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[–]GoP-Demon 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
when they say "Lol"
[–]Fudd4r 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha ok
I cri evrytm :'(
[–]scratchii 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Reminds me of seinfeld aka George Costanza! Leave on a high point!
[–]GoP-Demon 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mmm you could look at it that way. But I see lol as just a quick way to end the convo. I sometimes say it when I have nothing to say or am not interested.
[–]bearze 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What I've been doing, is ALWAYS leaving it off on a high note. Start talking to the girl, blah blah blah get stuff done, then end it before it starts to die out.
The other day I texted the girl I like if she moved down to where I am yet. She says no, she's in the Hospital. So I talked to her for a bit, teased her, then ended it at the highest note possible (That I could think of). I've done this every time I\ve talked to her over the summer, and every conversation ends with HER being the last text. Literally every time she ends it super excited now
[–]will566398 points 12 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
When the dialogue is still entertaining for you both but you're beginning to search for things to say... you'll recognise when things are starting to drag on. Ideally though, at this point you should look for an opportunity to arrange to meet up. There's no point wasting time and effort texting a girl you're not looking to see in the short-term. Hope that helps!
[–]R4ndom_Hero 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say, cut the conversation as soon as possible and arrange a meeting. Once that is done, don't text the girl again, except to confirm the meeting.
I don't see the point in having long text conversation with a girl - even when it's extremely interesting. Girl will get bored eventually, and then you're left with nothing. Not to mention the basics - If the girl doesn't want to meet up after 3-4 texts, any further conversation is a waste of time and you should move on.
[–]Per_Petual 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
On a good note. See if you can get her to express a sign of interest (whether it be wording, a smiley, or just a straight-forward compliment) and then float to the topic of what she's doing ______, and invite her to whatever you're doing (have something good planned before the conversation even starts), that way you can confirm the meetup and end with a text that says something along the lines of "Cya there!" Remember, when it comes to anything in the world, people may more attention to the beginning/end than the middle. That being said I believe it's a bit more important to end well than to begin well, although both would make an added bonus.
[–]Afeni02 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When YOU are no longer interested, she has to be able to keep your attention, even then it's better to interact with her in real life, only text to set up dates or meet up in person.
[–]OhMyGoat 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you have to start to think of things to say. If you have to try extra hard, then finish the conversation. But make sure you've arranged to meer her before you do that.
[–]Wolf97 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kill it before it dies.
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