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[–]CompetitionFair7686 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao. Dude, wrong question. The real question is “how can i be the guy she spends more time in real life with having sex” not how to become her pen pal or text buddy.
[–]thetonystark7 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The thing is I dunno what to do cos we were meant to go date tonight and she texted me about last night, but this morning texted me saying someone called in sick and she has to cover for work. But she’s still not gone to work…
[–]adambombchannel 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like she’s not interested, dude. A girl who likes you won’t make excuses and will do anything she can to spend time with you. I’d start distancing yourself from her.
[–]69Gwynbleidd69 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't want to be the guy she's constantly texting. Constant texting is attraction killer. Don't text gilrs 24/7, ask them on dates and talk to them. Yes, you need to text here and there, but you don't need to text her every time you wake up, have breakfast, work out, go to work, drive, eat, go to sleep, jerk off, or whetever else you are doing.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean here? Like you want to get better at texting? You want more of a girl's attention?
[–]thetonystark7 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
As in we met on tinder went out on a date, but obvs she would be talking to other guys but we only really text 1 message a day. I’m trying to figure out how to get to constant? No matter what the text is, it’ll be around a day reply
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text her more often. Ask her out on more dates. Ask her to be exclusive with you.
[–]ChurchofCaboose1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess that's assuming she's not texting everyone else once a day. Idk man, be you. If she likes you, she will talk to you. Otherwise, bounce.
[–]Ecstatic-Flounder-48 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If she’s not the one texting you constantly, you drop her.
Eventually you will get to the point where you find women that text you constantly.
If shes not texting you constantly you’re not her top priority
[–]thetonystark7 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even after 2 meetings?
[–]OtPayOkerSmay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you have time to constantly text someone day in and day out, you aren't busy enough with your life. Constant texting is just not something to do regardless of if you have time or not, we build way better connections in person.
Get on your grind such that you don't have time to text back and forth with a person all the time, and don't be upset that a girl doesn't text you back constantly - that's needy. Once you stop being needy about this, girls will likely match your texting energy - and texting should really just be to set up dates and keep interest if in-person isn't viable at the time.
If there's one specific girl you've been texting a lot and getting only one text back a day, then I'd suggest you need to move on or chill out and match her one a day for a bit until she gives you two a day.
[–]Food-Able 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t say goodnight. don’t respond to her message and respond to it in the morning
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