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Starman520 · 2017-11-10T00:31:59+00:00

There is no way to increase chances with a person aside from hanging out more. But dressing well and being a good person generally helps. Hang out more and tell her straight up you like her in a good atmosphere/non-threatening place. Otherwise, its the 'friendzone' for you.

JMSZ · 2017-11-10T04:39:03+00:00

Show some tiddays

Interestingbeing · 2017-11-10T01:02:19+00:00

I know that I flirt with a girl but can't tell if it comes across as friendliness.

ImJustSo · 2017-11-10T02:23:29+00:00

So most of us are going to give you shitty advice that you're going to have to filter with femininity. I'm going to try, but I'm sure it'll suck, too. I can only speak from an outside perspective.

What I've noticed is that a forward moving woman is just as successful as forward moving men, when it comes to women. I think what you have going for you is the desire for her, because it's motivating you. Here you are posting about it. I think the advice to give for success is just to touch her often while hanging out and see how she rolls with it. I mean, that's the only difference between being platonic and not, so it has to happen.

Might as well just start testing her boundaries and see what she is okay with and what she's not and see where it goes.

I don't think you should wait for meeting up, you should do it.

I don't think you should wait for touching, you should do it.

I don't think you should wait for her to kiss you, you should do it.

I think making this post makes it your job to lead, because you've already started, might as well keep the momentum going.

douchabag_dan · 2017-11-10T02:46:06+00:00

If you are a lesbian, then you can probalby aanswer this quesiton yourself better than any of us keyboard warriors possibly can. Afterall, we can only make educated guesses based on spotty success/failure backed up by annectodets from other men who may or may not be making things up.

You, being a women who is attracted to women, should know EXACTLY what it would take for a woman who is attracted to women to be seduced. Just ask yourself what a woman would have to do to seduce you and that is probably pretty close to what would work on another woman.

Interestingbeing · 2017-11-10T00:56:14+00:00

Youre right. I am not afraid of rejection just the awkwardness that resides afterwards. Okay I may sound like a noob but I have flirted in the past with many girls, but how would you do it in a flirty way? I have flirted with her and gave her winks a few times. But how can she tell that I am not just being friendly and actually flirting. Give me a good flirty way of flirting with her. I have directly told girls I like them in the past like directly.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-11-10T05:56:03+00:00

Comments are spot on....

WTF do we know??? We're dudes.... LOL

Interestingbeing · 2017-11-10T05:57:08+00:00

Lol Everyone men or women can relate to being attracted to someone and needing advice on evolving this attraction/doing something about it

Tokemoke · 2017-11-10T13:56:48+00:00

Just go for it and quit being passive. Attraction happens in seconds not over months and weeks. Pull the trigger before someone else gets in there. At the very least you will feel good that you did.

Interestingbeing · 2017-11-11T20:46:27+00:00

Update: it was extremely cold at the office, the heater was off and she took my arm and pulled down my sweater of my arm and put her nose on my forearm to show me how cold she was. Throughout the day she also stroked my arm a few times softly with her nails, as well on my shoulders. She was wearing a skirt and I touched her leg as we were sitting together asking her if she was cold. Moreover, she came with me doing a task together without me asking and without telling her boss. She wanted to take her break with me and I took action, i asked her to MEET UP next week. She agreed right away, and so we will be hanging out next week. I flirted with her, because she felt bad that some girls were not being nice about what she was wearing at work, and I told her it was because they are jealous of her beauty.

throwawaylilbastard · 2017-11-10T11:27:42+00:00

I would tell her to have a girls night out. Just you and her. Be it a bar or a club. You would go in the dancefloor (make sure you drinks some alcohol) and you would make a move on her there. Or you could always invite her over to "show her the new guitsr that you bought".

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