Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb

kamori_herman · 2020-02-01T19:26:29+00:00

What is ''IOI's"?

PiperBigBell · 2020-02-01T20:22:13+00:00

Dude I have no clue what you're talking about. Your number one priority on date #1 should be to escalate as much as possible and create as much sexual tension as possible. Holding back your escalation could possibly indicate abundance, but it's way more important to convey that with your aura and vibe.

Your words and how you carry yourself. She could also assume you're just scared to make a move. A first date is not for a female to analyze you. A first date is a high value man giving her the opportunity to become apart of his rotation of all stars. It's also to see if both people want to fuck. The ideal situation is where you escalate in a way that doesn't give your power away or convey desperation.

That's where push pull comes in. Rewarding her for qualifying herself or complying through touch. And really touch shouldn't be a goal but a natural extension of the conversation. When you do all of these things right you can have most girls in your bed in 45 minutes to two hours depending on how advanced you are.

Me personally I don't kiss in restaurants anymore, but I will outdoors. I escalate verbally as much as possible and then we go to my house. By the time we're at my house she's heard more than enough from me to know she wants to fuck. Now I just have to show her how physically smooth I am. As for the kiss rule. That's definitely true. However you shouldn't go for compliance you know you won't get. That and a lot of girls won't kiss you but they will fuck you.

advant525 · 2020-02-01T19:31:50+00:00

What if escalation happened, and I mean it really escalated (but not to the point of banging but just lots of touching and making out). Who should be the one setting up the second date? I followed up the weekdays after our date and been flirting over text, however, she appears to be dodging a second date or at least appears to be. What's your assessment of the situation at this point? Should I disengage for a bit?

Sasquatch2018 · 2020-02-02T02:59:35+00:00

Here is a 1st date, I always use, go bowling..you get to look at her ass and she gets to look at your ass. That will escalate the date.

thedudesmashes · 2020-02-02T12:19:34+00:00

This is some of the worst advice I've ever seen. It's like it was written by Buzzfeed or the Tinder weekly email spam newsletter.

You are a guy, you want sex with this girl. You have to portray this by escalating appropriately for the girl, venue, and vibe of the date. There are 2 types of dating, sex dating and relationship dating. No guy, if they are being honest with themselves, wants to focus on the 2nd one as a priority yet if you aren't escalating that's what you're telling the girl to do - hold off and trade small drabs of sex for commitment. Nope, you have to hook her with the sex and then decide if the relationship suits you.

The times I've kissed a girl mid-date (because I wanted to, she was having a good time with me, and I knew I wouldn't be rejected), they've either come home with me that night or at least wanted to see me again. The times I haven't tried, they either friend zoned me, or I knew there wasn't enough connection to have tried so I never heard from them again.

Kissing at the end makes it an awkward forced event rather than something that just happens in the moment. This isn't the 90's.

Don't make out all date once you start, that kills it, but get it out of the way then re-build tension and they'll be jumping you for the next kiss.

Title	Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb
Author	thedudesmashes
Upvotes	21
Comments	18
Date	February 1, 2020 7:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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