For 30 days straight I'm going to go out of my way to socialize and learn how to be a better man.

I'm not socially inept, or awkward. I'm just average, kept to myself, and just ordinary.

I'm going to post every single day with results and things I've learned. Hopefully you will enjoy my journey and learn a thing or too with me!

Day 5:

I was busy the past couple of days, so I couldn't keep up the streak. It's good just to focus on yourself, and do the things you like to do. Don't overdo anything.

I decided to go to my current favorite bar, cause it's always dead on Sundays.

I enter in and the bartender has changed, instead of a dude it's a very attractive female blonde. And I sit down in my usual spot, next to the next people to talk to.

This time I immediately introduce myself to the dudes. They were nice people. Got myself a beer like usual.

I always participated in the conversation when I got the chance, and had blast! I even got to make small talk with the bartender when the other guys went to the restroom. She is from Chicago, graduated with a psychology degree.

The dudes were gay, but no problem! They were super friendly, and funny as fuck. "I'd go straight for her". They followed me on Instagram. They definitely were disappointed when I left, they wanted hang out some more.

I'm starting to enjoy going out now, and meeting new people! Although I really can't do super busy bars yet, I just don't know how to socialize there.