How much of game is innate?

_SaintJimmy_ · 2020-02-09T23:06:02+00:00

Here’s the thing about game. Its for socially autistic people who stumbled somewhere in their developmental years. Game is all about taking these ideas, systems, frames etc and making them innate, so that there comes a point in time where you’re not actively calculating your moves and aligning them with structured systems like push pull etc, they just flow out of you like water.

I can say this from one year of experience so far. I didn’t only suffer from talking to women, I could hardly talk to anyone without anxiety. I took the principles, rules, and ideas of game and mechanically executed them. In the beginning, it feels artificial, and its because it is. But eventually, as you apply those rigorous ideas or even canned lines, you start to get it. You understand why they work, and you begin to enjoy that new social behavior you’ve discovered, and so it becomes an extension of your day to day social approach. Today, I can talk to pretty much anyone and extend a conversation for a very decent amount of time. I still struggle with being sexually expressive (I wrote a small comment going over this recently), so for me, the next step will be mechanically expressing myself sexually against my corrupted intuition. But its amazing how restorative the process has been so far.

So to answer your question, for the stage you are at, it is skill based. You need to muster the courage and critical thinking to experiment with the ideas you’re reading about. You’ll probably fail, but you’ll get a taste of what its like to score right, and that will drive you forward. Or, you might even get lucky and win some right then and there. In conclusion, the more time you spend executing what you read with finesse, the more those skills become innate.

Hooosreddit · 2020-02-09T21:17:11+00:00

How much of playing football is innate? How much of good cooking is innate? How much of leading a healthy and lasting relationship is innate?

pureresilience11 · 2020-02-10T00:21:35+00:00

game is skill tbh. some people are just naturally talented at things. don't be fooled though, most guys SUCK at game. the average guy is god awful and doesn't have the drive or motivation to get better. you can get pretty far from the average by just studying social dynamics and doing some approaches

-Mavs · 2020-02-10T00:27:04+00:00

Meh, I sucked socially overall in my 20s; filled with doubt etc.

Now in my 30s, I have the confidence, etc to handle A LOT of social situations.

smoothmax · 2020-02-10T00:54:30+00:00

Are you trying to ask, is getting better with women learnable?

Yes it is. Not everyone can become a stud who gets with different, hot women every week. But every guy can get more dates and have better relationships than he did previously ... if he applies himself.

Learning game is a euphemism for dressing and grooming better and becoming more happy, confident and sociable.

Title	How much of game is innate?
Author	about_time8989
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	February 9, 2020 9:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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