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[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Libraries around the area and coffee shops.
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Yea - Try to see if you can even get into the college library, most of them are open to the public. Many students that want to change ambiance go to coffee shops around the college. Sporting events is a great idea too. I know you work but maybe enroll in an introductory class of a subject you are interested in too. You’ll see many freshmen there.
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Even if it’s not, students are always coming in and out. You can just go in. All you need is your LTE to not use their wifi since that’s open only for students
[–]AUG-UAA-UAG-UGA 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go inside the college library
[–]hse7148 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go outside bro. Talk to cute girls you see in day to day life. If you want to explicitly find places that are mostly college girls and shit, check out your nearby college, see when they have events and stuff, like little concerts for example.
[–]Business-Purpose-724 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fake IDs and bar
[–]OkSwavae 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move to a college town of your choice of preference ie; (Los Angeles), (Arizona), (Houston), (NY) and live close to a college, go to bars close by the college and I’m sure you’ll meet more than enough college ladies.
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[–]picenussy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That shouldn't be that much of a problem. You're revealing a bit of a pessimistic mindset here, but don't worry, I'd say it's normal because of your situation, just realize you're stopping your own self from meeting new friends you'd really have fun with, and maybe also the girl you'll marry with, so, try to go over it and still approach groups of girls.
Don't pressure yourself by thinking you gotta close one of them, go in with the mindset you're tryna laugh for a second, and that if there are some indicators of interest, you will stay a bit more with them to vibe and see if you can number close some of them.
Btw know that, even though they're with friends, they still would really love to get approached (that's actually the reason they make themselves so pretty to go out to a simple mall or to college). It makes them feel special and they will talk about you for the rest of their day after you left. It's all good and fun, you'll make friends quick and maybe find yourself a girlfriend above that. + girls will find it really attractive that you had the balls to engage a group
Sorry 4 da long text. Good luck.
[–]etherealromance 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Myself and My friend Bodhi happen to be masters of meeting college girls. (We never went to college)
These are three simple ways to meet college girls. It’s obviously incredibly nuanced. If you have questions or want to jump on a free strategy call. Feel free to DM me. Cheers Bobby
[–]leetcodelyfer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ur pretty much fucked until you're 21 either way unless there is 18+
dive bars r just hands down the best place to meet girls... yeah you can day game but it's such a huge time investment that you should be using to study and money maxx
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go to bars in college towns where all the students go. That’s how guys i’m college meet girls too
[–]VeterinarianTight102 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He literally mentioned he can't go to bars :(
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my b 😅 i didn’t read it all
[–]rewinder909 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Collège campus like every campus has an outside for students to switch classes or lunch and stuff, just meet girls there. College campus girls are usually very open
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[–]rewinder909 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope, normally anyone can walk around, if they ask you something tell that you are just seeing/waiting for a friend or something. It's pretty normal to have young people around the college campus, so you are safe. Inform youself as well.
They wouldn’t ask him anything cause he is college aged
[–]malkolitchilk 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
While this is certainly an easy way to meet girls … I’d also be careful. I’m going to assume a lot of girls are going to find it creepy you are hanging around a school campus at a college you don’t go to…
[–]rewinder909 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well if you're young they can't really know if you are in the colllege, and even if they bring it up on the conversation like "what are you majoring in?" You can just answer I'm not studying here, Im just waiting for a friend. Nothing creepy about it. Just don't wander around for too much time and it's good, and have the mindset to take action.
Just say that you go to school there … lol
[–]lukabalooka 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
tinder
[+]jonchillmatic -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Tinder/bumble etc. Get yourself out there!
[–]MalibuProducer77 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't even think about Tinder, dear God! Online dating in general, just like Instagram/Tiktok, basically only works for women unless you're extremely attractive lol
[–]Fritochipteeth 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your answer is correct— but I have been left with nothing but scars from tinder. Bunch of men who “want nothing serious”, text you 24/7 but never meet you up, who simultaneously cling onto you and could care less if you died LMAO. It’s what I get for putting my dumbass on tinder though, shit.
[–]Mq200 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This has been one of my biggest problems as these are the girls I vibe with the most.
I recommend getting into a shared flat. Otherwise it's really difficult.
[–]Captain___Sassy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they have dance classes there, take one!
[–]TheRealAlkemyst 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just find out where everyone hangs out and hang out there too.
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