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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-11T18:14:48+00:00

Find yourself another girlfriend.

saryiahan · 2022-02-11T20:19:11+00:00

Long distance rarely works and it sounds like this girl has issues and 2yrs without really doing anything. You need to move on OP. Find a girl within driving distance. There are plenty of woman out there

revralph89 · 2022-02-11T20:25:49+00:00

Brother you need to wake up, and get out of this relationship for both of your sakes. Long distance relationships can work, but are very difficult! Mix this with depression, insecurity, ect and it's very easy to go down a bad road. It's very clear from your writing you're in a scarcity mentality, and that's not a health base for any relationship. You two can absolutely love each other but come to a consensus that perhaps this isn't the right moment in time. This is what adults do, and you should strive to understand life will continue on. Beyond what I said above if someone is struggling with depression you can support them in every way possible, but you can't be the one to "fix" them-her struggles are her struggles. A close buddy of mine committed suicide a few years ago, and I held onto guilt for the longest time wishing I would have done more. Truthfully at the end of the day his choice was his choice, and as painful as it was, learning to let go was essential to move on for me. This doesn't have to be the end, but simply just a pause.

Workamaholic · 2022-02-11T19:26:54+00:00

One thing to remember is that the root of all fear is that you won’t be able to survive the change. That an irreversible decision will be unbearable. This however is a lie. Fear is false evidence appearing real for this reason.

You are likely younger where every decision somehow seems infinitely terrifying and earth shattering. The reality you will come to know is that your life is and will continue to be filled with variables. And for the most part their effects are temporary or tolerable.

Work on yourself. You are attracting who you are not what you want. Don’t get caught up in the lies you are choosing to believe. Own your life and your decisions or it will own you. All the best.

365reasons · 2022-02-12T08:35:34+00:00

open your relationship so both of you can explore. her anxiety might be stemming from sexual frustration.

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