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[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you think I passed those tests?
1) In response to her "accidentally called comment", I only entertained her for a bit before bidding her a good evening.
2) In response to her "I have a date tomorrow, don't text me" comment, I tried to play it cool (with what I said in the post).
3) And in response to "You can text me. There is no date." I told her 'No can do, chief. Hanging out with my uncle atm."
^ Do you think I handled those situations well? You can be honest with me. I really need some feedback/help with this, my dude. :/
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[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you, I will take that to heart.
Last question -
Tonight was the first night we haven't had contact (and she's the one who usually initiates contact with me everyday). So the last exchange we had was last night telling her I was busy, her saying "Alrighty. Feel free to message me whenever.", and me saying simply "🤘" in response.
Is her not reaching out tonight necessarily a bad sign, or is she just waiting to see what I'll do next?
[–]DryAdhesiveness6579 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you’re posting again about this girl again huh? Why don’t you just meet up with her already?
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She sounds like a retarded avocado or stinky bacon.
It's obvious she is testing you, trying to make it seem like she's popular with guys, when really, she's emotionally unintelligent and have put off men for the last decade lol
[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
3) And in response to "You can text me. There is no date." I told her 'No can do, chief. Hanging out with my uncle atm." She responded "Alrighty, feel free to hit me up whenever." To which I sent back a simple "😊".
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Her intended goal was for you to chase her. Are you chasing her or planning to chase her?
If yes, her plan worked through sheer idiocy.
If no, I would say she will continue to be a retarded avocado and stinky bacon. 😊
[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't plan to chase her, but I asked you based on the dialogue I've had with her so far, does it sound like that was what I was doing?
She hasn't reached out to me today, btw. I dunno if that means she has enough validation, or she just doesn't want to come across needy/is waiting to see what I will do.
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She responded "Alrighty, feel free to hit me up whenever." To which I sent back a simple "😊".
She's obviously waiting for you to "hit her up or whatever"...
Quite frankly if she were a man and played this many games with me, I wouldn't give her the time of day.
But you might be the type who enjoys playing games.
Well that's the thing -
I don't know for sure if that is what she's doing with me. It's also possible that she does like me, but doesn't want to come across needy. That she faked the "accidental" phone call because she wanted to talk to me without being across too eager.
You get the impression that she's testing me. Testing me as in, interested in me still, or in a "using this guy for validation" sense?
[–]Artist-in-Residence- 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds to me like she's really into you but doesn't "want to come on too strong".
You should go for it. When you meet her on Sat, tell her I said, "hi"
[–]YoungCapoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont hit her up if she hasn’t already, stay busy. She’s gonna hit you up since u haven’t already dont freak play it smooth.
Recommend just staying busy till then or hanging out with your friends.
[–]YoungCapoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She shit testing you, best you can do and i know its tempting but at least distance (dont hit her up) for an entire day or two.
Even if she spams you, keep her on read or just delivered till the next day. Act completely normal and just say you was busy or smoothly change the subject.
. . .
Do hit her up that u tryna meet after the entire day or two u spent not texting her, add surprise to your element in seduction.
[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
It has now been 2 full days and she hasn't reached out to me. Do you think it would be a bad idea to hit her up tomorrow night (when it reaches 3 days)...? She did technically leave the ball in my court.
Also, since you said she was shit testing me, do you think I passed those tests?
I only chatted with her for a few minutes Saturday night when she said she accidentally called me. Then I tried to play it cool when she told me about her date. And finally when she said the date was canceled and I can text her, I told her ---- "No can do, chief. Had dinner with my uncle and hanging with him atm." She said "Alrighty. Talk to you whenever." And I simply sent her a "😊".
That was the last dialogue we had.
[–]YoungCapoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Move on dont even interact and nah you didn’t pass it
If you don't mind me asking, what about it did I fail?
I told her I was busy when she told me "there's no date". Wouldn't it have been worse if I engaged with her? That would've shown I was too available.
[–]AelfredRex 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
3 hours away... why bother? She's obviously into her local scene and you're too far away for anything more than talk.
[–]Nofapdeity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Guess what, you need to stop this long distance crap. It won’t help you. Either go drive and get with her or stop texting her
[–]The_Tomb_is_Empty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude, we literally meet each other like 45 days ago, so relax. We're barely even aquaintances and still just talking and getting to know each other.
I get that being on this sub long enough instills a PUA mindset into guys, but the real world doesn't work that way. Long distance present their own challenges, sure, but I've had a long distance relationship before, and it worked.
Go hit the showers and call it a night, son.
[–]Nofapdeity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
45 days? That’s already a month and a half.
Some guy met her at the bar last weekend and made out with her in an hour while you’re laser focused on messages. This is just the reality of things dude, you need to either play the real life game or you’ll lose. Long distance almost never works out, I’m only helping you.
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