What to do after picking a girl up, before you've gotten home?

surf_0 · 2018-12-02T16:51:52+00:00

If you've already gotten the "yes" your work doesn't end here. Its now your job to continuously make the girl feel incredibly desired and comfortable at the same time.

Remember, she is entering a new scenery going to your place. Your number one job should be to keep her feeling as comfortable as possible.

At this point she most likely has a pretty good understanding of who you are as a person and is interested in discovering more.

My advice, keep physical contact and flirting going in the uber, grab her hand, her leg (gently). Talk to her about something funny you saw at the club. The creative juices should be flowing pretty quickly in your head right now (depending on how many vodka sodas you've had), so talking shouldn't be tough in this situation. Once arriving home, open yourself up to her and show her something you are passionate about, you want to show her who you are on a deeper level (I promise you being vulnerable and showing your true colors are what women love to see). My go to is my book collection, women are fascinated by it and it often gives tons of conversation topics that eventually lead the girl sharing intimate passions and stories back.

Once this connection is established, you've made it. Enjoy the rewards.

Rick-Morty · 2018-12-02T16:16:06+00:00

This is so similar to me that I could have posted it.

hunterpua · 2018-12-02T17:31:43+00:00

Go back to light small talk. Its all about comfort and keeping her brain occupied when you're on the way home because if you're too aggressive or things are just too quiet she may get second thoughts but if you're making her feel comfortable and distracting her with conversation then time will just fly and before she knows it, she's on your bed. Once she's there, that's when you go back to being sexual because you know why...

IMBDD619 · 2018-12-02T21:13:08+00:00

If you've already got her going home with you in a Uber, you've already accomplished the most difficult part. If she agreed to go home with you, she should know that it's for sex. I would suggest trying to continue the same level of intimacy while in the Uber as you had before leaving the bar/club. Hopefully you've been making out with her and teasing sex as a possiblity before you asked her to come home. Once you get her home, if sex is already on both of your minds, you probably won't need to do much at all when you get home besides show her where your bedroom is. If she seems somewhat hesitant about sex, either show her something cool/interesting at your house and talk about it passionately to her and try to make her more comfortable or for extra effect pour yourself and her a glass of wine or some other drink and do as above. If weed is legal in your state, and you aren't worried about getting crossfaded and you get the vibe that she smokes too, smoke a bowl with her. That'll really improve the vibe. I hope this helped somewhat.

xxsimplyjosh · 2018-12-03T03:19:28+00:00

This is a good question and you shouldnt feel shameful asking it because thats how you learn and get better than yesterday.

Honestly the three things i need to remember sre this when i pulled a girl. 1) she MUST be comfortable with you at all times. If she sense something weird she will bolt out w.o a sound. 2) keep her emotions up. just playfully tease her a lot but dont overdo it, do inject some genuine statements or two in to make sure shes feeling you and not a bunch of teases stacked on top. You also wanna touch her lightly in some places where she giggles to keep that playful vibe up because thats the only way you’ll be able to see if she reacts to u in a positive way or negative and thats when you tune back if she doesnt react well eg you went too deep...

3) eventually you do want to show ur passions to some degree since she does want to get to know you at a deeper level. By opening this up to her eg photography or reading books for example and talking about it inna confident and passionate way you keep her interested and allured. As long you are comfortable and laid back she will feel it too. If you feel nervous she WILL notice it too and she may think twice.

Doesnt matter what hobby you’re in as long you don’t try to hide it she will like it. Just talk about it like its the best thing

At this point you’re showing her emotional vulnerability and she will feel ecstatic about it since for her to reach that level means she is getting something from you that others couldnt and she feels special/loved

Heavell85 · 2018-12-02T21:50:14+00:00

You must have some kind of pictures or video or something you can talk to her in the evening then when you ask her to come to your place ask her if she want to see,hear or whatever you want. Just not tell wanna come at my place without anything to do there

NotAHumanoid · 2018-12-02T16:42:13+00:00

!remindme

Serg885 · 2018-12-03T13:55:04+00:00

In the cab: touch and kiss, reduce conversation. Otherwise you'll have to re-seduce her when you get home, because you lose momentum. If you have to talk about something, "you have nice lips" then kiss her, "you smell nice" kiss her on the neck etc.

You don't need to be funny or interesting at this stage. It's obvious why you are in the cab, even if you used some excuse. Just keep it sexual and you will be fine.

Title	What to do after picking a girl up, before you've gotten home?
Author	oh_yeah_no_for_sure
Upvotes	28
Comments	23
Date	December 2, 2018 3:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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