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[–]smurfy187 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Still young for real life, no mind games
[–]Important-Quote9544 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need to pull back. You tried meeting up twice and she gave you excuses. If you she wants to meet she will message you. That’s what interested women do.
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[–]smurfy187 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truu, been there
[–]stanthemilkman88 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Waste time and play games makes you sound like a 33 year old chick. You're fricken 28 dude. Relax.
[–]ksmith11011 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No just wait. This sounds like normal courtship stuff. Let her set the pace, you keep doing what you’re doing.
[–]dropmeoffhere 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She’s 22. Who cares.
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[–]NotANerdReally 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
22 year olds aren't exactly titans of logic. Often they don't even know why they do certain things.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you’re asking this question then chances are you know the answer. Don’t waste your time and don’t let her bullshit you. Sure maybe she’s shy but that’s not your problem. Move on.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s what I am thinking, also I’m leaving my job in a week that’s why I’m shooting my shot. She doesn’t know I want to ask her out for a drink think it’s worth trying? Worst case scenario she says no. I’ve got to admit once I asked her to meet literally 5 mins before going away and today 10 mins before her break was over. Perhaps bad timing?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Worst case scenario she says no
And that should always be your mindset. Stop overthinking it and just ask her out. The longer you wait the more your chances of being rejected or worse, friendzoned.
He who hesitates, masturbates.
[–]Sakred 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sounds boring and tedious. Come up with something fun or interesting to do, make plans to do it, and invite her to join you. If she doesn't, do it anyway and then tell her how much fun it was.
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