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JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-20T09:49:16+00:00

You are overthinking this. If you look at women as some magical beings who can dispense validation of your sexual attractiveness, by the same token they can also invalidate you by rejection you. You are giving them too much power over you.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-01-20T10:55:27+00:00

In the beginning stages you are just learning how to open. Think of the different places you want to approach, each one is a little different.

Just practice starting conversations with anyone in those environments, and when you see an attractive women it’s similar. Maybe you go a little more direct with an attractive girl, but your just starting a conversation with a stranger. So get good at that. You don’t have to be hitting on anyone, your just learning how to open naturally without approach anxiety.

Once you can open without too much approach anxiety and generally get sets to hook, you now have the skill to open. Then you can practice other things, such as creating man to women vibe, eye contact, sexualizing the conversation, etc…

Look at opening as a social skill you are learning.

PuroPincheGains · 2022-01-20T16:49:55+00:00

You should go through this whole book if you haven't already: Models by Mark Manson. It's pretty important for getting your inner game on point, and has some key takeaways for outer game as well.

2022-01-31T08:22:24+00:00

Fellow Austrian here. From which part of Austria are you by the way ? I am from Graz. The strategy practising the approach even when you are abroad is a good one. It should help to boast your confidence for sure. When I was in South Korea for 6 month I did something similar too. Not for pick up strategies just to get more used to talking to strangers. Being a lost tourist helped a lot . It was not easy though. Some people were afraid to talk to foreigners. In America it should be easier to talk to people in English because English is their mother tongue.

the_bbutterfly · 2022-01-20T16:50:22+00:00

in which part of austria are u?

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