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[–]beastboi27 29 points30 points31 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just deleted tinder again...
[–]giggity23 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha I did too!
[–][deleted] 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]-Justanotherdude 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I am not alone ...
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Update: i now have Tinder Gold for 1 month. Let’s see how it goes
[–]lamyarus 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Give an update please after a month to let us know how it went
[–]Scrub_TLC 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Update in one month bump
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking about this haha I don’t even know what to do for a review post
[–]Scrub_TLC 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Asians, Blacks, and Latinas, would be my suggestion!
[–]PandaDentist 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Update?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I have a FR to write in a bit, but I’ll see if i can get a post in about Tinder and throw in some advice about it also
[–]Scrub_TLC 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ever write that?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wrote something about why Tinder sucks
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder is too mainstream now. You should approach in real life. Instead of swiping, improve yourself everyday and this will improve your confidence.
[–]SnapSocialGuru 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
Here’s my advice to anyone using Tinder and other similar dating apps:
First, do your research.
Nowadays, there many experts (first who comes to mind is Playingfire.com) who specialize in dating apps game.
Research them.
Second, pay the premiums.
If you have to pay $6-$7 (or whatever it is these days) for more exposure, do it.
It’s a small price to pay for exponential results.
The game is rapidly changing nowadays. It’s not just about “attraction” anymore, but also how you leverage social media and dating apps.
Best of luck.
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
You really believe paying on Tinder (or other apps) is worth it?
[–]Reiashi 15 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Tinder Premium is by far some of the best 10ish bucks I spend a month
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
$28 for 1 month here in Australia, I can't say I can justify that!
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
How so?
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Not sure how I ended up on this subreddit but you get boosts on tinder premium. Assuming you're just going off if looks and swiping fast, You'll get enough matches in those 15 minutes or so to last a few weeks
At least in cities
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
God, you guys have me wanting to pay $6-8 a month to get more matches
What has my situation come to
[–]ArtOfDivine 62 points63 points64 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder is broken.
All the guys are horny bastards who only swipe right. So tinder is basically a market, supply and demand. Girls become extremely picky and ego comes into play.
You have a better chance at the bar or physical venue. Unless your a gorgeous guy
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s the price of a single drink in a night out, so, it’s really cheap and works for multiple girls :)
[–]Do-it-for-you 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're the one asking how to win at tinder, after fixing your profile to get maximum attention it's just a matter of exposure. Which costs money.
You can choose not to pay for it of course.
[–]SnapSocialGuru 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s almost 2018 man.
Get rid of the negative mentality.
You’re behind on times.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Slight sarcasm behind it haha. Difficult to convey.
You don't have to swipe.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Get their IG (as long as it's under a 1000) followers and go from there
[–]ArtOfDivine 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean? I am confused, sounds helpful
[–]DamnYouGaryColeman 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hes saying get their instagram profile. And to use IG as a tool to attract them/others. Stuff like that.
[–]ArtOfDivine 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How do you get their ig profile if you can’t even match them?
[–]DamnYouGaryColeman 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well yeah, you gotta match with them first. A lot of them have them in their Tinder profile though.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's usually linked or said in the bio. Before sending a message, wait a bit after following them and like a pic or two. If they don't follow back, then unfollow.
Yup. Though only if they follow back
[–]Starboy1492 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I don't like tinder. I've had girls say racist shit to me on there and have been stood up on dates.
[+]Scrub_TLC -13 points-12 points-11 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
lol, more reason to bang them... If a girl offends me I am definitely gonna have sex with her and turn her into a better person OR barring that as a possibility, date her, dump her, and give her a crisis of identity which will afford her the opportunity to self-reflect and become less of a piece of shit.
But my penis is more noble and altruistic than most :D
Seriously tho, you are giving up too easily, hahaha lol :) Like if I was black guy or smth and a little white girl said some racist shit to me god it would turn me on so much to fuck her while I stretch out her tight little racist pussy and get her pretty little white girl racist pussy juice all over my big black cock. I would so be fantasizing about getting her pregnant and how upset her racist piece of shit father will be when my beautiful black baby rips his racist piece of shit daughter's pussy to shreds while giving the finger to that bitches perineum like sucks to be you, you ignorant racist stupid slutty dumb fuck. OOOOOH then really nail it home by getting custody of the kid since she can't be trusted with the child since she's a racist hahahahahahaa! Nnnnnnnnnnggggggg karmic balance nut ahhhhhhhh....
God, I am so ridiculous, seriously though I love to fuck rude bitches and make them chase me and turn them into decent humble people in the process.
Really, I'm doing god's work!
EDIT lol all down-votes are from 1. Black guys with small penises OR 2. Racist white fathers :D
[–]ReMaxius 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should spend that energy else where.
[–]Scrub_TLC -3 points-2 points-1 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha true, very insightful! Like my own guru ;)
I only do things I like to do -- so in some cases, while it's not the best use of my time, it does not really matter --since there is no real purpose to existence, thus if it brings me enjoyment then I might as well pursue those ends.
The other perspective is my time could be spent more profitably. So when I am able to make those better choices I do. The greatest peace I have found in life is accepting me for who I am today and trying to better myself as I am able, but without the burden of shame as a motivator. I try to see an outcome that is positive and try to best myself as a self-competition for motivation.
I say all this because I have some real issue with attention and focus so if I get down on myself for having the wrong priorities, which I almost always do, then I am not very far from despair and despair is not far from a noose.
We all have to find our path to crafting *our best self in the least objectionable and most self-palatable way.
Suffering brings growth
Pain is the furnace in which we are forged
EDIT Misspelling, Re-Phrasing, Punctuation (make things easier to read)
[–]ReMaxius 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As incredibly existential and nihilistic as that sounds, I relate with most of it.
[–]Starboy1492 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your crazy bro lol
I have slept with plenty of white women, but if they disrespect me, I'd rather not deal with them.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you really want success, get good photo's and get tinder plus.
[–]Ryden7 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is it ever worth sending a second message if they dont respond? Sure u have nothing to lose, but u look desperate?
Also I have trouble transitioning from matches to dates, any advice?
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never send a second message if they don’t respond. Waste of time.
Regarding dates, i have 0 advice on that, but you can search Reddit for a post elaborating on that
[–]mirj626 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I paid for Tinder Gold - which costs $18 - and I get 2-6 matches a day. Think of it this way: when you go on an actual date, you'll be spending at least $ 20 on drinks. You're basically paying the same amount, for unlimited access to women.
I mean people spend $20 on a large pizza and never eat it, or on booze for just 1 fucking night. Tinder Gold lasts you one month, not one night. So sack up and pay for it.
Plus I don't have to waste time swiping unnecessarily, I just check once a day who's swipped right on me - and swipe back if I like them.
[–]TinderellaWorldwide 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make sure that you have six bulletproof pictures that tell a story about how you're a cool and interesting person and a bio that actually says something about you. That is worth more than what you'll get for paying. here are some good tips for writing a bio. It's all about knowing how to show yourself in the best possible light.
[–]GainzdalfTheWhey 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I live in a big city, I usually get 100 a week
[–]themusicgod 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Forget Tinder Gold or Plus - you need Swipely - its basically the ultimate Tinder hack and allows you to like multiple girls (up to 200) at once.
Tinder is a numbers game, for every 100 girls you match you may actually meet up with less than 5 IMO
Ive been using it for 2 years and my results have been so so -ive matched closed to 700 girls, been on around 30 dates, 10 or so lays... conv rates are low.
Swipely definitely helps me save time swiping l/r
[–]rollinggrove 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you play a pure numbers game and swipe right on everything then the algorithm will stick you on the bottom of the pile and you'll mostly only be visible to girls who are doing the same - which on tinder is a very bad sign.
I get matches and first messages from women. I also don't even message a lot of women.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you a Demi-god or something
Only if u wanna fuck me
[–]BWVids 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bad because I dont have many good pictures of myself and Im too self conscious to take good selfies lol
I get 2-3 matches a day (I don't swipe, just look at the one swiped me)
I match them and see if anybodt start talking.
1/10 start talking.
So I try get the talk over to snap.
So 2-3 matches a day, one over to snap a week(ish)
Not in the mood for dates, so I just keep them warm on snap and watch the well for red flags.
I delete 2-3 on snap a week to to keep off the uninteresting ones.
Will try bar tonight, old school and many years since.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
90 matches in 4 days after a shitty breakup.. We'll see about dates soon
Edit: Not machinegun-swiping either..
dudes downvoting cuz they jelly. lul
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[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
“You have to say the right thing in order to go anywhere with them.”
First message: hey
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
That’s because following protocols is actually a good thing. If you try too much to impress or stand out from the crowd, you end up sounding like a Steve Carrell character.
Otherwise, his post was fully weird. Don’t follow that.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
But there’s a way to properly stand out with the first message without seeming odd
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Is there? How?
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Something relating to their bio, if applicable
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How’s that worked so far?
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I mean they respond, but a lot of my matches just seem to not use Tinder
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that’s pretty normal. A lot of people, girls and guys, just luise Tinder to get validation. But why don’t you truly the simple hey?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s boring. Other normal guys are gonna just message her “hey” and likelihood of her ignoring it is high because there’s nothing new about getting the message “hey”
[–]tbrmd 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hm probably because they think that pick up line you correlated to their bio was retarded, but don’t listen to the man who knows how to get likes, keep doing you. ❌
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then don’t come up with a stupid line
Problem solved
[–]Frosty1990 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is this man getting down voted? He just showed ya tinder game, this sub is really going to the shits
[–]solive93 -5 points-4 points-3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If they don’t respond just say “You suck at responding :P” usually they respond after that.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dont do this
[–]Scrub_TLC 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you actually having luck with that? or are you just clowning?
[–]solive93 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yah it works.
[–]Swaggy_Mcswagson 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bought tinder gold for a year deleted it after 4 months of nothing. Pretty much sums up my life with women.
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