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[–]ruswal3 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Some people prefer blue eyes, other brow eyes. Some don't have stark preferences on the matter. You can definitely pull German girls, regardless of your eyes color
[–]permanent_pervert 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Some people brown eye
Wouldn't you agree that few people on this planet prefer brown eyes ???
[–]ruswal3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
It's just a guess from me, but I have the feeling that fair color-eyed people digs darker eyes. And OP seems to be after those girls.
[–]Necessary_Use660 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There tends to be two trends when it comes to attraction: liking potential partners with similar traits to their own or liking potential partners that have contrasting traits. It all depends on the individual rather than a group in most cases.
[–]permanent_pervert 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
but I have the feeling that fair color-eyed people digs more darker eyes
Interesting.
A whopping majority of people have brown/dark eyes. As a result I thought that light eyed people would practice endogamy to keep those genes going for as long as they can.
Unless your progeny end up looking like these people
[–]ruswal3 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Endogamy is consciousness choice, but sexual preferences are not. Genes are preserved only if they confere an evolutionary advantage
[–]permanent_pervert 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Genes are preserved only if they confere a evolutionary advantage
Damn
So objectively speaking ...... are brown eyes better ?
[–]United-Translator-91 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really? I thought my eye color was the reason they are rejecting me.
[–]Goku-m 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I prefer green, but I wouldn’t say “few” people on this planet prefer brown after all most people have brown eyes and I doubt they dislike their own eye color.
[–]permanent_pervert 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
after all most people have brown eyes and I doubt they dislike their own eye color.
haha, touche.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I am mixed race, my mother is black my father is white. So i’m sort of brownish with brown eyes. I am 5.8.
I dated a couple of years a german girl who was blond and had blue eyes, and she was 5.8 too. Had a great time with her.
[–]United-Translator-91 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude that's so cool! So the reason i get rejected is not my eye color is it?
Is that too late for me?
[–]ruswal3 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Your life has just begun, mate. At 17, you have wonderful years in front of you.
[–]United-Translator-91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But if i'll not be able to connect with women around me just because of a reason i cannot control, just because of my genetics, that wouldn't be a happy life?
[–]ReefLedger 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perhaps its your mental state (that you're genetically "wrong") that is off-putting? You're 17 and have your whole life ahead of you. Workout/get in shape. Go to school or get a job. Get your shit together and dress well and they will eventually come. Do you have a lot of friends as well? If not, you'd better start making some.
[–]One-Leg7314 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah you pretty much look like a Mexican
[–]United-Translator-91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude the profile pic isn't me. I just saw a pic about gymcels in an old sub.
A guy with narrow shoulders, have good genetics. And the other one is a cool, hot guy. It shows the importance of genetics so i put it as my profile picture. That photo really impressed me.
[–]Dakessian 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As a man I love any color, but green just really gets me. Everyone woman has a preference, some like white guys, some Asians and some Arabs. Take it slow and simply start by introducing yourself to women, eventually you’ll find someone.
[–]BannedAccountNumber5 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, don't worry about your eye colour.
1) You can't control it and
2) People aren't gonna turn down someone just because of their eye colour. A nice eye colour is a plus, but not the selling point. The selling point is you.
[–]Noigah 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really do not care about the eye colour of someone, if it’s blue nice, if it’s green wow, but I don’t choose someone based on their eye colour
[–]CrabBucketSecurity 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The reason why you can’t meet German women is because you haven’t adapted to the culture yet and don’t understand dating and flirting from a German perspective or the needs and desires of women.
Stop making excuses by pointing at external factors you can’t control, It’s got nothing to do with your eye colour or skin colour. It’s behaviour and attitude. Nothing will change until you can admit this to yourself, and start working on those things.
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[–]United-Translator-91 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I don't. I just like a lot of girls among the local germans and wanted to find out if im able to find a blue eyed girl (Like %99 of them) if im brown eyed. I don't have any intent to be only with white women or pick up every white woman i saw. I just want to be a normal person
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[–]United-Translator-91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What can i do for dating them?
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[–]United-Translator-91 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's really it? Well im not a stereotype, i can guarantee that. My physique is ok. If i'll get money and status, will i be able to date them?
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[–]United-Translator-91 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well at least i want to be in a relationship with one of them, for just one time. I love women of all colors but most people around me are German and i want to be one of them. There's no reason i should prevent them.
[–]lovepuppy31 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Seems like as an Arab dude you have a preference for white girls. No shame in that, every dude here has their preference of physical traits (I like tall amazonian ladies). That being said the same works in reverse, ladies have preference in ethnicity and physical charact of their men.
You have to move to a part of Germany that's very multinational like Berlin where German women are more likely to date Arab guys.
[–]United-Translator-91 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude i am Turkish, not Arab. I said "When i saw here the arab..." on the post, not because i am Arab like him.
I don't discriminate race, in fact i can date with a girl from any race. But honestly, at least i want to be with one white girl in my life.
Note: Idk why i use the term of white lol, only thing seperates me from europen look is my hair and eye color.
[–]lovepuppy31 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sorry dude didn't mean to offend. But if you look "white" then getting a white girlfriend shouldn't be an issue. But if you pass for "kinda white" that's a different story which I suspect is the case since you posted here.
No no, you really didn't offend me bro. What i mean by white / caucasian is i am half Bulgarian and half Turkish. But generally raised in a Turkish culture. My skin is white, my eyes aren't slant like an asian phenotype. But my eyes and hair is brown.
Is that mean something bad about my dating life with German women?
(Note: My eyes are so dark it's almost black btw)
[–]lovepuppy31 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ummm there's a shit ton of brown haired and brown eyed German girls so date them then?
[–]SelfZealousideal8524 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Yes i am that guy. If you're ethnic male in Europe, sorry that's over.
[–]CrabBucketSecurity 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
A crab is trying to get out of the bucket, quickly! Secure the exit! 🦀
[–]SelfZealousideal8524 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Easy to talk hein? You're not the one ethnic male in Europe. You don't realize how women here are tendant to be with white men and %99.99 of ethnic male like us are ignored.
[–]CrabBucketSecurity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How did you do with ladies in your homeland ?
[–]SelfZealousideal8524 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is not even important. The fact is you make a statement about the situation you never experienced.
As a local european man, you cannot understand how women are treating us there. You have brown eyes? You're gone. You're dark skinned? You're gone. You're a foreigner? You're gone.
[–]CrabBucketSecurity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It very is important. If you can get girls in your homeland but not in Europe, you might be onto something. But because you dodged the question, I'll assume you knew where that question was leading and didn't want to reveal that you did equally as bad back home as you do there. Meaning that the problem is you.
Now, I have no issue with you saying “its over” for yourself. But if you tell that to other guys who you don't know, you are being an asshole. Just because you don't know what you're doing, doesn't mean others can't figure it out. He is perfectly capable of developing faster than you and over taking you in knowledge and ability.
The reason why you can’t meet women is because you don’t understand dating and flirting from a local perspective or the needs and desires of women.
[–]SelfZealousideal8524 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
t girls in your homeland but not in Europe, you might be onto something. But because you dodged the question, I'll assume you knew where that question was leading and didn't want to reveal that you did equally as bad back home as you do there. Meaning that the problem is you. Now, I have no issue with you saying “its over” for yourself. But if you tell that to other guys who you don't know, you are being an asshole. Just because you don't know what you're doing, doesn't mean others can't figure it out. He is perfectly capable of developing faster than you and over taking you in knowledge and ability. The reason why you can’t meet
t girls in your homeland but not in Europe, you might be onto something. But because you dodged the question, I'll assume you knew where that question was leading and didn't want to reveal that you did equally as bad back home as you do there. Meaning that the problem is you.
The reason why you can’t meet
What if the issue of women is, that they want blue eyed white men, mr.crab?! Maybe this is what they want and you... As a dark foreigner can't get any even you do everything?! Isn't that a possibility my friend?
You'll never realize maybe but... Maybe my friend, just think, are these women really into the thing that you call "Character" ? Maybe, they just want some damn white men and isolate others?!
[–]CrabBucketSecurity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody who is sure of what they are saying says “maybe” several times in one sentence. “Maybe” is not what you base an argument on.
The problem is either.
A. All women.
B. You don't know what you're doing.
Question....what is so bad about saying you don't know what you are doing?. At least there is promise there, it means you have something to build on, means you have knowledge and skills to acquire. Why are you so opposed to that concept?.
[–]_LilDuck 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the long run, probably not. You're 17 my dude. Just put the work in, take your shots and it should work out
[–]Ace11791 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah if you can't get laid it is obviously because of the colour of your eyes, not, I am a white guy with green eyes, obviously it helps but It is not the most important thing is terms of my results tbh
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