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[–][deleted] 208 points209 points210 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Have your entire nights goal be this: To have fun and make those around you have fun. If you go out with pussy in mind it's probably not going to happen. If you go out to have fun, girls usually end up around you because they like fun people.
[–][deleted] 49 points50 points51 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Funny how that works. When you stop chasing it, it comes to you.
[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It really does, I don't know if you have looked into the law of attraction but some of that shit is true. When you fret over something that you want, it doesn't come but when you stop thinking about it that's when it comes into your life
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[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok yes, sitting at home all day playing video games being a fat slob is not going to get any girls (except for in sssniperwolf's boyfriend's case lol). I mean more like once you begin to work on yourself, pursue your goals, and enjoy life without needing a relationship, then thats when the girls come along. If your only goal is to get a girl, then you will probably not succeed.
[–]Shadephaze 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This his been the case for me 100% of the time. weird af how it works, but by god does it work
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 202 points203 points204 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I advise you to put your phone away and focus on people.
[–]fairylee 92 points93 points94 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't give a fuck what people might think of you, because you KNOW you're a badass. Have some drinks. Fuck your inhibition. Talk to people.
[–]Kit-Kat-Kankles 84 points85 points86 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Brush your tongue and floss in between your teeth. Bad breath is the worst, especially in a club setting. It is a huge turn off when you have a fire breathing dragon trying to seduce you
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[–]MIERDAPORQUE 64 points65 points66 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is this Shakespeare?
[–]PhoenixFlameFire 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah. I think I remember this quote from one of the Harry Potter books.
[–]shpensha 21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was the most eloquent thing I've heard today.
[–]zeussingh 54 points55 points56 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start the party as soon as you step outside. Talk to people. Make some friends as soon as you reach the club. That's your home base. Keep your phone in your pocket. Have drinks but don't get drunk. Approach without thinking. Don't give a fuck what people think of you. Maintain attitude and approach. Don't look needy. Have fun
[–]boss34112 25 points26 points27 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't drink a lot in the beginning thinking it'll "lighten you up" or Grant you liquid courage. When you settle in with a group or girl then u can start hitting it hard together and be around the same pace. Otherwise you'll look like a drunk weirdo trying to talk to everyone.
Source: I used to be pretty dumb
[–]Themanofthefuture 23 points24 points25 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wear your favourite shirt. One spray of cologne, play your favourite song, go to the bar, order two shots, look around, take them & move on.
This is your night.
[–]LeMisery 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I envisioned this playing in my head Edgar Wright style
[–]joshlukee 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I literally came to this subreddit to ask the exact same question, good luck to you bro.
[–]Inexperiencedblaster 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
CHOOSE LIFE
[–]hawaiianko 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You gotta be the life of the party. If you end up sitting around in the corner, then it will be boring and people won't be drawn to you. I've gone out alone numerous times and always have fun. Key is to make conversation as soon as you get there
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont chase girls, just have fun
[–]JoseCFM 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did it go
[–]JYandeau 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did it go OP?
[–]LumberjackWeezy 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For future people, drink responsibly, especially when out alone.
[–]Bud_Johnson 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take a shower, put on cologne but not too much.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man, good luck, and like others have said: your goal is to simply have fun. If something else happens, it's a plus. Please tell us how it go! We need to hear back from you.
[–]Wickedcarnival 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck. Nothing wrong with going out alone. Keep moving and ask open ended questions and be optimistic. Talk to everyone not just the girls you want sleep with. People are there to socialize and have a good time.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck up the scene man, respect for going out solo. Good shit.
[–]TheCaptainUnderwear 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget to tell us how it went!
[–]TinderellaWorldwide 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did it go??
[–]Mtru6 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make the night fun
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't get too drunk and have fun!
[–]BrutalFuckingTruth 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wear your big dick jeans
[–]SDott123 -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Jerk off before you go.
[–]Rantnotover 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Agreed
[–]SavageJunior 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
why's that? If she give you whine then you won't feel anything
[–]endofdayze 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, I don't think this is the best advice. Having a strong libido helps you approach more... and... If you cum early that's not really your problem, is it?
[–]Ddub4 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. I’ve always hated the advice “jerk it before a date / go to the bar”
[–]IAmDude 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"How can I help these people?"
[–]JoseCFM -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Welp. Op's night out didn't go well
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