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[–]FlackoJodye3 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
In a parking lot preferably at night. Even better if you run up to them instead of walking
[–]Nicophoros4862 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A knife always helps too
[–]Memoryworkrewardsme 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I tend to stand less than 1 ft away from them and back them up to a wall so I can lean my hand against the walk. Also, lick your lips every 3 seconds to let them know you want them
[–]MiscProfileUno 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear a hoodie too so they can’t see your face and reject you
[–]Dull_Demand_4341 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t forget to catcall while you’re at it
[–]SenorTonto 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
You're asking something that has no answer. Other than being respectful and honest, anything goes when approaching women. It's all in how you conduct it.
Don't go down this path of over-analyzing like so many guys in this sub do.
[–]alphadist 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So fake it till you make it?
[–]SenorTonto5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yep. Confidence is a state of mind which we can all access in any given moment.
[–]FlanneryODostoevsky 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck the technique. Its all about approach women likely to be into you.
[–]Nicophoros4862 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not a woman, but the only conclusion I can reach is that women are human beings with just as varied personalities and preferences as men. There is no rule or technique that works for all women. Some things might be well received by some women but are an immediate turn off for others. The closest to a universal solution I can offer is don’t be afraid to talk to women, be genuine in all your interactions, and look for the women you get along well with
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish. They will give u the ideal scheme on how to become beta simp..
Ps: dude, throwing urself str8 into friendzone right from beginning? U got masterclass degree of friendzone, no need to ask women how dig deeper hole..
[–]alphadist -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its called friendzone if she wants you as a friend but you want more. Not if both parties are cool being friends. And btw asking women for their advice doesn't make you a simp.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, who the hell goes for cold approaches to make girl “friends”?.. dont lie to yourself at least, say that you’re afraid of being str8forward and challenged (tested, rejected, etc).
And if you’re asking advice for nothing, not to listen and use somehow.. then you’re just wasting your and their time. Just like when you approach and offer your friendship..
Lies lies lies
[–]3pinephrine 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be attractive
[–]alphadist 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont be unattractive
[–]leafhog 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I froze like a deer in headlights the two times I was approached by women. They just introduced themselves. Be patient with them. A stunned look is not necessarily rejection.
[–]rewinder909 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it's not really how women like to be approached but by whom women like to be approached. Are you living an interesting life and have nice topics of conversations, or stories you can tell? Are you in shape and have a good hygiene? Are you funny or just a boring person? You have to ask yourself these questions and improve these points if you want to get them interested in you, either if you are making friends or looking for a date. Training yourself on becoming better at these points is part of the journey. Opening is the easy part. A simple hi I'm "name" it's enough but there are multiple ways of opening. But if you have anxiety that's another point you need to work on. Think about this as a video game. You have several stats, and every time you are trying something new, or training yourself doing something you're not comfortable with, you are increasing your stats. Untill you reach max level lol
[–]MiscProfileUno 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women don’t know what they want. For the love of god don’t ask women how they want something it will lead you down a terrible path.
[–]WideMongoose 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m F me personally I cannot stand any form of chatting up, nor compliments ! I’ve always been for a convo and if I have similar interests take it from there I’m not one for really being shy anyway so I would start a convo myself I’m quite vocal and a dominant conversationalist… but I find nothing more attractive and sexy than a good convo about decent topics I met my now partner through a convo about conspiracy theory’s and it took of from their we been together 3 year in October! We actually met prior at a club and attended the after party with friends together but we never spoke- I ran into him again in our pub and convo took off from their- but I never liked chat up lines nor compliments
[–]SectionThat2696 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Want to watch a movie together?
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[–]FlanneryODostoevsky 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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