A while ago, I have returned from a week vacation in Amsterdam. I went twice to a pub crawl (totally recommend it), and went out each time. This has happened to me in both pub crawls:

The first pub was quite lame as no one danced and had fun. I was with my friends. I went up to literally every person in the pub (who was in the pub crawl) and had us "cheers/prost/salud" or whatever language you would like. The next pub, I literally pulled people in the dancing floor and everyone began dancing and having fun.

Anyway, I dance with girls in the pubcrawl, but they never seem to like me in a sexual way. In one of the times I danced with this Danish girl, I moved her around, she jumped on me and wraped her legs around me. I moved for the kiss, she dodged and I was quite embarrased (my friends laughing did not help), and I kinda fled from her. Anyway, this leaved me very frustrated, as no approach was successful... One time I only tried to talk to a girl and she said "I don't like you".

This sort of breaks you. It was quite hard for me to handle so many faliures, although I am the fun guy etc' etc'. Any ideas?