I’m good with messaging, but once I get the phone number to set up the date and actually call them it gets super weird and awkward almost all the time.

I’ve even had a girl tell me outright in our phone call that we weren’t compatible, even though we were messaging pretty well.

I kind of have a monotone voice and am pretty nervous when talking trying to vibe.

The reason why I call is to vibe before our date bc I don’t wanna waste time and figure out in person that we don’t like each other.

How can I overcome this? It is seriously discouraging me from online dating.