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[–]phreakist9 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Good video. The core mindsets are great, and I've actually never heard the there's no such thing as rejection bit before, but I've totally already embraced the crazy story aspect.
[–]MaxFlexins 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha, me too im quite the story teller! I do see what hw means though When you lose your ego you accept rejection and this acceptance of rejection cancells rejection out, It would no longer be rejection, it mean simply that the girl is not for you. Rejection is only bad to people because people reject the reality that they have not lost a single thing when "rejection occurs"
[–]NewHope13 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I really dig his "shut the fuck up" attitude, it's kind of refreshing, a la Jeffy from RSD.
[–]Big_TX 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you will enjoy this video!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WloORPfKnD4
[–]NewHope13 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like many of his videos and this was a good one too
[–]throwaway_baymax 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is good advice. I made a quick summary for those that don't have time to watch the whole thing.
Sasha’s Tips, paraphrased: Smile, it isn’t hard and it’s extremely important. Give genuine compliments to women you find attractive; it’s almost rude not to do it. It’s your job as a man to make their day, so do it. Also, as a healthy normal man, know that you’re actually entitled to pussy; so stop jerking off, forever, and go and approach women. Speaking of approaching, only approach beautiful women; it’s more authentic, and most hot girls are actually more receptive, so it’s easier. When you go for what you want in this way, it is not only natural but also very sexy, it gets you more women, gets you women that are actually into you and gets you more respect, from others and from yourself. As a strategy, it even saves you time and psychological energy. So henceforth, always know what you want and be very clear about it; communicate it unapologetically and don’t even hesitate for a single second - run towards them if you have to. Remember that there’s no such thing as rejection, it simply means she didn’t have what you wanted. Every approach is either going to result in a fun time or a funny story - so you’ve nothing to lose. You’ve nothing to be scared of because the odds actually favour you - 97% of guys are either lazy or lousy, so you’re only competing with 3%! So go put yourself on the line, fearlessly, with an attitude that says “It’s OK if you don’t like me!”. Pull the trigger early and be persistent, but don’t plough - if she’s not interested, move the fuck on. Lastly, be genuinely curious and get to know them - nothing is a bigger turn on than that. To capture all that in one sentence, “You’re gorgeous, let’s get coffee” - say that the next time you blank.
[–]midnightyeti 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with almost all of what he says, it's great, simple philosophy that most men don't do.
[–]sambo_22 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for this.
[–]MaxFlexins 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It helped me out and I thought I would share! Glad it helped
[–]pipboy90 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey, I'm really enjoying this so far. Thanks for sharing it.
[–]scaremenow 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not quite sure, maybe someone here could light up my lantern,
When he says: "There is no such thing as rejection, the girl just doesn't ahve what you want". I get that THIS isn't rejection, but what if she says: "Yeah, I'd like to, but not with you for (reasons)". Isn't that rejection?
[–]angryfistofgod 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
His mental framework is that by her declining him, it isn't a rejection. It could be viewed as one but in his mind she is outright telling him that she is a girl he does not want. She is doing the work of filtering herself as a partner because he looks someone that wants him. Without the mutual connection, there was no paring to begin with though it was unknown till she said it. Saving him time of spending dates to find that out.
[–]Camgirl1 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
This guy is creepy and sounds like he is on speed. He didn't iron his shirt and he looks sweaty. His first impression is not solid and I wouldn't really give him a chance.
That said I want to talk about his first "mindset": complimenting a girl.. it doesn't matter how much time and effort I put into the way I look, I never want to feel like I don't have to "work" at getting or keeping a guy's attention. If he is already sold on me from the get go, I probably wont be very interested in him, just the way it goes.
Also, "you look beautiful" is commonplace and not genuine. If you want to compliment a woman you have to find something that makes her feel proud. Don't compliment her on being beautiful or her looks in general, compliment her on her style, on how fit she is, on something she controls and has actually worked on.
[–]midnightyeti 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
Lol he doesn't come across "creepy" at all, and if you watch his videos on YouTube he approaches HOT girls in the street, keeps them talking, and gets a bunch of numbers without batting an eyelid. In one video he even intentionally dresses like a dick to prove it's more down to his daring, confident style that shines through.
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have noticed that his infield videos come across a little weird. It took me a long time to figure out why. He is really smooth but that does not come out in his videos. He dresses badly and behaves a bit strangely. But I think he does this to show that you don't have to be Mister Alpha, Superhero, just to get girls. A regular guy with a bad haircut can do it too.
Anyway, it is worth noting that Sasha did an official AMA in seddit.
[–]MaxFlexins 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sasha is currently my favorite PUA along with RSDtyler. Thanks for sharing his AMA!!
[–]Tundreo 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, dressing as a dick is not creepy at all.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're missing the point completely, willingly.
[–]Camgirl1 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are right, I just watched a couple of his videos on Youtube and he doesn't come across as creepy when approaching girls. His compliments are okay cause he drops them naturally. I must assume then that he was nervous when he did that conference.
[–]midnightyeti 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
True, but he doesn't look nervous on this speech video at all, he may be wearing a shirt that's not ironed but that's probably his style, rough n' ready, and it works for him. But having said all that, surely a lot of girls tell him to just piss off as well.
[–]extract_ 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree that he does need to iron his shirt and shit, but he is just energetic. I admit i find some of his infield videos a bit awkward because of how animated he is, but I think he is just an really enthusiastic guy.
and if "you look beautiful" is not genuine enough for you, go fuck yourself. And cold approaching requires compliments.
[–]ObyrenOfDorne 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I took video of you public speaking to a large group, you'd probably sound like you're on speed too. Almost every non professional either speaks quickly or umms and uuuhs when public speaking.
[–]Lakerman -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sure he is a douche as well. It is just a testament about women, they don't smell shit where it is in plain sight. If this guy fucks more than 3-4 women in his life then it means two things 1. most of you are set 2. women are so low level that they don't see the wrong in a serial date fucker About point 2: Why would you want those?
[–]midnightyeti 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You seem bitter.
[–]Lakerman -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you seem silly :=(
[–]fatsug 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Posting here to find this thread again
[–]aerospacequantum21 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Props op. Adding the word shit and capitalizing worda is what gets stuffed upvoted in this sub. Add an exclamation mark and it goes high
[–]zephyrprime 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sasha daygame has horrible fricken game. I came to this determination from watching this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddjZf7Nqbo0&feature=youtu.be&a
He is so socially miscalibrated. He says all these cringeworthy things. He has good confidence and is unflappable despite all the bad reactions he gets but because he is so ineffective at pickup, I don't think anyone should be taking any advice from him. Maybe he should give lectures on inner game because that is the only part of his game I see as being any good.
[+]Zoloir -7 points-6 points-5 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Didn't watch, I'd prefer to see something where he hidden cams himself literally practising daygame and then talking about that rather than a pure motivational speech.
[–]MaxFlexins 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He has these too on his channel. Its not motivational speech its more like a reality check.
[–]Zoloir 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Interesting, will have to check those out then. Thanks for the tip.
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