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| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?It's understandable really. But if I can be honest and selfish. There's nothing quite like a woman who owns her shit. People like that in general are great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?Although a lot of women hate comes from incels. There's also the fact that women tend to be more reserved, they shy away, afraid of showing their true colors. I think that's why women can be considered boring and not funny. The problem is that women that shy away like that because of sexism and the way they were raised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Well, it comes down to what you want. If you want to form a connection, there's no other way other than to engage in conversation with various people. If you don't really want that, and you're moved by society's expectations, or a superficial believe, than assume it, and stop looking for it. I know this sounds simplistic and vague, but there's not other way to approach it. I totally get what you mean though, it's hard to find honest people out there, they are always playing and trying to preserv… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I'm a complete loser 20 year old virgin, had the randomness of the universe find me two beautiful chicks, went out with both, after the date, both lost their interest. They were crazy enough to see me as an attractive male, but once they got to know me a bit better they stopped initiating covo etc. With this said. I think it's about your own joy, doing what you wanna do, when a girl catches you attention you want to talk to her, it's a natural feeling. Fear and society makes you repress it thoug… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | 9 seduction facts I wish I knew earlier!If the girl shows no initiative to contact That's the sign I ignored lol, thanks a lot, gonna keep it in mind. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 06:02 PM |
| 3 | 9 seduction facts I wish I knew earlier!There's a bunch of shit I struggle with. I'm getting started with women. One thing I'm clueless of, is knowing when to insist and when to give up. Out of fear, my first reaction is too give up, I have a straight forward mind, I either want someone or not. My experience though, is that women don't make it clear that they want you, things are never defined, and I talked to a girl for 2 weeks after the date, just to get flaked, I saw the signs, but tried to insist because she was cool. Wasted my ti… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveshe's just taking the ego-stroke That's something that at first hand is difficult for me to comprehend. "How she say what she said, do what she did and suddenly stop giving a shit, like nothing happened" It's simple, chances are she never really cared, it was good while it satisfying her ego, the moment that factor goes away, she'll drop like a hot pan. I don't know about most men, but I mean what I do and what I say, I understand that there's a weight, a value behind my actions. Women don't see… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How how to properly escalate on a first date?Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 11:39 AM |
| 2 | How how to properly escalate on a first date?Great advice, thanks! Everything turned out to work naturally. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | How how to properly escalate on a first date?Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.I love you for making this question lol I think a better life is when you manage to cut all or most of the shit that drags you down. Better life for me translates to being free. Free from your sexual urges, consumerism, insecurities, fear, attention, external approval. That's not to say that one should stop having sex, consuming etc. You should learn how to live without any of those things while keeping your peace, to not be enslaved by anything. Maybe you're not enslaved by dating, women, sex e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.The first thing that comes to mind are men using women as a justification of their worth. If a woman wants you is because she approves of you (at least in some aspects). And this goes toe to toe with how more and more men are feeling emasculate, quite literally if we use testosterone to measure that statement. "I hate my job, my boss treats me like a dog but I fucked 3 chicks this weekend" I'm being overly simplistic here lol, I think chasing women works as a medicine for a life men aren't proud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.Wow, that's not even related to what I'm proposing lol. I'm basically saying cut off the need for women and focus on your life. The intent is to have a better life, do your things, reset your priorities and your whys. Nothing keeps you from talking to someone you think it's cute, if you're lucky even getting something out of it, it's just important to know that it doesn't matter if it works or not, because your complete without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.I guess we just come from different places lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.I can agree with collapse of society because the results would be less babies. But space for inequality simply doesn't make sense. I'm talking about men and women being independent from each other, not having one being superior/inferior to other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | My response to dating as male crisis.Yeah whatever, we all understand what we want to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.The problem with this idea is that it implies that women are the problem. It's worthless to blame others for something we are held accountable for, not to say we should push it by trying to find someone and fulfill societies expectations, it's just a matter of having priorities in life, and not relaying on a partner to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.And you don't have to take the other extreme and be cold, letting go actually make you have better relationships with people around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | My response to dating as male crisis.I haven't either! I also heard that it sucks from some men, and others claimed that is great. I don't care much about this, since my point about emotional dependency can also be made for sexual dependency. It's about the validation and feeling of being wanted That's the root of the problem, this validation keep people chasing each other, always in conflict/drama, sometimes in joy, bur never in peace. The bottom line is that this need for a second half is making people sick. But it's preferable t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | My response to dating as male crisis.I guess so, but this seems to be where we're heading, in any way. My point is towards living a better life on an individual level, not the future of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 0 | My response to dating as male crisis.That's definitely not my point lol. I'm talking about letting go from beliefs that only do us harm. You called me toxic, but I'm thinking about the mental health of an individual. For me, its certainly worse to be on endless rat race after a partner. Instead we should learn to live by each other, or, just accept to live like so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menHahaha see ya! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menYou're right but not completely. At least for me. You can literally be a slave and still be free, for not letting the will of your master belittle your own. It is no doubt a hard life to be free, but it's possible. Diogenes is our greatest example. Considered a creep and filthy dog by a lot of people, but also the wiser by many. I'm ages away from being truly free like Diogenes, and maybe I just don't have the balls to do it. But I always keep him in mind in these discussions or moments of refle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menOh I have no doubt there's a bunch of things I'm yet to regret, but in regards to how people perceive me, I don't think so, unless I'm planning to do something of my life that require people's approval, I can't predict the future, but I can tell I have no such plans. But even if I did, the moment we let how others perceive us affect us on a functional, or even emotional, level we become slaves to their wishes and judgments. relatively stable job and are early to mid 20ies. Guessed right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menNo I get, people respect you for your ability to attract women. I mean it from a personal perspective. No one has anything to say about me, besides trying to set me up with people I'm not interested in lol, and I like it this way. But we're talking social here. I honestly don't care how I'm perceived by this point of my life, I'm pretty sure my family thinks I'm gay for never bringing a girl home. If we're talking about leaving a better life, no doubt that being charming with the ladies is great… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV mensuffer damage to your image Hahahaha maybe that would matter if I was a politician or in a position of power, but even so, in those examples, it's better to be perceived as a sexless man than a womanizer. (I think lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menThat's the positive side of being one of the "lonely people", they're not defined by their partners or romantic life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menGod damn it does lol. Fuck that, what women are awesome and we should totally invest in someone that appreciate us. My point is that we can't let women be our holy grail. That's just thinking with your penis, at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:10 AM |
| 8 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menChad? Dude I'm 20 never had sex, it's been 2 years since I kissed a girl, and it only happened because we were both drunk lol. My comment comes from someone who has no success whatsoever but is trying not to let it define me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:08 AM |
| 26 | Women think they have it harder in romantic interactions with men because they compare themselves to the highest SMV menYou're a slave if you choose to be one, limit your desire for women, understand that you absolutely don't need them, and most importantly shouldn't 'get' them because you're untitled to them. I don't say this so that you increase you chances with the ladies, I say this so that you live a life completely a part from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Are men really worthless?No bullshit. That's the best reason, a truly independent woman can leave you whenever she wants, which means that if she's with you, then it's for real. No emotional dependency, mindless jealousy, less clinginess, after all she's not gonna meltdown if the relationship doesn't work. Not to mention that it must be pretty badass to date someone who's dedicated to their own life, a woman that has her shit together and it's there to back you up. I grew up with many couples in the family that are like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Are men really worthless?I agree with you! I thought purple pill was about not being blue or red, or black or whatever. I thought purple was something in between. But it's actually a bitter combination of the whole bunch. You mentioned, specifically, how women see men, but it also bother me when I see many "best" comments, basically saying women are out to hurt men and that you should bang them and leave, for most men here, it seems, they see woman as cunts. What they want is to fuck a bunch of party girls, because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 4 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?makes you look like an undesirable loser, Fuck how people think you look/sound like. The advice was given considering his emotional wellbeing, not his macho reputation lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 19 | How does personality correlate with women's attractiveness?I try not to generalize people that way, everyone is different, and women can be/act in any way possible regardless of their level of attractiveness. I don't mean this as a woke thing, it's simple reason, most of life isn't black or white, we're deep into layers of gray, brown, purple and what have you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 5 | I avoid texting at all costs, is there a way around that?Is that what you got from it? Lol | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics)Yeah, I get it, it bothers me how the majority of men here think their ideal partner would be a naive girl who only had sex a few times in her life and is pretty much submissive. That's probably not what you mean by having the mind of children, but I think puritanism is pretty childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 4 | Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics)People are fooled by professional wrestling when they are kids, everyone watches because is great, it's live soap opera for wresting fans. There's no such thing as being "fooled by professional wrestling" LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)Okay, we are just opposites, ain't no point trying to argue. The way you think is crazy though hahahahha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)I hate extremes too. But in this case, it's confusing to find a middle ground concept. Tell me, who the ideal woman for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)Okay, I guess we just disagree then, your arguments don't convince me. "Women who have sex with a lot of men are harder to please", let's admit this is true, if that's a deal-breaker for you, I assume dating an isolated naive virgin would be ideal? I just think this is bullshit. I want a woman who is completely independent of me, someone whose with me for real, and not because she never had it better. I think that if you are dating someone and they find someone better, they should just end the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:23 AM |
| 5 | Men "riding the pussy carousel"? (my mum seeing men in their 20s that way)Why having sex with whoever they want, whenever they want a bad thing? I don't get how this makes women less valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it.I think a lot of it is habit, lot's of men are in the habit of fantasying about fucking any woman they see in front of them. That's not the rule though, we control our thoughts and we can manage our impressions, it'l isn't only about testosterone or the way male's sexuality differentiates from female's. Disagreeing with the point made in this post because men don't have that many potential partners is just desperation. You should desire someone for desire itself, not the outcome, that's being ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanDude, I think you should read your reply again, I have no idea what you mean by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanI agree and I think that's the only way for me, I'm not very found of those methods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 16 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanSince being attractive is completely arbitrary, what you mean is just "be" right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 68 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanSo "be attractive" is the message of your post lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I feel like committing suicideDude, you can't life your life based on externals. I went to a party two days ago, didn't get laid, didn't get a kiss, tried dancing but failed miserably, got rejected, a lot, even by a woman I thought it was in fact a woman, "they" wasn't. My point is, if take these things into consideration I'm a tremendous loser, and it gets even worse if you count the party I went before this one. The world will put you down, people will do too, you expectations will be crushed over and over again. And if I … | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I feel like committing suicide" I feel like commiting suicide" Flair: Lifestyle. Gee that killed me LOL | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitAssuming it's true this is a very important post. To me is expectations vs reality, you hear from attractive friends and the internet that it's all about confidence and all those characteristics we hear over and over again. You work on yourself, you do as you are told but you are faced with absolutely nothing but rejection. So at some point you stop and wonder "Wait, this doesn't work for me, not at all, since it seems to work for everybody else, I AM the problem. But maybe, maybe you're just no… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 3 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?You cool man, thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?"I don't think women owe me shit, there's nothing wrong with women and the way things are, they aren't goddess either. I'm talking about men, my own incapability to attract women to be specific. Make no mistake, I am flawed not the world around me, I'm not entitled to shit." Not black pill, just as clueless as the holy mary | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Hahaha thanks man! I wish I had your enthusiasm for women lol | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?You are right! So I have to start going for it? I see a cute chick at the bar, I introduce myself, talk to her friends and ask her to dance or something? The problem is that usually the moment I say hi I can see the disgust in their faces hahahah. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 12 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?It’s the reality of what drives some men go to prostitutes; they want to do deviant and violent things that their female partners would never do; they want to debase women they view as lowlifes; they seek out sex with underage girls and trafficked women that have no power to refuse anything they want. Etc etc If I ever considered prostitution is because I can't get women on my own, but definitely not for those purposes hahahaha, but I guess theres plenty disgusting men in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?That means insisting after uninterested signs? | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?It doesn't doesn't even come to this, I fail at the first impression part, most women instantly ignore me or treat me like their cousin I don't know. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:28 AM |
| 7 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Hahaha way ahead of you buddy. I've been doing most of the things you recommend, the advice is great but fairly cheap by this point, cause the things is, it's a great life advice, probably the best, but not a great dating advice. While I've spent three years working on my insecurities, building the body that I want, learning a new language, reading philosophy for a better everyday life, working on my goals. Some other dude was getting girls every week without change shit about himself. It's grea… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:26 AM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?So you're saying it's a matter of finding the one? The problem is that most of us would like to have casual sex or just make great connection with women. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:16 AM |
| 3 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Thanks Angelo! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Yeah I forgot to mention my ego, the slightest sign of rejection I'm out of there, insisting puts me in agony. I attribute that to many years I've been friend zoned, I try my best to stay away from that. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Yeah man it sucks! | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:43 AM |
| 6 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?I'm good with people in general, quick to make new friends and because I'm weird since I was born, I'm confident and comfortable on my skin. I live for myself and have my own goals and an not needy. That's were my rant comes from, I am and I do most things you see people advice here or in dating videos. I'm just ugly, a 4. Other than that I honestly don't know, I always thought women don't see me as man material, I'm a great friend, the guy they trust or just aquatinted but never the one she wan… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 7 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Hahaha I like that | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get?I think men that wish to mary the holy virgin are insecure about their own masculinity and don't truly value themselves. I have no clue why in the name of God someone would want to mary a young submissive, naive pretty girl. I want a woman who is strong, independent and powerful, a woman that has no reasons to need me. A beautiful woman who has her shit together and knows what she wants, that's the only kind of woman I would settle for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 5 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?I don't think women owe me shit, there's nothing wrong with women and the way things are, they aren't goddess either. I'm talking about men, my own incapability to attract women to be specific. Make no mistake, I am flawed not the world around me, I'm not entitled to shit. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:26 PM |
| 6 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?It feels that way though | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 0 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Well I'm not very found of God, I guess I'll prepare my wet Martinis then. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?So you're suggesting I try people I'm attracted to at all? If I were to do that I might as well turn gay lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?Well but what if I'm not? Hahahaha who am I kidding this is ridiculous. If things won't change I'll have to accept it. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 3 | What if some men are incapable of attracting women?I could diagnose myself with my generic condition lol and then stop trying at all, focusing on abandoning my desires. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: how would you feel if your partner told you he’d been with a hooker?You are an evil genius lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Answers to overly-asked questionsNatural desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestI'm not talking about marriage or any kind of ownership, just people connecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 01:22 AM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestSo according to the comments, women no longer wanna settle because now that they are independent they don't have to. Wow that does wonders for our male self worth. Men don't need women either, but at least we appreciate them LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?Do you actually believe that? For me personally, self improvement has never helped me with the ladies, yes I'll live a better life, but women I meet don't give a shit how well I can handle my insecurities or the good I do for people around me. I don't know what women want, but I've seen guys that simply suck at their own lives getting more ass than a toilet seat. One day I'll look like a greek statue though, them we'll see if you're right LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?Yeah I guess LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?How do you try to connect and communicate with women? By talking to them I guess, but it doesn't get me anywhere, if I show my intentions I see them wanting to get the fuck away, and if I maintain things neutral I see them not giving a shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?are you capable of connection? Not romantically no LOL. But I think your point might be right, I am selfish so I see no point in caring when people don't care back, which explains my incapability for connecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?Maybe you don't share things (worldview, interests) with the women you desire? I don't share, they don't seem interested so why would I, I like to share with friends, because they care, otherwise, what's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?Lol I was drunk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations?I've read you original post, there was absolutely nothing bad or too extreme about it, you were mostly describing your own experience over the years, I personally think that having your post removed is fucked up, Reddit is great but it has this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?A lot of men will describe their ideal woman as loyal, submissive, and caring God no, I don't like the idea of dating a perfect woman who spends all her time at home in pro of my life. I think that guys that crave this kinda of relationship should just hire a maid, she'll be loyal, caring and submissive, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Christ, there's absolutely no logic or common agreement between these comments, sometimes dating seems like math, other times it sounds like completely random and silly personal opinions, it's definitely not cience. So I'm always mesmerized when I see/hear/talk/read people that are good at dating, how can you be good at something so abstract LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?I agree, that's one of the reasons men are in this situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?I'm not ashamed to say that I would happily date an AI, the kind you can barely distinguish from a human being. I can't see why men should go through a bunch of BS to get simple things such as affection, attention and connection. It's better to have a synthetic superficial relationship then to humiliate yourself out there LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 8 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.You are entitled to your pain! Next time someone tries to neglect your pain, ask them if they were molested too. It's pretty easy to talk, but you are the one who went through that, and has to deal with it. Fuck people man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Can I ask about your dating life so far? What's your goal and have you been successful achieving it?Well I never had a dating life, that's what I hope to achieve one day. To be able to connect with women and have relationships, get to know them and live amazing sexual adventures. I know it's possible to have a dating life, I just can't see myself in it, it's just too far from my reality. What am I doing to get there? Just working on myself, I stopped trying since it would only hurt me more, now I go with the flow and do as I please. Maybe I'm gonna meet someone next week, or maybe next month, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouI see why that's what she got from his post, I don't know his intentions so you are probably right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouI didn't think about this side of the story, Thanks for enlightening me . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouIf that is what you got from what he said alright. But I interpreted that he's talking a relationship that he doesn't have to play games, doesn't have to watch his every step not to make a "mistake" and lose his partner. What I got from his post just by reading the title was: Date people that value you Maybe I'm right, maybe you're right, maybe we're both wrong LOL But my interpretation comes from being man and seeing other men walking around on a leash. That's not positive for both sex, I agree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWasn't dating always like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWasn't dating always like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's a point, you just hit the spot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow much do you sacrifice for your authenticity, and do you have to do it at all? I ask this because I suck at dating, I always favor what I want versus what is expected from me, and on top of that, I'm weird, when people meet me they pick up two things, I'm confident, and I'm weird. Like most modern man I have a lot of issues, but I've been cleaning the house for a few years now, and still, it doesn't matter what I do or say, I'm not attractive. I refused to comply though, I refused to do somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | This is the modern "sexless man"The question isn't the "what" is the "how". How are we supposed to make them feel something!? LOL Women are too complicated, why can't they just be appreciative and cute like my cat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience.Lack of sex made him like that? Nope! That's not true, it was him, not "sex". That argument takes his responsibility away. Lack of sex ≠ incel Only you control your will, not sex, not society, not your family, not even God, you. I think your argument is pretty dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?Okay, so let's say you're right, I actually agree with you, what can men do about that? I'd say, and this is what works for me, stop caring about sex, stop attributing so much value to it. I'm turning 20 in two months but never had sex. When I was 12 I thought by 17 I would get laid, then I turned 17 and said to myself "maybe before my twenties", know I don't give a shit anymore. Of course I miss it, from time to time it gets to me, but I don't like the idea of going out of my way for women. So … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Using Maslow's Hierarchy as a way for men and women to empathize with each other's sexuality experience.I'm a man, but I don't consider sex a need, you won't die for lack of sex, trust me, or I would be dead by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessaryI'm scared shitless of approaching women on the streets, grocery stores etc. I just don't know what to do, and I'm pretty confident and sure of myself. I don't like the idea of bothering people, intervening in thier daily life, being an inconvenience, because I know most of them don't want me. "Self improvement equals sex" is one of the top 10 BS of the century! Living a better life is priceless and we should all be working on it, to be virtuous. But that won't get you women, or men or whatever.… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 04:45 PM |
| 18 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?From my limited experience, being yourself, like being yourself hard, not hiding in shame, not being afraid of how she may perceive you, is not a great way to get women, you probably won't for that matter. But because you are being authentic, chances are, that if someone actually likes you, they are gonna like you for real. Less sex sucks yeah, but being free to be who you are regardless of society and women in specific, that's priceless. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe?Dude I don't go out more than twice month, I don't buy that "it's a numbers game" or cold approach. I like to live my life, and enjoy it as much as I can. Dating, women, don't have to be priority, even though that's what society makes us believe. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe?Dude, I'm pretty bad and dating, on of those teenagers that never got any action. I'm 19, and after working a bunch of things out with myself, so far, the only way I get girls is by dancing. And 2 out of these 3 times I girl felt attracted to me, I didn't even know how to dance that style. I actually asked the first one to show me how to do it. In my experience, the best thing you can possibly do when do when it comes to women, is to stop giving a damn about them. Not like the stereotype of a co… | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.You're great! | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.That's not a maybe, that is a guarantee | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.Thanks! | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 0 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.Great idea! | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.Hahaha I love ya! You gave a hella of a piece of advice the other day. You said that you should invest only in women that you are actually interested in, and that as long as you keep going for what you don't want you are gonna end up unsatisfied. You helped me a lot with this, it's been helping. I'm no longer spending time and energy in girls I don't care about. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.You killed with the Pirate bid LOL! You are right, I was talking to a friend about it yesterday morning that it doesn't matter how confident and how much fun I'm having deep down I know no girl will actually want me. But I don't think it has to be me, I just think this way because that has always been my reality. "How I'm supposed to be positive when I don't see shit positive" - Eminem That's how I feel about it, and it's so time/energy consuming that I'm not sure is worth the trouble to try and… | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | My first time nightclubbing and why it should be the last.I live with this gap. You described me in multiple social contexts there. At school it was the exact same thing, expect that I was too scared to try to avance with a girl, but other than that it's the same. In social gatherings I'm like a child, everyone loves me, they wanna talk to me, play with me, and sometimes I'm the center of the fun. But also like a child, no romance, no attraction, no nada. I'm still figuring it out, but that's totally on me. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 32 | [deleted by user]The "Dont shit where you eat" advice was never so proper LOL | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What, in your opinion, is your biggest challenge with women?Women. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]I love how the outcome of your post is people wondering "what is a sixpence?" LOL | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 04:47 PM |
| 9 | How to get over always being on the outside looking in?It's not her, it's the idea of her. It's you projecting your own desires and insecurities on her. That's different from genuine desire for someone. I naturally do this all the time, even though now I'm starting to stop myself before it gets anywhere. Recently was a chick from work, I didn't think she was all that attractive when I first started there, but after realizing that she was my only option, I developed this attraction towards her, after talking to her a few times, that increased, even t… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 12:25 AM |
| 39 | [deleted by user]That is so unbelievable hahahaha | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:37 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Did you make eye contact with the ones that approached you, or it was completely out of nowhere? | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]O still do bro... | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I mean It | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]How is he giving "dating advice"? Just a fucking excuse to put the gay down. What a jerk move. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Feeling unusually nervous around someoneIt will only do him worse if he's into sex au chocolat. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]How is building your own life bad advice? Dating doesn't even come close to being as important as your sef development. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You are not alone dude, I felt this way my whole life, and I still do it sometimes. It's been two years that I decided to focus on my self improvement, and exorcising my demons. I live a better life know. I still don't get girls attention, but I'm leaning not to it be a burden. I advise you to do the same, because if you find a girl, she's the one that is gonna have to deal with your demons and lack of character. There's way more in life than dating, besides what society, the world, and even evo… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 11 | One of the best signs that a girl likes you is proximityGreat advice! Will do | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 13 | One of the best signs that a girl likes you is proximityI hate these videos cause I always learn the same thing: She's not interested, in fact, no one has ever been interested It's a bit depressing. I rather watch Round 6' theory videos | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Lady, you are all over the place. What do you want? Is it a man that makes you feel special or is it whatever you are saying? | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | If a person really wants to see you, they will make the time.I think I should change my name to "Joe Schmoe" you killed me with that. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Understanding Infinite Abundance Of WomenOh you would be surprised | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youWell because I want to connect with people, learn about them, do things together. Not just hooking up. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youYou're right! But what about women around you, from what the op is saying, as you become a better person, high value yada yada. Women around you would feel attracted, to you, because you are awesome. My point is that at least for me, this doesn't seem to be the case, and apparently cold approaching, game, and all that bullshit is the only way. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 6 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youThis very week I made a post arguing the opposite, basically venting how I believe that self development and character, becoming the man I want to be, would attract women. But in reality, or at least my reality, it's not the case. And my question was, should I have a lot of women in my life and than a few of them will pickup on that, or if the only way for a man to date, is by cold approaching and nightclubbing. I'm all on board with what you said, and if you do that, you are gonna have a better… | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm not a man women want to be withHahahaha I like you man. Thanks! I appreciate your help. | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm not a man women want to be withDo you really believe that? | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm not a man women want to be withI like what you said. And maybe not holding up to my standards is what I'm missing, I have standards. I like self assured independent women, who aren't completely insecure about their life, women that know what they want and go for it. And I still catch myself thinking about a girl that has nothing to do with those traits! One thing you though. The self development I talked about on my post is not with the intent of getting women. The opposite actually. My argument is that the more I get in touc… | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 09:08 AM |
| 0 | I'm not a man women want to be withOkay now I get it. You are one of those people that usually assume they are being attacked. I'm not attacking you. My post is clearly about my own issues when it comes to dating. I don't think there's anything wrong with the way women behave or women in general. I would rather suck at dating my whole life, than to change one single thing about women. Women are awesome! The world is not as fucked up as you perceive it to be dude. Yes dude. It's just an expression! I'm not trying to offend you by … | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm not a man women want to be withYou maybe right. I think I'm delusional when it comes to dating. I don't know how to make heads and tails of it. It's like arithmetic to a cat LOL | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm not a man women want to be withDuude, I mean lady. No moment I dared to blame women or anything even close that. You just misread me! | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]19 | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I feel like that too. I see insisting as humiliation. I used to believe that only glancing at a girl should be enough for her to come talk to me. That changed, but I usually don't last long when talking to a girl, the first sign she isn't interested I'm out of there, because I lose my interest in her in return. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That's good advice for living a good life. But when it comes to getting women, being amazing never got me anywhere. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:56 PM |
| -5 | Luck is Bullshit - Start taking responsibility for your lifeSpoken like a real man! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm close to change my situation as man.Wait, what I meant is that there is no context for action to occur. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Conversation quality drops after first dateI think love comes from the air really hahaha. What you said is pretty in line with taoism. You can't force attraction, or passion, it's gotta be natural, perhaps one of last genuine things our society preserves. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Conversation quality drops after first dateYou sound very interesting Lady, you must be great at dating | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potentialThat's a great concept. And it makes sense. I just think you need some exposure and there's only one way to do that. By having romantic interactions with women. I don't like the idea of hooking up with a girl just because I can or it's easier. There's gotta be some real attraction going on, and the woman I want are either badass and strong or drop dead gorgeous (usually both). I don't think women see me as high value man. So I think improving and going for it now and then is the only way for us … | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do women evaluate what you are now, not so much your potentialIs low tolerance for BS really a part of your "raw material" being a cool unreactive guy is definitely attractive, but for women to pick up on that, it takes time, context and lots of opportunities for them to realize that. | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired if pretendingWell then start practicing it's teachings. Doesn't matter what you are trying to improve, when it comes to self development you gotta move your ass. | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 09:01 AM |
| 11 | I'm tired if pretendingPlease read "models attract women through honesty" Ain't no pick up methods, ain't no bullshit. And it's a hella good start for self development. | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?How is expressing your desires needy? Needy is to put the girl on a pedestal and worry about your every step because you want to please her. Playing cool when you wanna do the opposite is what is needy. As long as you know your true intentions and where they come from, you should almost always speak your mind. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?Oh don't tell me that man. Honesty is all I got | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?Oh don't tell me that man. Honesty is all I got | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?Dude, it's not wrong to reach out to her. Just be honest "Hey I like hanging out with you and I would like to do it some more, let me know if are interested in seeing each other again" something like that, or something that you actually think will be perfect. Ain't nothing wrong with being vulnerable, no one will lose anything, it's not a game. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Touched a girl from work today!Which loss? I'm alive and kicking! | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Touched a girl from work today!Yep, it's that bad! | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 11:28 AM |
| -1 | Touched a girl from work today!Creepy is to live your life restrained, there's a moment for everything, and that moment was the right moment to check her earrings. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That's so interesting. It's my goal to be able to do that, I'm not a fan of trying hard and insisting. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Touched a girl from work today!Thanks a lot man! You can never doubt your path right!? That's great advice too. Wish you the best. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Touched a girl from work today!It's nice to see a serious comment around here LOL | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 0 | Touched a girl from work today!LOL! | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Touched a girl from work today!No, it says what it means | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Touched a girl from work today!Hahaha everyone is assuming something completely out of place. There's a context for everything, and it was everything but sexual. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:04 AM |
| -1 | Touched a girl from work today!Yeah sure! I'm not really a big fan of acting with ambiguity. Let's just say the situation allowed for it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:01 AM |
| 0 | Touched a girl from work today!Nah not really. It was innocent and cool, in the middle of a conversation when we were alone, she took it in a friendly way. Besides our intimacy, it was because my compliment to her earrings was genuine. So just a natural touch, which is what I got work on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Touched a girl from work today!Absolutely. I'm guilty of not doing it everyday | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Touched a girl from work today!Yeah man, I used to think meditating was overrated. But it's almost a power to be able to calm yourself and to focus whenever you feel like it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 30 | Touched a girl from work today!Well if you analyse nothing is really worth sharing, ever. The thing though is that I need to practice touching people, like I said, it feels off touching family. Touch is important to create intimacy and rapport in a romantic way. Something that I always had a problem with. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 10 | Touched a girl from work today!I made out with 3 girls before, but that's it. I think the last time was 3 or 4 years ago. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Touched a girl from work today!If I'm into him, yeah! I wasn't trying to seduce, just trying to get used to touching. I don't touch people at all, not friends, not family. All my love goes to my dogs and cats hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Touched a girl from work today!Hahahaha it's actually worse. I'm Brazilian. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Touched a girl from work today!What? | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Do small women even like small guys?Amidst all the bs on this post there's your comment. I appreciate you lol! | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Can confidence hide inexperience or does it always seep out?What? I girl started dancing with you, teased you for your dancing and in the end even asked you for your phone. I don't see where is the problem fella. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How to become a hot person?I've got a flat ass. Fiends usually make fun of it. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]From what you said. I think you're pretty great, you have a sense of humor and your confident. Maybe this lack of outer confidence you've mentioned it's just because you are not happy with your body. There are two ways of dealing with this. Completely accept how your body looks. Or figure out what bothers you, so that you can work on it, maybe is your body language, body posture, your hairstyle, your weight, how your legs look, etc. If you choose one or the other, the point is to feel comfortabl… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Forget about all these terms and methods. Focus on connecting with people and expressing your truth. Live a better life. You aren't made just to fuck. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So do you want me to pity you? Cause you sound very miserable, and haven't made no point besides being miserable. That's it? I bet you identify with nihilism lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Dude, read cynicism. Diógenes can help you with you life. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Uuu I wish you are right! | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 66 | [deleted by user]You almost got me there for a second. But dude, what a bunch of bull shit! That's like being born fat and coming to terms that you're never gonna get in shape, that's limited for only the people that were supposed to be in shape. Fuck that! I identify with you and what you say, but any type of mindset that goes against improvement it's broken and it should be worked on as fast as possible to be erased from your mind. You're not different, you are not special, and you sure never gonna be perfect.… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 09:26 AM |
| 6 | Is it wrong to ask a girl for her permission before I go for a kiss?Just say what's on your mind "I wanna kiss you so bad right now" "I can't resist this smile, I have to kiss you" This way you are letting her know, showing you're confident, and making your intentions clear. So you give her all the opportunity she needs to say no. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]"Come as you are" - for sex knowledge. "Models attract women through honesty" - understanding that you don't need to be a pickup artist "How to make friends and influence people" the bible of social interactions "Feel the fear and do it anyway" helps a lot with daily basis challenges "Fight club" to help you invoke your wild side "Discourses and selected writings" for you to be an amazing human being, in fact. If you dedicated yourself completely to it's teachings, I'd say you don't even need mo… | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you not feel a lack of self-worth when it comes to women?I feel the same way bro. I've seen the comments saying that it may be because of lack of female presence in your life, or actually getting involved romantically with a woman. I know that's true for me. I've never been touched by a woman (if you know what I mean lol) and as much as I want it, I know a part of me would freak out. Maybe we just need some exposure. Getting out of the comfort zone, and just do it. I was even considering paying someone, just so loosen up, perhaps I would stop being so… | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 0 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.You are probably right. The trick lays on overcoming insecurities and anxieties than actually applying a method to get women. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Women fall into two categories: those who are attracted to you, and those who aren’t. The concept of ‘leagues’ is nothing more than a self-limiting mindset that leads to failure.The problem I face is that I feel that it doesn't matter how much better I get, women still aren't interested. So to keep myself from not getting disappointed I tend to scratch dating of my life, when I focus on my own things, life it's just easier. What I'm is that even though you are right on your statement, it's doesn't feel like it's right. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | How to touch a woman?Thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:20 PM |
| 8 | The less you try to impress her the more you impress herI hate having to chase, but it's the way things work for men. As a result I rarely try and put in effort, so I don't get girl's. I admire the guys that chase, it's not bad, it's the only way. (If you don't have a big ego like I do LOL) | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to touch a woman?How can I answer you, confidence in general? Hell yeah! Confidence with women in specific? Nah not really. My confidence comes from inner strength, there's absolutely nothing that you can do to reach me or hurt me. So from personal experience confidence never really helped me with women. I don't think confidence matters as much as people say it does when it comes to dating. Being confident got me friends, got me lots of fun, opportunities and even the exact job I wanted, not women though. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How to touch a woman?My problem is generating sexual tension and making a girl feel attraction, but deep conversations it's easy. So I usually get friendships instead of sexual partners. So I was told that touching is a good way to change that. If I'm only supposed to touch women that into me, then I'm not touching anyone LOL. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to make her interested without causing too much damage?You mean: To ask the friend if the crush is into me? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to make her interested without causing too much damage?Problem is, she would tell, so I either do it or not, I prefer asking to make sure. But depending on how I do it, or not, she'll just let her friend know regardless. If she knows I don't try anything, then I'm weak. Hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | How to make her interested without causing too much damage?I don't know about the last part hahahaha. Thanks a lot man, I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How to make her interested without causing too much damage?So given the context, let's say we click at this party, asking her out wouldn't be too much of a stretch? Wouldn't doing it in a passive way be a little better, like giving her that look or just anything that express my desire to her? | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to make her interested without causing too much damage?Too many people involved. And family hahaha | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | My favorite quote from models "She is rooting for you"I completely agree with you. My point was that they're simply not cheering for you. My thought after completing a girl while getting back home "Oh, maybe I look like her ex boyfriend that used beat her up" That's how bad they face look like. I'm not here to make myself a victim, I just can't agree with this statement "women are secretly rooting for you" | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | My favorite quote from models "She is rooting for you"The author emphasizes that a lot though! One of the few first chapters he breaks up to you that there's no such thing as never being rejected and getting any chick in the world. Too many variables. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | My favorite quote from models "She is rooting for you"I'm loving the book, and I appreciate everything it's teaching me, but this was one of the few parts that I kinda disagreed. Maybe it's true and women see things like that, and I like your argument too. But after seeing how I a woman looks at me after I give her a compliment it's proof enough that isn't true. What I learned from a previous book is to have the mindset that whenever you're approaching a girl, that you're gonna be doing her day, because you're expressing your desires in a honest wa… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Should you wait for a signal before approaching a woman?Yeah me too man, I hate bothering people, I wouldn't want to be bothered. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 01:10 PM |
| 3 | I'm thinking of giving a rooster-shaped candy piece to my crush tomorrow on the first day we go out together. Thoughts?If he's into you, he's gonna love it. Props to you for asking him out! I wish women would do it more often. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson...Yeah but think, you meet this gorgeous woman, you can just fall for her and behave like a needy guy. You can use pick up methods to try to make her like. Or you can just let go of this pressure of her approving you as man and just talk to her purely out of desire. And a great way to do that is by trying to learn more about her. I'm not suggesting you to "make women interested" I have no Idea how to do that. I'm saying that you probably are gonna a better time by seeing women as a puzzle, they're… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson...Yeah that's how it should be, and you're right. But I meant self development towards dating. Anyway, you sound like you deny any suggestions or actual help, you're either the alpha male type that needs a routine to talk to women, or you're just a smart guy, so you manage to convince yourself through "valide" arguments that you are a certain way no matter what. In which case you just need to recognize that and start to slowly change how you see things. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson..."a woman is attacked to you or not, way before she even talks to you". Logically if that's true, them it doesn't matter what you do, you are depending on the chance that she thinks you are attractive or not. And if that's true, why not just throw self development out the window? | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson...If you believe that, why in the gods name are you reading a book on how to attract women? | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson...I'm confused by this statement, at no point I felt his advice was in specific to women that are already interested. In some chapters he especially explains about first impressions and how to create rapport. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Currently in the process of reading models by mark manson...I think you just don't have your mind in the right place yet. The book is been helping me a lot. The whole thing it's about inner confidence and character. I think that you think this way because the book it's not a tutorial on how to get women, it's a guide to be a better man and understanding your own masculinity. It ain't gonna give cheesy lines or explain to you the magic formula to attract women. On the first chapters the author makes sure to make you understand that there's no such a thing… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the best books to read about sex for someone on their mid twenties?Jesus. People are still so ignorant about sex. Most of these comments probably won't help you a lot. "Come as you are" That's a book that every woman should read, and any guy that wants to understand women's sexuality should too. Don't expect any magical tip that will turn you into a pleasure beast. It's very theorical and it talks about women. A lot of it. But it's definitely a must if you wanna know more about sex and women's sexuality. You own even! I feel so much more confident after reading… | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I asked out the first real crush I've had in 8 years."into older man" fuck that bullshit! I hate that women come up with excuses instead of just being honest, but maybe she's not even honest with herself in the first place. You did right! | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenWomen usually aren't interested. So I wouldn't call it easy hahahaha | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenI get you man, but you're not alone in your condition. The op said that for 11 years he was rejected and you replied "and?" Ain't no greater pain. I understand that it's very frustrating to attract women. We grow up watching movies where guys like James bond gets all the girls. So we think that by getting closer to his level women would appreciate us more. Truth is that women don't give a shit how you look if you don't make her feel special. Do I know how to make women feel special? NO! But like… | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I can’t figure out how to pick up girls at clubs/partiesSo you are rejected, then you ask for the girl to help you get other chicks. And this work? | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I’m quite smooth and charming in conversation… until things get sexual… then I become Sheldon CooperYeah I get you, feel the same way sometimes! | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lady, I wouldn't last a minute! But you can always do more than just penetration... Regarding shame, it's only embarrassing if you make it so, people think they should never ever fail, so you're right, maybe that's the reason why. But if so, let go, pursue a guy that isn't so insecure about his desires. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Did I push her away?You are so not a nice person my dude LOL | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 6 | My new colleague (w22) is driving me crazy.If you are that attracted, and can't stop thinking about her. Ask her out, chose a place that you are very comfortable at so that you can completely focus on her. Express your desires but don't forget to evaluate her too, maybe she's hot very fun but have different principles or she's just annoying, try to figure her out. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 10:11 AM |
| 3 | No confidence/female attentionRead "models attract women through honesty". | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Should I have told her I was a Virgin?Always be honest! You probably showed her a lot of weakness with all these insecurities, besides probably overthinking when having sex instead of just completely let go and be in the moment. You tell her you're a virgin, and she tells you that you are a loser? It doesn't make sense but let's say she did that. Why in the Earth's name would you want to pursue anything with her? You also should let go of all this neediness. You were born alone you will die alone. You don't need anyone to live your … | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 52 | I think I friend zone myselfWhy isn't anyone suggesting you to ask her out, am I missing something here? Escalate things, asking her out it's a safe way to express your desires, and if she only see you as a friend it's very unlikely that she's gonna say yes. Go for it, you ain't got much to lose! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 10:26 AM |
| 7 | I said Hi to 50+ peopleThis is great man! Even though it won't get you anywhere it's a personal experience. I did this thing once to develop my small talk and lose some of that fear. "Bother a stranger" and every week I had to start a conversation with a stranger and do my best to keep it going, bonus if was a hot girl. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | If you want to be more than just a friend, then stop acting like her friend on dates. Don’t be ashamed of being sexualI never dated. so even though I try to engage in my sexuality, sometimes if feels odd to initiate touch or something more intimate. What advice can you give me regarding touch. Should I just invade her personal space and touch her when I feel like it ? | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Stop trying to please women!Hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Stop trying to please women!Yeah I agree with you, and if are being an asshole it's because you're not being honest with yourself. There's a song that says "when a man is at peace he doesn't wanna war with anybody" | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying to please women!Why? It's just owning up to what you believe in a friendly way. You're expressing yourself freely and purely, not trying to impress or to judge someone. I'm sure you've done this a lot in your life, just not with women. Read the book that I recommend, it's pretty helpful | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It's late night you are doing whatever you are doing, she reach you up drunk and with a very suggestive attitude. You did right! Trying anything in this context would be a bit desperate on your part. Maybe it's just me, but it's kinda turn off that a girl needs to be drunk to show that she wants me, it shows that she's immature. One thing is good though! You know that she has "feelings" for you. If are into her, invest, laugh it out about when she texted you while drunk and ask her out. If she's… | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Money, height, big dick, statuts, these are all unimportant and are what you're depressed about! Worrying about externals is the very reason why you are depressed. If you rely on the need of finding a partner you will be enslaved by whomever can offer you this. That's why it hurts so much when a girl rejects you. Giving your current situation it's actually a bless that they are doing so. Let's say one of them accepts you, you both fall in love and everything is gorgeous. If she's the manipulativ… | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Dude, if you're depressed things are not gonna work, but even if they do, you don't gonna think it does. When we are depressed our vision of the world is disturbed. Put external things aside for a while, and do your best to change your current situation. Reach me if you need anything, I think I can help, but even if I can't, at least I can listen to you! | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Attraction works with energyYou are either a genius or you're just mental, cause I'm unable to understand this. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A story from my youthThat's good advice, I'll keep it in mind! | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Find purpose outside of dating and relationships and you will get the ones you want.Yeah man I live like that too. I do have a job and Hobbies, I got lucky enough to be working with exactly I wanted to work with when graduating. Not having a car or my own place it's pretty bad if I'm trying to have sex, unless I get lucky enough to date a girl that has her own place, uu that would be great! | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:56 PM |
| 156 | I finally became a man and blocked my ex 😌😆Letting go is the key for any relationship from the very beginning to the end. I recommend you checking Einzelgänger's videos on taoism! It really helped me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 30 | how to fingerDude! The emoji killed me hahahahahahaha | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Find purpose outside of dating and relationships and you will get the ones you want.That's so true hahahaha I have so many sexual fantasies, but live with my grandparents, have no car and have no plans of moving out. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 2 | A story from my youthI'm gonna start doing this to more and more chicks to see where it gets me. But from my experience, we would get into the subject naturally, I would ask how they like etc, and sometimes even tease by saying that we should try it out sometime. I live in Brazil. But understand this as a rule, it's probably just me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | "Should I stay or should I go?"Hahahahahahhaha | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | "Should I stay or should I go?"That's why I gave a little bit of background. It's not just this subject. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | "Should I stay or should I go?"Girls don't seem to notice me, they don't glance at me like they do my friends, there's nothing particular bad about me. I think this will change at some point | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 9 | "Should I stay or should I go?"Thanks a lot, I'm not going. It doesn't feel right. I live in Brazil we have out afternoon coffee, my grandma have coffee around 7. Sometimes she just have a afternoon coffee for dinner. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | "Should I stay or should I go?"This really helps! When I mean desperate I mean I don't get girls attention ever. Not that I would go out of my way to do as they please. Thanks mate! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | A story from my youthThis doesn't add up, like the op I've been friends with girls for a while, casually talking about sex is pretty normal and it never got me anywhere. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 10:53 AM |
| 5 | A story from my youthCan you give me an example of how you would express yourself sexually after getting to know a woman? I'm clueless to the sweet spot, I can talk about anything with a girl, but never know when to do it, especially with people that we both know around. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Update on the girl from workThanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate with a coworker?Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate with a coworker?That's closer to how I see things, I don't like feeling limited. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Hey! I think that too hahaha, dancing is a fight between lovers | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?I love dancing salsa! I'm just skeptical cause in Brazil dancing is perceived as something feminine ot gay. Not because of people would think, but it would be pointless trying to get women this way | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate with a coworker?It is a job that really like! The van dropped her out where I get down today, I asked where she was going and invented her to grab a coffee at my place. It just came out, I didn't even thought about, I just meant it I guess. She obviously said no, and said she would meet her sister there. After that we proceeded to have a normal conversation while we walked. For some reason I don't feel ashamed or afraid of anything, that shit was very honest, like flow state, you don't think about it but it's e… | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a coworker?Nah, no girl that I know acts like that | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a coworker?We work on uniforms. but no, I have a great sense of fashion kinda lol | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a coworker?Godamn it you're right! I don't have women in my life, it sucks to be limited, it's either work or ladies on the street | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a coworker?She looks at me sometimes but I never got this look, ever in my life hahaha | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:48 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate with a coworker?Hahaha I'm not able to answer that, I've always been incapable of creating rapport with a woman. What I can say though, is that I felt some sort of tension, but that's granted, I think she's hot and my body is telling me that when we're alone. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Just asked a friend outThat's true! | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 9 | Daygame datesThis whole comment section sounds like a meme hahahahahaha | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAAnd I agree with you, only friends that are handsome get girls attention naturally. The problem with your post is that it limits to having facial surgery lol. You should emphasize getting into shape and developing a style. Right haircut, body posture etc.. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Here is how much looks matter from a 9/10 male. AMAPeople saying you're not that handsome lol. Dude look at you! People are easily affected by confidence and they'll call you cocky. The only problem with your post is that you seem to think that beauty is the only way, and that is misleading to guys that are trying to improve their lives. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?I have the same dilema and I also wanna know. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I have her number! now what?Hahahahha when you put it like that... I don't think she's into me like that though | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Always tell her your intentions before asking for numberWait, is asking her out right there on the spot a good idea? That's seems a bit desperate to me. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Going to a house party in a few days, how is my plan?From personal experience, don't party with getting a girl in mind, set getting totally fucked up and have fun to be your goal, have the time of your life. Oh damn I like parting LOL. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I kissed someone last night!Mine is very negative hahahaha | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 7 | I kissed someone last night!"F" I'm too dumb to realize that means female hahahahah | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 17 | I kissed someone last night!WHAT!? AA damn. I'm still happy for her, but it's not the same thing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 05:08 PM |
| 25 | I kissed someone last night!That's fucking awesome dude! I'm happy for you, did you notice how natural and smooth that was? That's what I look for, not that alpha male bullshit lol | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?I don't know much about alpha male bullshit, I watched videos, and was reading a book once, and that's where I saw this quote, it was a huge turn off so stopped reading it, and I saw that being said over and again, even on this sub reddit. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Man to be honest, if you really want some pussy you can start doing all that Alpha male shit, and live by the following principle: "Women don't know what they want" I don't believe in any of this bullshit, and I would never change myself for stupid reasons. Yeah it sucks that there are so many amazing women out there that I'm incapable of connecting with but The world is yours man, if a girl doesn't want you, go chase butterflies or something else that you wanna do, you've only got one life so d… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Man have to chase, that's the way it is hahahaha. I try not to think too much about it. I'm confident that I'm gonna be my best if I meet that girl, you know, that girl! Thanks for this whole discussion bro! | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Uuh quite the book, sorry man, I think it's important to share it. I'm happy whenever I see a post like yours. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:09 AM |
| 18 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?I wasn't talking about getting women man, I'm talking about living a better life. Please don't your pain is greater than anyone's, pain it's pain, ain't no greater suffering, only you know of your troubles, you're the one who has to keep up with them. The same goes for everyone else. But since you asked: I wanted women way before puberty, was masturbating before being capable of ejaculating, at 8 I thought that by 12 I would get girls like my cousins did, I reached 12 and nothing, so I thought, … | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 54 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Why would you compare yourself to them? We are all fucking different, I don't care that is your twin brother that we are talking about, all it takes for whole personality to change is a minor event in your growing up years. Dude, in this case are women, but this goes for any other aspect of your life. Comparing yourself is the best path to just throw self development out of the window, and be justified as not good enough. You are unique my friend, no one in this world is even close to being you.… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Hit the mall again, felt great about chatting up a cute cashierThat makes sense, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I'm in complete agreement with what the fella said, a great way to get into stoic, and other philosophies like taoism and absurdism it the YouTube channel Einzelgänger. Getting deeper into stoicism, everyone should read "Discourses and selected writings" it's basically a guide on how to be an awesome human being and live a better life. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Hit the mall again, felt great about chatting up a cute cashierYeah me too, I've complimented 3 girls over the course of this mouth, and only one wasn't totally negative, I'm intrigued by you just saying and then leaving, because if she came back that means you did something right. The last girl I complimented went like this: "Excuse me (she was busy), my name is.. and I think you're beautiful." *She got up with a very bitchy attitude and said "And?.... "and nothing, it's just a compliment" I answered She then rolled her eyes and came to do what she was doi… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Hit the mall again, felt great about chatting up a cute cashierSo you just walked up to the group of co-workers, compliment her smile, and left? | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet women?Thanks a lot man! | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to the mall tomorrow and I will approach at least 10 girls, for the first time ever.Hahahahahah wouldn't that be great | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Where to meet young women other than the bar/clubThe only sexy thing about me, it that I make great cocktails, become a mixologist! Maybe that's what he means by "sexier interests" hahahaha Ps: in every friend gathering I'm the one in charge of making people drunk while having some quality drinks, and no girl ever felt attracted to me because of that. I always have a blast though | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What is a good way to meet women?I agree with you completely! And I live like a cynic in most aspects of my life. It's an internal struggle, I approach women, not with consistency though. I'm just afraid of bothering people, with time I'm getting better, whenever I realize that I'm bothering a woman my instinct is to stop, and I mostly feel like I'm bothering them hahahaha. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:31 PM |
| 6 | I'm going to the mall tomorrow and I will approach at least 10 girls, for the first time ever.Any tips on how to start a conversation with a stranger? | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet women?"game" I hate this term, I'm not that guy, I don't like psychological tricks, and calculating how I say things. I like to be natural, changing myself because of women sounds like humiliation. I was raised in a family of very authentic people... Hahaha I'm from Brazil by the way. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet women?This mindset sounds great, and it helps me to evolve. But the only people I hear saying that cold approach is ok are men. Women usually say it's creepy, out of context, etc. I'm reading a book that tells me to not think like that, you should think that at the very least you're gonna make that girl's day. But in reality is something totally different. Most girls that I cold approach, not only seems totally bothered, but they look like they would rather jump from a cliff to continue to hear me tal… | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?Dude I think is awesome you said that, because that's how you feel! But trust me, you are wrong! | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenI gree with you but only in relation to "food obsessed" I don't think that being chubby, or too skinny would make a difference if a guy likes you, regardless of his lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet women?The problem I have with that is that whenever I go for it change their expression from "okay I'm listening" to "c'mon seriously?" As their facial expression slowly dies out, I'm not exaggerating, it feels like their souls left their bodies. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What happened to my approach anxiety after 140+ approaches in 1 month.May you be my master sir? Seriously, can I ask a bunch of shit on the chat? | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenDo it for yourself not for women! Bodybuilding is time consuming, it's very uncomfortable and it's not easy to get the body you want. I've been working out consistently for about 4 years now and even though I would get results, it wasn't enough for the ladies, so my fear was that one day I would finally achieve the perfect body that I want and girls would still not feel attracted to me. Now I don't give a shit, my body is my temple, I'll build it the way I wanna it, paint it the way I wanted, an… | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?None of the suggestion actually helped right? | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?The ladies seems to get it! I hate this whole alpha male bullshit, I'm not like that and I will never change an inch of myself to be like that, it just sucks cause even though you're right, guys who adopt this sort of attitude, are the ones getting laid LOL. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?Same here | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl from work?Thanks a lot ma dude! | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl from work?That sounds like a great idea, thank you! | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 5 | How to get a girl from work?Break up? I wasn't even expecting her to like me hahahahah | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:36 AM |
| 19 | How to be likeable/attractive from the very start?I thought you meant you wanna be the girl everybody wants, in regard to you as a person. But almost all the answers are telling you to objectify yourself. Whatever you mean. Never go out of your way to be liked, stay true to yourself all the time. Do you wanna wear that daring shirt? Do it Do you wanna express yourself and tease? Do it Always act in accordance to your desires and you'll be okay And if none of this works, fuck them! You only got one life and it's short. Bonus: get into stoicism! … | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:27 AM |
| 0 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.My man! | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 9 | How do you go about talking to literally the most beautiful girl you just metListen to everything they're saying and don't forget. She is just a woman. Don't matter what, don't put her on a pedestal! She's not a special human being, all you know about her is that she's cute, classify her, see if she is the type of woman who deserves you. Beauty alone shouldn't be the only factor that matters. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.Boom! That should put an end to the discussion, your covered up everything, and I like how you see things. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.I identify with you a lot man! And if can add to your journey in any way. Read, focus on books that are meant for learning, and philosophy. A great way to get into philosophy is the YouTube channel Einzelgänger. And if there's a book that everyone should read, that is "Discourses and selected writings". | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.I think that to a certain extent you are all right, I'm not trying to please you, it's true though, it's a very complex subject. Sometimes I'm walking by people on the streets and our eyes meet, I give them a little nod, or say something casual like hi. So many times, that I do that and most men respond back, women just avoid eye contact. My first reaction is "why are women so limited, why can't they just relax and be cool?" But then later I remember that it fucking sucks to be a woman in this r… | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.Dude, "you just hit the nail here". Those are definitely the reason why young seems so lost and desperate, thanks a lot for the answer. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.Such a fucked up view of the world my man! I believe that as humans are capable of doing anything. | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.I get it, it explains the fear me have to own up to their masculinity, but what about the feeling of being incapable to interact with women, what is it that makes young men see women as both the ultimate goal, and also an impossibility? | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I've been here for a day and that's what I observed.That counts too sure, but it doesn't explain the tendency for men to be weak, or do you think it does? | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Literally can not get a girlfriend...I get you, I am you! What I'm telling you is what I tell myself. The problem isn't you wanting it, the problem is depending on it. We become slaves to what we think we lack. The struggle is to convince yourself that you don't need women, you don't need their attention, you don't need their approval and don't need their affection. You were born with all you need, I'm not telling you to give up on women, that would be going against your desire. I'm trying to convince you that you don't lack anythi… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 04:33 PM |
| 8 | Literally can not get a girlfriend...Stop seeing yourself like a victim! I kinda go through the same shite, I'm 19 never got laid and can't connect with women yada yada... You only get one shot at this, it's your little moment existing in this vast universe. God knows how much I want women, but I'm learning not live for them. "Never fail your desires and avoid doing undescribable things, and you will live a better life" - Epictetus says something like that. So even though women don't want you, go out there and live life! Say to you… | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:14 AM |
| 20 | What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male.I tried a couple of times, but never got a match hahahaa. It's too much humiliation to just wait for someone to want you. I can't stand these apps | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Sex won’t make you happyIt's pretty cool that you wrote that, we should focus on internals and not externals as Epictetus says! The me from one year ago didn't have any game, so no pussy. I was afraid of being a man and lived a very limited life. And even though I always worked on myself, I wasn't in peace, I always living for the future. Now I still have no game, still have no pussy, and I still feel like I'm incapable of connecting with a woman, BUT. I'm not limited anymore, I'm powerful, being a man is awesome. I do… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:29 PM |
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