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letsgetrandy · 2022-01-13T14:22:11+00:00

Choose a small number of flattering photos. Your pics are vital, so take the time to get some that look like you made an effort! Wear clean clothes, preferably something more than just a random t-shirt. Fix your hair. Take the time to consider what the background says about you, places you might go, interests you might have. No hunting or fishing pics, and no posing next to a car or truck. Make sure your main pic is a very good headshot, and that you include at least one photo that shows your entire body.

Don't try to be cute or clever with the profile. Keep it simple. Avoid telling too much about yourself -- especially making sure to leave out off-putting crap like video games, dungeons and dragons, pokemon, smoking weed... all the shit that instantly tells women that you have no personality. Instead, go for one or two unusual opinions or conversational prompts that give tiny insights into your interests... things like "always looking for meals where it's okay to have cheese with fish," or "I wonder what kind of films would Hitchcock would make if he had access to today's CGI."

And don't dilly-dally with the chats that go on and on, boring people to death by never getting around to asking them out to meet you. Get to the point. There are too many people wasting each other's time these days.

jsb0299 · 2022-01-13T17:18:36+00:00

Give yourself time man

SlevinLe · 2022-01-13T14:04:42+00:00

Don't

2022-01-13T14:11:38+00:00

Tinder for flings and one night stands, Hinge for an actual relationship. You’ll see many posts about it online, but make sure you have decent photos on your profile. Most guys, even if they aren’t the best looking, fail at online dating apps because their photos just simply suck.

nikgos · 2022-01-13T15:28:44+00:00

It's gonna take you a while to start getting results. It takes a while to start understanding what works and what doesn't. It takes a while to find the right balance of engaging messages without being gamey and getting to know a girl without being boring. First time I used Tinder - 0 results. The second time I managed to get one girl out. The third time I managed to get 3 out. The fourth time (current one) I have managed to get 8 so far in the span of 2 months.

Get the apps with zero expectations and gain some experience. If you get something great, if not don't get discouraged it's normal. This doesn't mean that dating apps don't work it simply means that you haven't figured out a way to get the results that you wanted and you need to spend more time figuring things out. Delete the apps for a few months and try again.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-01-13T19:46:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/oyy2ht/dont_limit_your_resources_when_it_comes_to/

And from another user:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qug2k2/my_strategy_for_tinder_and_bumble/

gordandisto · 2022-01-13T22:57:30+00:00

Help yourself by using PhotoFeeler. Good luck OP

AngeloMacon · 2022-01-14T01:43:33+00:00

Yeah, learn how to pick up women at the bars or normal everyday situations.

HtesNidog · 2022-01-14T13:37:13+00:00

I do not envy you.

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