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[–]dirtymanbeast 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like you just need to think on your feet more. You used your go-to and had nothing else after she shut it down.
The best time to go for a kiss is during a more intimate moment. Never at the end cause that's expected. When sitting or standing close to each other and it feels like it's just the two of you.
[–]alchemischief 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice.
[–]Crixusgannicus 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Double entendres.
Then accuse her of having a dirty mind when she catches them.
Then on to stuff along the lines of..you're not as innocent as I thought are you?
Answer to bonus question. If you don't escalate past the friend zone upon first meeting/first date 90% chance or higher you will STAY in the friend zone.
Agree with dirtymanbeast never ever ever wait until the end because they are expecting it then. Gotta get it done before that.
[–]alchemischief 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Get it done” geeez you make a woman sound like a to-do list.
[–]Crixusgannicus 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The woman "ain't".
The "mission" is.
The woman is the adventure.
The mission is the road.
Damn, that's good if I do say so myself....
Besides, it's to her benefit as well as mine that I get it done because
Satisfaction Guaranteed.
[–]Ohhhwordddd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah 1st date is crazy unless y’all had a strong sexual chemistry from the jump
[–]obamainmypajama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ikr?? I think the answers on here really have to do with what generation you're from. I'm 24 and I feel like it should be taken slow on the first date, it's a good frame to hold and you don't come off as needy or a creep At All. It looks more natural when it happens ok the 2nd.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I always go for the first kiss on the first date.
Asking them about kissing is the gateway to getting the kiss, which leads to other things.
[–]alchemischief 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Solid advice. Communication, who’d have thought?
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[–]mollywhinchester 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First date? I kissed him the first 30 seconds after we actually met in person. But I always love it when the man offers me a hug or their hand at a proper time in the date
[+]TheSunshineMan -12 points-11 points-10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Kiss = fail - and a good chance you'll never see her again.
Sex = success - and almost every girl I have sex with I can see a second time if I chose to.
You should always push for sex on the first date - because good chance you won't see her again if you don't.
[–]obamainmypajama 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What you said sounds true but it is not very practical for every situation and person. I guess that's why so many -s ? Like for instance the girl I got with is from my office, and I didn't wanna do Anything cringy that might mess up my next and last couple months at the job (I'm leaving). I can do it on a second date and at my own pace than rush it.
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