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XtraSaucyy · 2021-08-16T16:15:33+00:00

Talk to girls everywhere you girl.

I know you’ve been to Walmart and seen a pretty girl. And if you don’t shop at Walmart and instead at Lowe’s food then you absolutely have met a pretty girl.

Thing is you don’t have to be in college to have fun and you don’t need to marry a girl if you’re older.

The more you talk to girls, even if you don’t wanna date them or even kiss them, the more you surround yourself with people and better yet if you did have game, you would further develop it and surround yourself with people that want you so.

Best I can say is meet people wherever you go. Bars stores events concerts coffee shop. It doesn’t matter. Even if it’s the employee just strike a conversation. Hi, I love your necklace. Where did you get it. Her shoes. Etc. just keep making conversations. Hell even with guys. You never know when you’ll meet someone with similar interests as you. I’ve learned the more you surround yourself with people, the less time and energy you have to think negatively

MuMuGorgeus · 2021-08-16T17:03:53+00:00

Dude, if you're depressed things are not gonna work, but even if they do, you don't gonna think it does. When we are depressed our vision of the world is disturbed. Put external things aside for a while, and do your best to change your current situation. Reach me if you need anything, I think I can help, but even if I can't, at least I can listen to you!

2021-08-16T16:57:47+00:00

Stop worrying about talking to girls. They dont like you right now. Worry about improving yourself. Getting better pics, getting in shape, etc. Btw whats your height?

BellMaleficent6048 · 2021-08-16T21:27:49+00:00

I’ve been in pretty much the same place. What has helped me is no porn, no caffeine before I go out and to meditate. I try to smile, make eye contact and say hello to people I walk by. Another tip is to try and go to a strip club where girls are there to talk to you and just have a conversation with the most attractive girl you see and you will realize hot girls are just people too.

B3asy · 2021-08-16T18:13:06+00:00

Did you just say you are getting rejected by people you think you're "better" than?? If you want to do well in the dating world, start by not being a narcissist. Anyone can smell that shit from a mile away and they will stay away

seerslayer · 2021-08-17T03:42:19+00:00

Lol am I a weirdo for still trying to keep rocking at 30? Or is OP just too depressed to say he's too old for the party at 26?

EU-Howdie · 2021-08-18T02:33:20+00:00

In my opinion it is simple. For a man 26 is still early, as far as it comes to chances. I think your dates would be with women from 20 till 28. And that is the age that women have so many choises and too are not really looking for a relation, for commitment. And this women, special the better looking ones, pick the best looking men, because that is what counts for them in this age. It changes about 30, women want to settle, want a steadyrelation, many want children and a father for them and a husband for temselves. As a much older person (almost 3 times as old) I can say ... been there, done, experienced that. And ... many of my (male) friends in my age too, some of them had never had a girl, girlfriend, even not a kiss, not sex, at 30. And even I, a friend of them, thought they will never have a woman. And contact with them becomes less. Everybody starts going his way in life. But years later you hear from other friends, or you meet eachother in a store or somewhere. A talk; how are you doing? I 'm married, we have 2 children, we bought a small house in ... bla bla.

I experienced it myself, but I 'm just one person, but too I saw it that many times, that I"m really convinced about that.

To you I can only say, keep working on yourselves, do not get fat, do not drink a lot of alcohol, keep your job (or get one) and ofcourse do not "drug". Go under people, do not stay at home. Go to sport, clubs, go to organised walking, now and then take a massage from a female. Just make the best of your life, get better or stay good and most important: enjoy life. What means do things you like, you enjoy. Motivate yourselves to be active in life. Trust me, your "time" will come.

playingandrealityxxx · 2021-08-16T16:53:04+00:00

How much porn you watching?

I find if I'm in the middle of a dry spell, cutting out my lifeline or arousal and comfort with porn pushes me to seek out women at a much higher rate.

kylefofyle · 2021-08-16T18:50:34+00:00

especially when it’s somebody you think you’re better than

No wonder you ain’t getting no pussy lmao

gigolobob · 2021-08-16T15:48:54+00:00

Dating apps?

kuavi · 2021-08-16T16:44:24+00:00

Have you tried cold approaching guys? A lot of guys could use a friend out there so I'd imagine your success rate will be way higher and you get a friend out of the deal while sharpening your skillset

Evocatus_ad_levare · 2021-08-17T10:36:13+00:00

Keep going forward, keep approaching

pjockey · 2021-08-17T14:56:51+00:00

Drop expectations from your interactions altogether. You may think you don't have them, but you obviously do if you're upset women 'below you' are also rejecting you. Don't misinterpret: keep hoping and ask, but don't expect a result.

Also don't pursue someone you really aren't interested in or think has 'enough value', you're setting yourself AND them up for other issues that aren't fair to anyone.

A lot of other good advice here though.

You may also just want to take a break from dating. Stepping back and reanalyzing what you want from it with clarity can be helpful too.

Thtguynonelikes · 2021-08-19T13:54:13+00:00

How you get out of that funk is humility. You can’t expect to just be pulling girls all the time if you think you’re hot shit. Girls don’t like that vibe. Think of yourself as average to bad at what you’re doing, put in LOTS of work and thought, and strive to excel at vibing with women. That way if you don’t get sex out of a scenario or turn a girl into a stalker you’re not underwhelmed.

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