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Daunt02 · 2021-05-11T15:59:48+00:00

Most of the time I believe that the moving on advice is good because the guy has already blown himself out and is just falling for a imaginary trap of, "if I just do this then I'll get her". Most of the time, no you won't. If there isn't chemistry and it doesn't click then there isn't anything to seduce. By definition seducing is a, "tempting or attracting thing". If you're neither tempting or attracting to her then the seduction "phase" is over.

Sure we could talk about the dark arts of manipulation and whatnot to get women attached to you artificially but that's simp/predator territory and I'm not a fan of that.

Chasing women is a fools game. Attracting women is the art that we're focusing on. A lot of times that means taking time to make yourself more attractive and moving on from a particular woman. That is why specific scenarios aren't allowed. It's feeding into simp mentality. Abundance mentality is what should be sought after.

A lot of guys need to hear that they need to move on. Oneitis is rampant. Why spend time chasing a woman when there's one right over there that'll dig you?

krokdiI · 2021-05-11T17:08:16+00:00

Sometimes y’all need discouraging. As a woman the amount of men who can’t take a hint, and even take a straight up no is beyond infuriating and can border on terrifying. If someone makes it clear they’re not interested LEAVE THEM ALONE. You can’t seduce someone who isn’t at the very least a bit interested in you. You fundamentally misunderstand what seduction is.

Captain_w00t · 2021-05-11T16:39:45+00:00

As another commenter said, moving on is the right thing to do when it didn’t worked.

Chasing someone in these situations usually means stalking/harassment or lame ridiculousness for yourself in the best case scenario.

Chasing MIGHT be appropriate when things are going slowly forward AND you genuinely like someone AND the other person didn’t explicitly rejected you OR the rejection was somewhat “soft” (ex: “I’m actually busy” or “I’m not ready to date again because...”, which should be considered for each case and situation anyway).

Personal-Brain428 · 2021-05-11T17:20:11+00:00

We say that because it's the truth

This isn't 2001 anymore where people are are gonna be like ''She thinks you're ugly? No worries. Just use this 'neg' and this DHV story and do the strawberry fields routine, and she'll wanna rip your clothes off''!! haha. Pure make believe marketing

You can't MAKE a girl sexually attracted to you. Can't can't negotiate attraction

But you're right in a way. The sub is called 'seduction'. Which is a bit silly. Even the mods here often reply to threads basically saying 'take your shot, show your intent and move on'. Or if someone asks how to get their hot neighbour, the mod reply is 'ask her out' or they are told that they can't help him get a particular girl (e.g conceding that ''seduction' just isn't actually a thing lol)

emmelh8s · 2021-05-11T17:12:40+00:00

Chasing a woman who isn’t interested to you isn’t invigorating for the woman. It’s scary, and beyond creepy. If a woman wants you, she’ll let you know. I’m only 22 and I know this. I’ve had 2 long term girlfriends (one from 16-18, and one from 18 until now) and BOTH of them approached me. The idea you need to “chase” a woman to get her interested in you is hollywood bullshit. I literally haven’t even approached a girl since I was like 14 and I’ve never had a problem.

dasanman69 · 2021-05-11T17:35:41+00:00

We discourage working hard for a woman's attention when you can find one that will make it easy.

Ashido_Komaki · 2021-05-11T18:13:17+00:00

Life is RNG it's like the casino you might win some you might loose some.

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