how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?

Cheshire51 · 2022-01-18T17:00:54+00:00

Guys, a how to guide on this wouldnt do no harm.... As I'm pretty much the same type of a guy.

Keep me posted 👍

JZheng03 · 2022-01-18T18:09:42+00:00

What does romantic conversation mean to you? In game you don't talk about opinions on sex while having sex.

If you want to kiss a girl, you do a phase shift and make the vibe super intimate for only a second, and then afterwards, you go back to having normal convo.

If you are talking about teasing, negging and flirting then I got a bunch of material for you to use but it's not a step by step system, you just throw in a line here and there.

If you want to escalate to talking about sex and her opinions on it, then that's super easy, just bring it up as you would do when talking about anything else.

"Hey, my friends and I were discussing this and I want your opinion on it. Basically..."

DarthRaver88 · 2022-01-18T20:32:15+00:00

I was literally thinking of making a post like this on here. As someone who was a “shy guy” growing up, i’ve done a lot of work on developing myself into a pretty decent conversationalist.

Now, my main issue is finding ways to show interest/spark attraction/sexualize the interaction (however you wanna put it, really) in a smooth way that doesn’t come off as creepy.

I’m very intruiged at what the responses might be.

darwinist666 · 2022-01-19T02:07:33+00:00

being funny + sexual teasing.

EnvironmentalRule525 · 2022-01-18T21:48:59+00:00

It’s so simple but so difficult. Be attractive. Not just your looks but by your behaviors. Have abundance mentality. You enjoy time with her but you don’t need her. Match her energy, if she’s going cold, go colder. If she’s going hot, be slightly less hot. Be comfortable, you don’t give a shit what anyone thinks.

skatinislife446 · 2022-01-19T15:17:59+00:00

Being sexual is foreign to you, and was to most men raised to be ashamed of their sexual desires, told to prize women and put them on a pedestal. Modern media, societal norms, too much video games/porn/etc. has led to this.

I started where you are, learned about game, ditched some of what I learned, yet honed in on other parts. What I’ve found works best for me is teasing a woman. Challenging her by saying things like, “I’m not sure you could pull that off,” based on a story/comment/etc. You’ll notice this comes off as an assumption, a risk, and women like that. If the woman had been checking me out, I might a little more direct. If it’s in a grocery store I’ll say something like “you know, you keep checking me out but I’m not for sale.”

Teasing does not seem inherently or straightforwardly sexual, but it’s creating sparks and tension. Add in some touch and innuendo, and she’ll know it’s sexual without you ever having to say anything along the lines of “I am sexually attracted to you.”

Simply put: make fun of women. Lightly, in an obviously playful manner, never about something they can’t change, but about their actions/choices.

No-Department6252 · 2022-01-19T19:39:04+00:00

stop cold approaching women like this is 2009 or something. if a woman is not actively trying to seduce you are not attractive in her eyes. women know who they want to fuck and who is going to fuck after .5 seconds of seeing a guy. no point in cold approaching if she fundamentally doesn't find you attractive. women will literally approach you if she finds you attractive but it's subtle. only focus on the women that want you and if the women you want are not attractive become better looking. it all starts with understanding women

Ur_X · 2022-01-19T19:00:15+00:00

Kino man. It’s all about the touching. If a girl touches you even as simple as a tug on the shirt, game on. It is the act of breaking that barrier that puts you in the sexual partner bucket when a lot of the guys out there freeze in the friend world

Title	how to escalate conversation and invoke attraction?
Author	slenderman404
Upvotes	36
Comments	17
Date	January 18, 2022 4:55 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/s720o8/how_to_escalate_conversation_and_invoke_attraction/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-escalate-conversation-and-invoke-attraction.1268765 https://theredarchive.com/post/1268765

Comments