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BootycheekJenkins · 2019-03-13T22:12:09+00:00

rolls up to a qt3.14 You're so beautiful that I'm weak in the knees

ArmorPiercingRatshot · 2019-03-13T23:38:08+00:00

"My dick still works"

spongebawbz · 2019-03-13T22:38:11+00:00

See your condition as a blessing rather than a curse: it can be a great way to weed out the girls who aren't genuinely attracted to you 'as a person'. Those girls would leave you if you weren't 'disabled' and suddenly got an accident. That's not love in my book. No need to force wheelchair jokes. Be so cool and normal about your situation that they admire your strength of character to not let yourself be limited by any obstacle that life throws your way.

Khower · 2019-03-14T01:33:49+00:00

Tell her she’ll never have to worry about you walking all over her in the relationship

Reaver_ · 2019-03-14T02:28:37+00:00

Do a wheelie.

guimafelipe · 2019-03-13T21:39:40+00:00

I Have no idea. I would do the same thing i already do without an wheelchair (with the physical limitations of course).

Kiwispam84 · 2019-03-14T06:32:57+00:00

I am so glad you posted this! I’m a wheelchair user as well, and honestly, I’ve struggled with a lot of the same things. It takes time to build a relationship with someone you trust, and I’ve definitely had the same “Is she flirting, or just being friendly because she feels she has to, or is just a bubbly person?” question. Honestly, the best thing I’ve done for myself is to go from assuming the second, to assuming she’s flirting, until she indicates otherwise. There is really no harm in it! One thing that will help differentiate between girls that are flirting versus being friendly is gentle physical escalation. If you push her teasingly and she pushes or touches back, then you touch her leg and she doesn’t flinch, you’re on the right track. (Pro tip- I’ve found that if a girl is into you, touching her legs can drive her wild... and you’re at the perfect height! Especially while dancing...)

This might sound fucked up to others reading who aren’t in our situation, but I know it can be Intimidating to be in a room full of people who are feet taller than you- as a ‘mind hack’, I sometimes imagine everyone also being a wheelchair user. After all, everyone is one bad fall away from being in our shoes, most simply don’t understand that.

Would love to talk about this more with you, if you’re up for that!

democRRacymanifest · 2019-03-14T13:58:26+00:00

One guy I would look to for inspiration if I was you, is Sean Stephenson. He's also in a wheelchair due to severe osteogenesis imperfecta, which also makes him only about 3 feet tall. Despite these "disadvantages" he's got an infectiously positive attitude and outlook on life (and a really hot wife too). Watch some of his stuff on youtube and see if you can implement some of his teachings into your life. :)

hellochoc · 2019-03-13T22:42:12+00:00

https://youtu.be/0z8bnTG6WjU

Might be helpful for ideas at the bare minimum you'll get a laugh.

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-03-14T06:41:56+00:00

I’m in wheelchair buddy, the only thing I can say is that it works anyway if you are normal or in wheelchair

Contact eye body language make her laugh be light and funny guy

And confident, if there is an obstacle if you become angry she will leave you not cuz you’re in wheelchair but nobody want anger people, if you make fun about she’ll see “wow this guy is confident and don’t give a fuck”

kcorda · 2019-03-14T01:25:10+00:00

you have to be very forward / physical imo

2019-03-14T03:39:08+00:00

Lines are cheesy say “hey, how are you?” In a confident manner gage her reaction smile, eye contact etc. if inviting have a convo with her don’t overthink the convo follow the 3 second rule anything you want to say don’t think more than 3 seconds about it (confidence projector). Most importantly kino her, touch her should, if she’s receptive then maybe touch hand waist and eventually sexual kino.

Humors good for the conversation woman love a guy that can make them laugh yet pick up lines definitely come across as cheesy

1977Cash · 2019-03-14T00:53:47+00:00

Dude get a puppy and they will come running to you !!!!! 😂 just be your self and go out and have fun!

sorry_mommy · 2019-03-14T02:46:56+00:00

Ok dude honestly, you're at a disadvantage. I'm sure you know this. Because women, biologically, are looking for a fit mate to reproduce with, and when they see you in a wheelchair their first instinct is gonna be "uh oh this guy is disabled, he will give me disabled children"

So the best thing you can do is to impress upon her that 1) it isn't something that will be passed genetically and 2) it doesn't prevent you from leading a fun life and 3) won't impact her ability to have fun and social status with you. Think of this as just part of demonstrating high value (DHV), but with a different priority than just showing social proof or money.

SanaulFTW · 2019-03-14T03:49:52+00:00

This should serve as a source of inspiration: https://datingcoachonwheels.com/blog/2016/3/3/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-anyone

His way is very honest and simple to follow

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