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MuMuGorgeus · 2021-09-15T09:26:37+00:00

You almost got me there for a second. But dude, what a bunch of bull shit!

That's like being born fat and coming to terms that you're never gonna get in shape, that's limited for only the people that were supposed to be in shape.

Fuck that! I identify with you and what you say, but any type of mindset that goes against improvement it's broken and it should be worked on as fast as possible to be erased from your mind.

You're not different, you are not special, and you sure never gonna be perfect. You are just another unique human being. Human beings are capable of anything, humans have been doing all sorts of crazy things throughout the ages. They've built boats when going to the sea seemed like suicide, they've built machines, machines that can make you go faster than a horse, machines that can fly faster than any bird while taking 100+ passagers.

Humans created weapons that can destroy the whole world, and medicine that saved entire civilizations. That's your species. Can you really look back at all the greats from species and think you are any different?

I'm 19 never went on a date, women never looked my way, I'm as virgin as the holly Mary. But if a guy can climb Mont Everest only wearing his underwear. I know I can have a threesome.

2021-09-15T12:43:37+00:00

Stop being such a pussy and you’ll get girls. Seriously, the mindset has a lot to do with it.

I get it, I’m not very experienced myself but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna mope around saying since the 7th grade I couldn’t pull.

Get yourself a good group of friends. MASCULINE friends, not some fucking losers who play video games 20 hours a day. Then go out to the bars. Then have some fun and talk to some girls.

kilik2049 · 2021-09-15T08:58:32+00:00

Dude, I was the same as you when I was young, seeing my best friend having all the attention of the girls while I was nothing more than a ghost beside him. But at 20, I decided I wanted all this women attention, all this tension, this energy, and yes, I did change. But you don't change into someone else, otherwise, all the relations you'll have will be flawed. You have to become the best version of yourself. Nothing's impossible when you finally understand how women works, and how you work.Not saying it's easy, I mean, i'm 30 now and still figuring out myself, relationships and stuffs. But it's doable. And worth it.Go for it man, believe in yourself, have the willpower to become the next You.

SDFFDS1 · 2021-09-15T12:48:15+00:00

We are on the same boat buddy....Just a reply for the people that say "go out,speak and meet some girls.Guess what! I already do this shit.And nothing! There are a lot of men out there.Enen a girl who is 5\10 has a lot of choices, really a lot of choices. Keep trying buddy,like i do every fuck*ng day. We don't have any other choices.Or you are gonna die alone or you gonna keep trying.✊🏻

jaywolf123 · 2021-09-15T08:46:23+00:00

Atleast if u lived in an Asian country u could have got a arranged marriage if are good in ur carrier u would have definitely gotten a girl through arrange marriage

VeerVansh · 2021-09-15T08:39:24+00:00

Don't lose hope mate, you definately have what it takes to get one, the trick is not to flirt or to hangout or to talk daily, you gotta make friends with them, just casual normal friends, little do you know friends turn into bestfrinds after a while, then when you're really comfortable with them, talk a little different, a little tease and pulls and stuff like it, there was a guide on this in r/seduction works completely as its supposed to be but it works. Never lose your self esteem, best way to find friends is look for people with same interests, it's never to late to start, trust me

2021-09-16T05:34:43+00:00

Damn honestly I can kinda relate to this because I’ve had trouble with it all my life, but I didn’t think I would ever have this issue when I was a kid. I thought I’d have a girlfriend by 14, now I’m 21 and never had one

Edit: looks like I commented on this yesterday haha same shit stands dude get some friends and go slay that’s what I’m trying to do.

Blackmetalpenguin90 · 2021-09-15T16:29:00+00:00

You sure try to convince us that you've "accepted" your fate, but it's very obvious that you want change, you just don't believe in it.

speedythespeedy · 2021-09-15T18:36:33+00:00

I feel you and I clearly know what you are talking about, because I’m the same unlucky guy as you are. I had a lot of advice from my friends about this, similar to those in the comments of your post and to be honest (no offense to others) I feel like they all mean nothing… Because you don’t believe in anything related to having a relationship with a girl in the first place. I’m having the same kind of problem… I always look at these lucky people around and think how many of them got themselves into couples or marriages without any problems, just living casual life and being themselves, and I wonder if I will be lucky someday as they are. So I got myself motivated to being same lucky and started to look at myself more and what kind of person I am. Because of this motivation I found myself more confident with speaking to people around me, girls including. I feel that its improvement and it feels great, giving you more and more confidence. I know that I won’t find a girl to have a relationship with like say tomorrow but with that confidence I have a strong hope that someday I become same lucky as others. So I feel like confidence is the key, it helps you to not lose hope, listen to and believe in yourself more! Yeah, your mind is the best advice! You may think that I talk sh*t but it’s not that hard to try and it worth to do for much more good reasons, improving mental health for example. Despite this, I heard that girls really like confidence… hm?

DeerSalt799 · 2021-09-16T00:10:00+00:00

You're not the only one that feels that way, and its okay to feel that way, but girls aren't mind readers they don't know if you had women in the past or how many women you've seen in the past. What they can see however is how you act around them, and if you act closed off, insecure, and ignore them, guess what? Theyre not going to want to talk to you because you've acted in such a manner in the first place. Why have you acted in such a way? Confirmation bias, even if a girl may find you interesting you ignore it because its comfortable for you to feel like your worthless, and that's not ok.

So.

Please watch this vid, i think it will help out. https://youtu.be/VaRO5-V1uK0

Let me know what you think.

ExcellentPerformer36 · 2021-09-16T15:15:22+00:00

What people don't understand is that being "positive" can't get u women if you're ugly af. I see people on here saying "work on your body, build muscles", first of all there are some physical features that can never be fixed. Someone could be born short, born with a really fast metabolism such that they just can't gain weight no matter what, and then there are fat dudes for whom it's almost impossible to lose weight. I am 26, never touched a girl, and it's all because I'm ugly as shit. I even get ignored by women online and they don't even accept my friend requests just based on how I look

Also, if you're ugly but trying to be "pOsITiVe" by approaching random hot women, all you will face is even more misery, they might make weird faces, say some hurtful stuff or act in a way that can wound your self confidence even further.

Wonderful-Wolf-3856 · 2021-09-15T12:02:14+00:00

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BugHistorical8691 · 2021-09-15T10:03:47+00:00

you sound like an incel

why bother then? you just fuel their already over-inflated bitch egos by giving them attention

love isnt for everyone, you sound like the 80%ers in the 80/20 rule

honestly just give up and by a love doll or something, and dont read the blue pill nonsense in the comment section

Vvzy · 2021-09-15T12:33:33+00:00

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mcstebio · 2021-09-15T15:26:27+00:00

Yeah you definitely need to read Models by Mark Manson. This self pity bullshit is the reason why your not getting women. It has very little to do with how you look.

mister_kola · 2021-09-15T16:37:27+00:00

It is all marketing, just put on getter clothes, show some confidence, and go and grab from the pussy ( figuratively)

oskiozki · 2021-09-15T20:32:17+00:00

You just wanted tell us that, you want us to approve you or prove that you are wrong?

Only_Cycle663 · 2021-09-16T00:24:19+00:00

I've never had luck with men myself sweetheart I have always been considered weird and different

2021-09-16T09:37:09+00:00

This is largely where I have ended up, as well, OP. I even filmed some of my day game approaches because I literally could not envisage my female interactions. It seems so unnatural to talk to them as we don't have anything in common.

Indeed, when I have, it has often lead to "incidents" as my mere existence seems so offensive to them.

It's all, very, very strange.

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