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[–]Dodechaedron 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know the answers. Put them into practice. For real.
[–]Turnhate2greatness 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright I just wanted to see if you had extra tips, thanks anyways for the motivation to start
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Focus on yourself and get into a situation where you become more desirable
I sea thanks for your words
[–]Ecstatic-Flounder-48 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP these are all the things you need to do. Not even for women but for yourself as a man with a purpose. The majority of these things will either directly increase your testosterone or will increase confidence and decrease stress, which increases testosterone. I started doing all these things and dress more confidently and now I literally feel people look up to me when they talk to me or guys look at me like they’re intimidated by me, hell I inadvertedly cock-blocked a guy today without even realizing until after.
I used to have no confidence to even talk to women and now it’s literally visible that I could say some of the dumbest shit and they’re still into me. It’s because I present myself as someone that gives a shit and knows his own worth but doesn’t need to flex it in people’s faces. Did I make a full 180 transformation? Not entirely. But do I feel like I did? Yes. And is that probably why women notice? Yes. It’s the change in confidence in yourself that you get from self-improvement that women find the most attractive.
Do all this physicall stuff you just listed. Lift, get tighter fitting clothes (after you lift), skin care, better haircut for face shape, and you WILL GO MILES.
[–]nedunash 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trying and failing and retrying will automatically build that confidence. I used to be a fat and shy kid, but then i decided to work on myself, read books, worked out and went out there and practiced. it helped me a lot.
[–]RealHumanBeing2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.
[–]MuMuGorgeus 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Come as you are" - for sex knowledge.
"Models attract women through honesty" - understanding that you don't need to be a pickup artist
"How to make friends and influence people" the bible of social interactions
"Feel the fear and do it anyway" helps a lot with daily basis challenges
"Fight club" to help you invoke your wild side
"Discourses and selected writings" for you to be an amazing human being, in fact. If you dedicated yourself completely to it's teachings, I'd say you don't even need most of the above. It can be a tricky read sometimes though.
[–]TheSunshineMan 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Game only requires one thing.
Game.
You don't need to have any friends.
You don't have to step foot in the gym a day in your life.
You don't need to have a job, car, or your own place, you don't even need to have a $1.00 in your pocket.
You can own one shirt, one pair of pants, and a pair of shoes, own nothing else in the world and still do AMAZING with women.
All you need is GAME.
[–]Turnhate2greatness 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I really want to believe you but it’s hard to believe it because I doubt women would stay with you if you are not making good money, in decent shape and take care of yourself overall. Maybe I am wrong and game is that important.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
u/TheSunshineMan is absolutely right
About 4 years ago I was broke and worked a miserable job as a construction laborer. I couldn’t afford to live on my own so my friend let me turn his dining room into my mini bedroom. I made a wall out of sheets so it sorta felt like a room, and had just enough room for a full size mattress on the floor, a dresser and a small night stand. But get this OP. I got all kinds of girls to come over to hook up and they didn’t give a fuck about my broke ass sheet room. Because I was confident in myself and was genuinely happy and fun. So that’s the trick to getting the girls you want. Do what makes you love YOU. Workout if that will build your confidence, it works for me. Explore your passions and really get to know you so you can be proud of who you are and the women will be attracted to you for you.
[–]Interesting_Jello417 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be comfortable in your own skin!!
[–]TheSunshineMan 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I doubt women would stay with you if you are not making good money,
Some women no.. most, don't care about how much money you make.
Don't believe me.. go on over to r/deadbedrooms and see how many many guys have good jobs, are married, and their women don't even want to have sex with them.
Being a man is the most important thing.
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm 31,F ridiculously hot.
pics or it didn't happen
[–]TheSunshineMan 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Rule #1 of game - don't EVER take dating advice from women.
Read the book "she comes first"
This is probably the worst advice ever posted on this sub.
OP - or anyone else who wants to be good with women, DO NOT follow this advice.
[–]Ecstatic-Flounder-48 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Especially when the advice is “temper your ego” but she calls herself “ridiculously hot” in the first line lmao.
OP, Do not take advice on how to fish from a fish. Take advice from a fisherman.
[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
but she calls herself “ridiculously hot” in the first line lmao.
Check her post history.. she mentions how hot she is in every comment... and look at her username - attention seeking behavior level 1000.
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[–]kikikgftyh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know right!
What could fish possibly know about getting caught by fishermen.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It depends on what type of women you want to sleep with you. Yeah you could get ripped, rich, and have a million women at your feet. They wouldn’t really want anything from you other than your money and validation from a hot guy(who’s only hot then for superficial reasons). Sounds like you’re not the type of guy who is naturally like this, but you can attract women who want to sleep with you without changing yourself. Seduction isn’t about being a PUA or anyone other than yourself. If you take time to get to know you, work on confidence, etc. You will attract quality women and better sex if you take care more about become the person YOU want to sleep it instead of just women.
[–]ocb05 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sufficient amount of confidence, healthy and fit, clean and shaven, treating them like treating anybody else. There you go.
[–]CurazyDayamondo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start fucking grinding go to gym and work hard to get your shit together. Watch YouTube videos on how to be charismatic and hold conversation
[–]Dredge-100 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get the book Conversation Casanova
[–]Interesting_You_6832 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But if you want to get in shape your diet is the first place to start can lose weight and gain muscle at the same time I’m pretty sure, I’m going to grab a meal plan off of a fiverr nutritionist soon here watched a video on it and buddy said it’s well worth the price, and then when I got more money I’ll grab a gym plan when I got the membership
[–]MoStuntin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Work out become a sikkkunt
[–]straightselfedge 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would recommend reading The Mystery Method.
[–]JackRedrow 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been there myself. 18 years old 240 pounds no muscles no girls. Then i got mad about myself, started lifting and lost 60 pounds. Bam got attention and finally not a virgin anymore.
Yes people are that shallow.
You could pull it off if you had enough confidence. But as you describe yourself i dont think that is an opportunity.
Basically Lift -》get confident and fit.
And for motivation.
Doing > interest > motivation
DM me if you want to know more
Edit: book: no more mister nice guy
[–]useles-converter-bot 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
240 pounds is the weight of $9582.93 worth of Premium Glass Nail Files...
[–]SexualGoodGirl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Playing with fire on YouTube!! He is very dominant and it's really great tips for all men
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