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[–]mexicanstud831 4 years ago [recovered] (18 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s pretty good way to go.
Maybe you don’t have to throw in the hot tub part.
Girls coups read us better than we reas them.
Just asking her over for dinner and movie/wine would work lol
[–]AddictedDepression 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I still kinda want to hot tub cause I haven’t used it at my apartment in months. I’ll probably just mention wine and the movie, and then I’ll text her later also saying “hey, bring a swimsuit if you want to hot tub, if not that’s cool too (:”
[–]09piercd 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You should lead with the hot tub , then remind her she’ll need a swimsuit . Kinda seems like you just wanna see her naked when you lead with “bring a swimsuit”
[–]AddictedDepression 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’ve decided I’m not going to mention the hot tub at all and will just text her later saying “hey I also have a hot tub at my apartment, so if you want to use it make sure to bring a swimsuit, if not that’s cool though(:”
[–]09piercd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect
[–]AddictedDepression 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Turns out she works tonight :(
[–]09piercd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Unlucky man . She give you another day instead ?
[–]AddictedDepression 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I said we could hangout tomorrow and she said she was down, but I’m sad because she said she is going to a movie with her family at 10. I work till 7 so we only have a few hours but yeah
[–]09piercd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least you’re hanging out for a bit G
[–]ThatGuy_Nick9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I say forget the hot tub and let her discover the hot tub at your place and use that to score a second date. Unless you want the hot tub to be the main reason for the meetup this time then lead with that
[–]Automatic_Beautiful9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's not exceptionally rude. If you want anything from her just ask.
[–]mexicanstud831 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that works. If you made out on the first date, that’s kind of a giveaway that she will probably be open to more
[–]AddictedDepression 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I hope she says yes :/
[–]RJoce 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just say hot tub.. she might just wanna jump in without swimsuit ;)
[–]AddictedDepression 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol it’s at a apartment complex so I doubt that😂
[–]mexicanstud831 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
There’s always tomorrow lol
I went through something similar. Met a girl on tinder, we both have busy schedules. Managed to hangout one night and went to get Starbucks and drove around, we just talked but made out at the very end.
We agreed to meet again, but it was hard since it was busy. We finally agreed on a Friday night date and ended back at my place for a very long and fun night.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you want to play it safe, ask if she wants to have some takeout and wine at yours. Then if she says yes, say "oh and I also have a hot tub in case you wanna go for a dip btw". Keep it casual and nonchalant. Only meeting to watch a movie is already suggestive. Dinner is less so.
[–]AddictedDepression 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was planning on trying to emphasize the movie more then anything else. I guess I can suggest takeout to
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Up to you and how suggestive you want to be. Just providing you with a safer option that is low risk. Watching a movie implies sex, takeout doesn't. Throwing in the hot tub comment after she says yes to takeout gives you a good indication of whether she's dtf or not.
[–]ULminimalist1980 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just ask her to come over and watch a movie, she'll get the point.
[–]bojackhhorseman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That face when I don't have a hot bikini clad girlfriend to hot tub with me, and I like hot tubs. :(
[–]JackTheRipper_17 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Pretty good! Go ahead! good luck
[–]AddictedDepression 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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We'll get em next time
Update: she said she works tonight :(. I suggested tomorrow and she said yes but that she has to go to a movie with her family at 10. I’m going to try and get off work early and hangout with her around 7
[–]jeongmidani 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. That’s how I did it. Worked, 10/10
[–]ChubbaChubzz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Checks out ✅
[–]mishaxz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget to mention you have popcorn too.. or if you want to step up your game, nachos
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Ask her to come over and play board games. Play a game, make a move, and score.
[–]AddictedDepression 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Read my update. I’m going to text her tomorrow a few hours before I get off work if she still wants to hangout. If she does I’ll suggest getting some takeout and then watching a movie. She said she is going to a movie at 10 with her family, so I understand if she bails tbh since I don’t get off work till 7
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Gotta make it quick then lol
Yeah, I’ll still ask. I don’t necessarily want to “score” I just want to hangout with her. I’ve always been more of a relationship person and I want it to develop into something more.(though I wouldn’t mind scoring either lol)
[–]kittybrehbreh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Always try. Physical attraction is important no matter the relationship. If it’s a first date don’t mind it. But if you’re not scoring by the 3 or the 5th at the latest, there’s a pretty good chance she’s just not into you, which is okay.
True, I mean we made out on our first date, so I’m expecting we’ll do that again. She’s already told me through text and I quote “omg, you’re so attractive btw”
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