get out of your head and be in the moment.

Just lock the door. Take off your clothes, hers as well. Put on a rubber and stick it in. You both want the same thing so it is no big deal.

Enjoy tiger

incognito3107 · 2022-03-09T06:40:15+00:00

Well, just take it slowly, step by step, base by base. Read some advices about first time and how to touch girl's sensitive spots. First time is usually really sloppy, you will get better with time. Normal girl would not care much about your experience, some of them are even happy that she can be your first.

rohankent · 2022-03-09T08:06:44+00:00

Mate. I feel this thread big time. The best course of action is to let her know you are new to sex. Not in casual convo, but as things are getting heated, and she is letting you take things toward intimacy, you do need to stop and let her know. This single act of vulnerability is incredibly powerful for your first sexual partner, and it will go one of three ways.

1) she will completely understand, you’ll have a conversation about how to proceed, she will lead the way and you’ll have an awesome first experience. 2) she will get awkward, shut down, not know what to do. You need to tell her you want to be intimate, but that you are also happy to take it a bit slower if need be to be more comfortable with each other 3) she’ll react horribly and shut the whole thing down.

YOU have to be comfortable with how your first time goes because you only get one crack at it. Aim for option 1, option 2 if needed. If option 3 is what happens, cut her loose immediately and take time to regroup. BUT make sure you try to set up the scene so that you are both in a room/house/place that’s private and uninterrupted so that you can both be aaa relaxed as possible.

Best of luck brother!!

ValteriButtAss · 2022-03-09T16:56:00+00:00

Whatever you do; prepare protection and buy 2 different sizes to make sure it fits. Even if you're sure about your pullout game

Title	A girl clearly wants to fuck me but I am scared. What to do? [recovered]
Author	Odd-Fisherman5459 [recovered]
Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	March 8, 2022 8:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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