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[–]amyers 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I notice a lot of seddit users main problem is approach anxiety. I've transformed from a fat, anti-social, "professional PC gamer" that would spend his weekends at LAN parties. Into a fit, extremely social person that has had the good fortune to date (and currently be dating) really beautiful girls that I otherwise would have never been able to approach.. let alone date.
Hope this helps some of the newbies.
I even mention the Pete Rose story one of you posted... really enjoyed that.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Is this you? If it is, the content is really good and I like that you come across as normal and don't feel the need to push an 'alpha' mentality like you're a superior person to the people you're advising.
However, I would say you should work on your presentation skills, some of the wording you used and improve the quality of filming on your videos. It'll make everything look much more professional and polished, which makes a big difference in the number of people who are interested in and share videos like this.
Here's a good example of really high quality videos, even though I don't think the quality of content is the best (it's not bad, just not amazing), I watched all of them just because the quality of film making was good.
Just some friendly advice :)
Edit: Also, sort your website out :P I recommend using tumblr or a similar framework, it'll make everything much easier and cheaper.
[–]amyers 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, it's me.
Still new to being in front of a camera, getting used to it. I appreciate all of the feedback and will implement ASAP! :) Thanks again!
Glad you liked the content, though.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No problem, good luck!
[–]Epoh 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man, I'm tall and have been told I'm good looking by girls, and I still can't make shit happen, so between the two of us it just shows anyone can change.
I was out at this folk festival tonight with a few friends, and this amazingly hot chick in her group of friends was always making eye contact with me, I couldn't approach. I don't know how to talk to people, have a conversation flow well, and come across in a way that's funny but not desperate and so heading over to this girl and her group would've been suicide. If I could just get past that I feel like the rest would take care of itself.
[–]mmgolebi 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good stuff!
[–]Manny_Rize 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
You made some really good points, props man. I specifically liked your concept ROR (rejection over regret)
go in expecting to succeed, be yourself and find your tribe rather than calibrate your personality to the type of guy the girl your approaching might like.
Good stuff. You remind me of some of the friends i had in high school. Were in the same tribe man,lol.
[–]Micro_lite 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I specifically liked your concept ROR (regret over approach)
Haha, you have it backwards... rejection over regret
[–]Manny_Rize 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shit! Fixed.
[–]xavi3r 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thank you!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great video, you fit like 30 mins of content into 10.
[–]MeanwhileInAmerica -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You just complicated it
[–][deleted] 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
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[–]amyers 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its not an article, its a video.
[–]Waitwhatwtf 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hi Laurence,
I see here that you're attempting to troll. It's a poor attempt, 0/10. By the way, how's the weather over there in Kingsthorpe?
[–]bigdaddtcane 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hopefully this is creepy enough to keep him away
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