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flimini95 · 2019-12-13T22:30:12+00:00

I needed To read this

polarizingpotato · 2019-12-13T23:44:51+00:00

There is actually a book called “The courage to be disliked” which I read almost a year ago.

It was a fundamental mindshift and definitely helps to think in this way.

Good post.

tankjones3 · 2019-12-14T08:43:27+00:00

I heard the following in a speech once: "Someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality".

You will appear to be creepy to some people. You will appear to be ugly to some people. The reactions you get can range from openly hostile, to scared, to neutral, to extremely positive.

It's a big world out there, and while it's human nature to dwell on the negative, the only way to move forward is to keep approaching, exhibit a positive and friendly vibe.

EarthWarping · 2019-12-14T01:28:42+00:00

Once you realize not everyone will like you (it’s math), life gets clearer

antdevil · 2019-12-13T23:51:42+00:00

This is surprisingly powerful. I’m the fizzle out king due to the fear of rejection but I owe it to myself to close the loops now on.

looking-for-a-answer · 2019-12-14T01:39:19+00:00

A wise man once said, “To be yourself is all that you can do.” - Chris Cornell

Hoping that you all know who that is ....

Dan-D-Ruff · 2019-12-14T02:05:27+00:00

"what doesn't change is that I'm having a good time"

Resonated with me

rayneeej · 2019-12-14T13:44:49+00:00

"You would be surprised how much game you have when you are having fun" That's all you need to know when it comes to finding what to say

WeightsNCheatDates · 2019-12-14T16:13:36+00:00

It’s a great place to be where you can say whatever you want, and become entertained by other’s reactions.

Xazax310 · 2019-12-15T12:19:08+00:00

Literally its called "The Game" for a reason! because it's a game. You have two options have fun playing the game or play the game seriously and become frustrated. Honestly I enjoy the reactions I get from women, walk up to one and tell them you think there cute they'll laugh, giggle, talk to you or shut you down. The conversations and meeting them when we start vibing.

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