I asked a girl out for some coffee. I said 5 pm and she said she would go out 5 pm already and that it could be 3 pm.

She's been taking a lot of time to text me back and this was my second attempt, she was dismissive the first time.

I don't like insisting and I'm not that interested, the only reasons I have to go is because I'm desperate and don't usually have girl's attention.

I just feel like saying "maybe some other time then"

Am I being stupid here?

Update:

I said "maybe some other time then" and I have no intentions of pursing this.

It's a weird feeling, women don't ever want me, and I still don't feel like going out with one them if it's because they're giving me a chance (it felt like that)