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PowPowSlashSlash · 2012-05-10T18:13:02+00:00

Thought I was going to read a FR about how OP found out the girl he was hitting on was on her period.

Misleading title

SirFluff · 2012-05-10T17:48:22+00:00

I don't think you blew yourself out with the redhead yet. No one's to say you can't ring her back and escalate. She's shy, and just as so you need to escalate as well as comfort, they want the security of trusting you; they want and long to give themselves to you. Don't cock block yourself man.

The good thing is you realized what happened and can make it better the next time. You recognized what you did (or did not do) and can combat it again. Recognize your success- you saw her, approached, got the number and isolated. She knows who you are, get her out again and do something fun that required you to touch her. Take her to the park and push her on the swings.

You haven't failed, try again.

d41d8cd · 2012-05-10T17:48:21+00:00

You can lurk here forever and memorize everything but still suck the first time in the field! Just get more practice bro, it doesn't change overnight.

gj667cc · 2012-05-11T00:30:29+00:00

I'm not a natural social toucher beyond the handshake/bro hand shake/fist bump at the intro, it's going to feel unnatural as fuck at first but keep at it and you'll start doing it without even noticing.

VMikeL · 2012-05-11T03:11:12+00:00

Dude, she's a redhead, never let them go... Simply go back and do it again. If she doesn't hate you, and if she's willing to talk to you, it's all salvageable. Game is about time, and if you give up, you lose. Just keep going.

generalben · 2012-05-12T19:46:57+00:00

Well guys, thanks for your input. I really appreciate it. I was thinking about this feeling that I've had. And I realized that I have this feeling because of these crappy seduction materials. If I hadn't read a lot of PUA shit in the past years, probably I wouldn't felt that bad feeling that I had after the meetup. And I'm totally sure that if I really hadn't read these books, I wouldn't approached her. Quite paradoxical.

I'd like to say a big thank you again - with every approach and conversation I learn, and it was a great lesson to me. And you may ask 'and what about the redhead'?

Well, we didn't talk since the meetup, and I'm not sure if we really will. At this moment I don't give a shit about this thing. I didn't contact her and vice versa. I don't know where is this going, but if something more serious happens (this includes menstrual sex reports, ofc) I'll let you know.

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Date	May 10, 2012 5:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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