Instead of posting asking super trivial questions "ShOuLd I SiNglE oR dOuBlE knoTT mY sHoE lAcEs oN tHe dAtE??" Learn to stop caring so much about what she thinks, Shes sensing your insecurity.

It's better to say the wrong thing CONFIDENTLY than the right thing scared.

Post stories about how you said the wrong (or right) thing and in hind sight what you wouldve done differently (or what worked).

Build a mindset of "every girl is a lesson: they dont matter and I will continually test my self until I do can it without thinking" instead of "dear god PLEASE LET ME NOT FUCK UP THIS SITUATION SHES THE ONE FOR ME!!!"