Hey everyone! Personal story:

She's tall, cute and has a great sense of fashion, if you're following up, it's the girl from work. To put it quickly: I invited her for coffee at my place, she refused, the other day we talked for over an hour on the van from work. In this conversation we hit some very personal subjects.

Today the same thing happened, we talked for the same amount of time basically and it was great because I saw that she's not for me. The first thing was the difference in our music taste, the complete opposite, that's okay though, we were laughing the whole time about it. The turn off is that she's very religious, the kind that goes to church everyday. She told me that she's only moving out from her parents when she's married.

What I absolutely loved about today is that before starting talking to her, I was in my head think how hot she is. Don't get me wrong, I'm still attracted to her, but I know that it doesn't work.

I didn't know that disagreeing with a woman would give me so much power, at no moment I said something that would please her, I actually had to control myself a little bit once I noticed that she was trying to get validation from me on her music taste.

An older hot chick wanting my validation????

That's completely new for me, and the fact that I now know how to fell about her makes me feel so comfortable with my masculinity.

Owning up to our believes without trying to please everyone is one of the best ways to feel powerful. Aside from stoicism, taoism Mark Manson's book have been helping me a lot too (Attract women through honesty)