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Elbynerual · 2021-09-25T05:58:25+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

HitboxOfASnail · 2021-09-24T10:31:56+00:00

she seemed to have a bit of a thing for me but had bf (who is still her bf).

stopped reading here. don't do it.

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-24T11:06:45+00:00

Let’s look at the facts - she’s been with her BF for SEVEN years. All these “flirty” interactions are mostly your interpretation of the encounter, nothing has happened physically to make you think she’s into you, it’s just your mind which knows you like her (extreme bias).

If you want to see if she actually is into you, you need to do one thing. Make her wonder. Stop being available when she texts you, bring around other girls and flirt heavy in her presence with them, ignore her, etc.

You are most likely friendzoned. The above will give you your best shot at getting out.

MelatoninSleep · 2021-09-24T11:43:10+00:00

You don't sound like you are her friend and this won't end well.

SuperbHoney4930 · 2021-09-24T12:47:46+00:00

incel

williamroberthoss · 2021-09-24T14:34:00+00:00

They say in a guy / girl friendship one person always wants something more. In this case that person sounds like you. If you have nothing to lose try whatever has worked in the past for you. Just be ready for the consequences - loss of friendship/ boy friend trying to kick your ass etc.

OTXnando · 2021-09-24T15:31:20+00:00

I’m in the same similar situation but my crush in high school liked me for 3 years lol & I didn’t read the signals she always wanting to hang out with me be around me call me etc, I always said no I wanted to be friends only so I friendzoned the fuck outta her. We always had a thing for each other as we both said to each other. Fast forward last month we got together hung out twice the second time we fucked & now it’s awkward as shit we are still friends I think

NateHate1402 · 2021-09-24T17:19:08+00:00

You should make a move so she can promptly reject you and remove a person from her life that is only a “friend” because they want to fuck her.

Why not go for someone else instead of ruining a friendship or being an orbiter.

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-09-24T18:36:00+00:00

If u are a friend with a girl, u are already in friendzone lol I dont know why people have female friends, makes no sense. Tell her: hey wanna fuck? Is she says no ghost her

2021-09-24T21:53:37+00:00

Stop being a simp. Have a conversation about this with her and if she's not reactive you need to move on. There are so many women out there.

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