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Lambdal7 · 2018-04-30T20:04:06+00:00

Because every point is appropriate in one situation and inappropriate in another.

Game is knowing to tell if any of 1,000 rules you've learned is appropriate right now.

How to know that? Lots of practice, lots of experimentation, lots of failure.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-30T20:09:35+00:00

I have used every one of these and it's worked for me. I don't understand number 7 though. wtf is that about lol. The whole "negging" thing is dumb. Basically tease her about stuff worth teasing, the trick is always have fun around her. Don't be a downer is all.

ResidentCut · 2018-04-30T20:28:25+00:00

If you read enough game material, literally every single rule will be disputed (from Not volunteering your name until she asks, to when to show intent, and everything in between) so it's almost not worth worrying about it. IN that sense, 'game' really might not exist. I mean, if there are no 'rules' (which there obviously aren't considering everything is contradicted) then there's really no 'game'.

I think just concentrate on the universal things, so just try to convey confidence basically! (so calm body language, good eye contact, trying to keep the convo going to avoid awkward silences etc) Everything else you can just freestyle since it really doesn't matter. So be direct. Indirect. Tell her she's hot straight away. Don't tell her she's hot ever. Up to you whether you qualify her or not. Not a deal breaker etc etc. Doesn't matter.

The most important thing is that she thinks you are hot, basically. Doesn't mean you need to be a young Tom Welling, but she needs to think you are somewhat handsome. Without that, you ain't gonna get the girl as she would be a 'no girl' and they can't be turned

BozoCardozo · 2018-04-30T21:00:18+00:00

There are so many different means to an end, and what works for one person isn’t going to work for another. Likewise, what will work in one situation won’t work in another. That’s why you hear the words “calibration” and “numbers game” thrown around here so often. You have to calibrate yourself to a certain situation and be able to adapt the change in circumstances/a different girl’s personality. If there were a mechanical process that worked in every situation, everyone would do this stuff. But there isn’t. Game centers itself in a few core concepts, and it’s up to the player to know when you do one thing versus another. This requires a certain level of social intellect, wit, and confidence.

I know when it comes to Seddit that it seems like we’re getting laid every night with every girl we approach. That couldn’t be farther from the truth. Most of us get rejected waaaay more often than we succeed, but the difference is we learn how to 1) not get rejected right off the bat, 2) get rejected less often, and, perhaps most importantly, 3) recognize rejection so as to not waste time on something that just isn’t going to happen.

That said, at the end of the day, all you’re doing is talking to a human being who just happens to have a vagina.

t1mman · 2018-04-30T20:11:58+00:00

Ain't no magic pills in life, you're getting laid not by a mere message, but by a situation that you built up. Forget about scripting your life and learn to adapt.

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